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Samantha125:
I'm curious, when a man cheats, it's understandable for who?

Yes, it has been like that right from the days of the ancient

Double0h7:
I was with you until you decided that a man can do wrong and it’s understandable. Does God allow men to have affairs?

Ask Abraham and Hagar

Does it look like we're still living in the ancient times? Were your forefathers using smart phones during the ancient times?🤔🤔🤔

osuofia2:
Yes, it has been like that right from the days of the ancient

Well, I'm not my mother, am I?

OctavianAC:
Because you dad probably had more than one wife or at most one wife but cheated on her (your mom) while she understandably understood that she can't cheat trying it and did not try it.

The very simple truth

Nonexisting1:
Yes because we cheat to satisfy temporary urge. Have you not heard the phrase, when a man cums, he comes back to his senses but when a woman cums, she holds tight to the dick? Men don't cheat with emotions but a woman that cheats can kill her man out of emotions.

This your logic sounds so illogical

NewsPilot:
A man can cheat with 10 other women without any form of emotional attachment to the ladies or disconnection from his partner but when a woman cheats there's very high chance that she's emotionally disconnected from his man

Always

Samantha125:
Wena you still owe me an explanation for tunze queen...😒😒😒

don't you have south african online forums you can stay online 247? 🤔

Let them go as how? Are they being held hostage or what is the exact explanation?

People come online and make funny relationship suggestions without proper context. it's unintelligent.

Many people will not understand you but you said the Truth.

Brahamimo:
Please Guys, never hold on to your partner when they obviously do not deserve you.

You deserve the best, especially from a man or woman whom you intend settling down with. If they are cheats, Let them go.
If they are violent, let them go.
If you're enough for them, and they respect you and the relationship, they would not cheat. Never keep hold on to a cheating partner, cos the first time you caught her or found out, isn't her first time. Even the Bible supports divorce on ground of Infidelity.

Let them Go. Everyone is important, but nobody is too important. Everyone is Replaceable.

No matter how much you love them, let them go. When a man cheats, it's understandable. But when a woman you want to get married to, cheats, there's every likelihood that she won't stop, even in marriage. A wife who is a serial cheat is likely to terminate her husband's life at the instance of her lover.

Don't say you were not Informed. Don't be a SIMP at this young Age. Don't.

This is exactly what finished my father, omorr, that's why I don't take all this church people serious particularly once they start saying god will help you . Am Dem blunt and straight that elders avoid me

I'm not on any other social media platform except for nairaland.

And I like it here, I can piss you guys off without any worry of being tracked down while my people will instead not rest until they find me and give me a taste of my own medicine...

DMCA:
don't you have south african online forums you can stay online 247? 🤔

Brahamimo:
So, that was the only thing you were able to read and understand from the whole write-up. This post isn't for you then

Actually, that's the line that spoil the entire write-up.

Samantha125:
I'm curious, when a man cheats, it's understandable for who?

leave him na. It's a two way something.

I am not here to justify men cheating.

You see this equality shenanigan, in the next 100 years
It can never get a foothold in Africa especially now our gen z boys are leading on African manhood call

Look at what's happening in relationship's

Last week a lady refused to take a ring because her man didn't kneel to propose and the guy stood his ground even coming to clear the critics.

The tides have changed and the feminist here should find a way to wrap it up, it's no longer working and it can never work in Africa especially Nigerian

Samantha125:
I'm curious, when a man cheats, it's understandable for who?

That is the lie men tell themselves in this world to help them sleep better.

TheBillyonaire:
Understandable because a man is superior to a woman jehovahically, Yahewically and Allahically.

lwkmd

Is it right to leave a partner on grounds that they don’t consider self improvement important?. Partner is loyal but won’t learn skills or pursue development not even at a slow pace. How can someone be in their mid twenties and have never used ChatGPT or curious enough to read on it but will scroll TikTok watching the dumbest sh!t. So dumb that I can’t hide my irritation when it goes on for some time.

Everything else is on point, this is the only thing setting me off.

tunjijones:
There is nothing like cheating between people that are dating. As a single, you do not have any obligation to be faithful to the people you are dating.

You can only cheat if you are married.

Serial cheater, na them be this

osuofia2:
Ask Abraham and Hagar

Tell me you don’t know the meaning of cheating.

Samantha125:
I'm not on any other social media platform except for nairaland.

And I like it here, I can piss you guys off without any worry of being tracked down while my people will instead not rest until they find me and give me a taste of my own medicine...

Why is rape endemic to South Africa?
Any why is HIV almost like an airborne disease?


for the bolded is that how evil and jobless dey can be?
what will they do to you when you are finally tracked down?

PulaPower:
Dey play..

Men say this thing but I don’t think it’s true.. A man can cheat on wife and gets emotionally attached to the other woman..

It’s not a gender thing, it’s a living thing something. You chop one food today, e sweet. You chop another tomorrow, e con sweeter... which one you go like pass?

A married man will mostly get emotionally connected to another lady if he's not happy with his wife or they are good with each other. Aside this, only a weak and simp man will get emotionally connected to another lady outside

I don't know, how about you tell me since you seem to be more knowledgeable about us than me...

And they will give me candies after tracking me down, but the problem is that I don't have a sweet tooth...

DMCA:
Why is rape endemic to South Africa?
Any why is HIV almost like an airborne disease?


for the bolded is that how evil and jobless dey can be?
what will they do to you when you are finally tracked down?

Angelfrost:
Lol... Op, you were really making sense until towards the end when you switched up to Gender Bias.

You should have just maintained your neutral tone and kept the topic balanced.

Excusing infidelity among men as natural and even "understandable" says a lot about how lowly your mentality is especially regarding relationships.




Anyway... I agree with your first paragraph. Holding on to partners that have moved on emotionally from us is just plain dumb.

Ok I'm really sorry

Angelfrost:
Yeah... But, it is better and more dignifying to make your own wealth as a human being with a brain.

God didn't create you solely to be a leech on the wealth of others.

God bless you for this reply.

Jennyclay:
Nigerian men are randy in nature But Never let a financial stable man go else you’ll regret it.

It’s better than being with a broke poverty stricken and dangerous man.

Your mentality is really flawed. Highly flawed. So you are so mentality lazy to think that ladies do not deserve to make their own monies too?
So you can just be in a relationship with a man just because he's a financially stable guy, even at the expense of your peace and dignity. You weren't created by God to be a leech or parasite please. Work for your own money pls . You deserve better

zenburster:
It was at this point: " When a man cheats, it's understandable.", I knew you don't have sense.

Pray mods, how did this tripe end up on the front page?

How

Sorry, don't be pained.

Samantha125:
I don't know, how about you tell me since you seem to be more knowledgeable about us than me...

And they will give me candies after tracking me down, but the problem is that I don't have a sweet tooth...

Your country's news is always about rape and xenophobia.
and also Out of 65 Million people, 8 Million are infected with HIV
12% of the population 🤢