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hi guys,i genuinely love a girl that i ve been dating for close to 2 years but there is a little prob.The prob is that this girl attends a white garment church which i passionately hate!.This girl has almost everything i desire in a lady and genuinely loves me to the point of doing anything for me.what shd i do?

marry her

Then take her to your church for conversion.

[center][/center] To me although i am a lady, i find nothing bad in white garment churches, People persecute them but its nothing to me, although most of the pastors are fake.

The ball is in Ur own court, if u like play, if u really love her, will you because of a worldly thing deny your love. If i were you i would rather follow ma heart and where my peace lays.
                             BYE

Ol boy, there is nothing wrong in white garmented churches, if you hate them so much, u must have a reason for hating it that much, if the reason outweighs your love for the babe, then, look for a suit garmented church babe, or maybe a Jehovah Witness babe, good luck

You said she would do anything for you. . .including attending your church right?

If u truly love her, u would accept everything dt comes with d package. There are no half measures in love. Get to know her reasons and accept them. If u marry her without first clearing dt bit in ur lives u might end up having issues(irrelevant issues if i must add). So accept her d way she is and live happily ever after. Safe man!

Wouldnt she naturally become a member of your church after marriage?

desgiezd:
Wouldnt she naturally become a member of your church after marriage?

Yeah. . .that's what I always thought as well.

@ Poster

If u hate white garment churches and u say ur love is reciprocal, then tell her to stop going there.
Keep up the relationship with her.

hi fellow nairalanders,thks all for the advice.wishing u success in all ur endeavours

Not all people believe in white garment churches.

But if you truly love this girl as you claim you do, then you can advise to start attending your church.

desgiezd:
Wouldnt she naturally become a member of your church after marriage?

exactly!

religion is an issue that must not be taken lightly in marriage for the sake of peace in the future family.

what u shuld do is sit down and have a heart to heart talk with the lady and tell her your fears and worries.

ask her what she thinks about them and the possibility of her considering conversion (but only if u have a good alternative which will not make her regret)

what i mean is what religion do you practice yourself and are u "adept" at it?

be charitable and considerate about the way you go about this dialogue and if she refuses to budge, you can break off with an understanding to remain friends (there are too many enemies in the world, we don't need to make any more).

all the best and remember the greatest of all virtues is charity (love)

@ carlosein

I love the way you think, couldnt have said it better myself


@ topic

This is one of them cases u dont brush aside veiling it with love, such issues should be straightened out fair and square before marriage . . as it seems, one person must compromise, but the question is - - who's it going to be?

U got tallent.U got tallent.U got tallent.

Easybaby:
Attend her church or leave her alone!

Seconded.. .

convert her to black garment church