₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,330,282 members, 8,444,781 topics. Date: Tuesday, 14 July 2026 at 02:13 AM

Toggle theme

“I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomance“I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea (14513 Views)

1 2 Reply (Go Down)

“I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by alphonsoolajide(op): 6:54am On Sep 23, 2025
“I Can’t Date a Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Cleaner

A Nigerian man has gone viral after boldly declaring that he cannot date a woman who earns ₦100,000 per month, insisting that such an amount is “too small” to sustain a relationship.

The young man, identified as a cleaner, made the statement during a street interview titled “POV: Men If Roles Were Reversed.” Eyes Of Lagos reports,
“₦100k Can’t Even Fill My Gas”

When asked if he could date a woman earning ₦100,000 monthly, the cleaner replied:

“No, I can never date a girl that earns ₦100,000 a month. ₦100,000 is too small; it cannot even fill my gas.”

He further emphasized that any woman who wishes to be in a relationship with him must be making at least ₦2 million monthly.
His Own Bank Balance

In a twist that shocked viewers, the interviewer asked him about his own finances. The young man admitted he had just ₦1,270 in his bank account at the time of the interview.
Reactions Trail Viral Video

The clip sparked heated debate online, with Nigerians sharing mixed reactions:

Just football:
“In today’s dating scene, many women avoid men who are financially struggling, yet expect men to accept them as they are. When those men succeed, they raise their standards, leaving choosy women single, while wealthy men pursue baby mamas or younger women. The game is the game.”

Mere Mortal:
“My ex is a millionaire, my woman currently is more than half a mil, anyhow you look at it, there are levels to this thing… There’s male hypergamy too.”

Elpee Environmental:
“This is no man o but boy/pikin. Someone earning 100k can’t date you but you have just 1k for your akant? Na thunder go fire this boy.”

Stanley:
“Same here, I can’t date a poor girl. You must be well to do before I can date you. Cause no b me u wan use escape poverty.”

Deiz Khalifa:
“Normally this guy is delusional, however I kind of agree. Guys also have the right to set their standards; girls shouldn’t be the only ones deciding.”

The Bigger Picture

The video adds to ongoing debates about money, dating standards, and gender roles in Nigeria’s modern relationships. While many laughed at the man’s unrealistic demands, others argued that men also have the right to set financial expectations in relationships — even if their own situation doesn’t measure up.
https://eyesoflagos.com/i-cant-date-a-girl-who-earns-%e2%82%a6100k-monthly-she-must-earn-%e2%82%a62m-nigerian-cleaner/

Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by jaeyking(m): 7:03am On Sep 23, 2025
Everyone should have the right to set his or her standards

What ever consequences of such standards you bear it alone
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by helinues: 7:03am On Sep 23, 2025
He's such a clout chaser. How much is he making from his cleaning job monthly?
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Sonnobax15(m): 7:30am On Sep 23, 2025
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be ....

So long these bannies keep on raising their standards, nothing should also stop men from mastering what they(bannies) started themselves undecided
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:31am On Sep 23, 2025
helinues:
He's such a clout chaser. How much is he making from his cleaning job monthly?
Bro calm down. Women too should know that they are not the only ones who should be setting standards. Men should set their own standards too
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by fasho01(m): 10:05am On Sep 23, 2025
His relationship, his choice. No gender has a monopoly on setting standards for themselves grin
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Gotocourt: 10:08am On Sep 23, 2025
Men have started speaking out cheesy, my ex came and borrowed my body spray for a Sunday event. Naso she get standard but no shishi, she's yet to return it🤷🏿. Wahala for who take that gender serious.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by KingMack(m): 10:08am On Sep 23, 2025
Any girl on this forum that can be in support of what the dude says in original content
And please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters is a wife material

This will make the forum more interesting for everyone

Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by manuelkel(m): 10:08am On Sep 23, 2025
Good one, poor man too get choice.

Don't settle for less.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by inoki247: 10:12am On Sep 23, 2025
Lol everybody with there want and putting themselves in tight spot...



Shey girl wey dey chop Sportyyy count shocked shocked shocked
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by ObasaHF: 10:12am On Sep 23, 2025
The unannounced error killing societal values from both genders.
Someone whose economic value is Z-, is requesting as a standard a woman whose economic value is B+.

What happened to him?
Why not raise your value first before demanding a reciprocal value.

Such a man is simply a failure and a gambler wanting to profit without investment.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Fisher007: 10:12am On Sep 23, 2025
What this guy is saying will soon come to pass when men become scarce.

There are already invisible men among us.
Meaning men who don't exist as men in the eyes of women.

Now when the population increases and ratio of women to men is 10 to 1.

Men will start making unrealistic demands like women also.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by muyico(m): 10:13am On Sep 23, 2025
Skits, we too dey take everything real in Nigeria
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Ganicus676: 10:13am On Sep 23, 2025
If na woman talk like this, people for comot dey defend am.


So me sef go happily support this my homie with DJ Cuppy phone number.


Nothing do you guy, you sef na specs, anybody wey no reach, no climb....
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by bikefab(m): 10:13am On Sep 23, 2025
Lol...the tall dreams are not meant for women alone. What is good for Greece is good for Uganda
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Pootle: 10:13am On Sep 23, 2025
the other gender are angered by this response but everyone has the right to chose what he wants
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Ibechris2: 10:14am On Sep 23, 2025
This generation is indeed the only unserious generation.

Wetin I never see.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by CzarChris(m): 10:14am On Sep 23, 2025
alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/i-cant-date-a-girl-who-earns-%e2%82%a6100k-monthly-she-must-earn-%e2%82%a62m-nigerian-cleaner/
Dead body go surplus everywhere, make everybody just dey craze dey go.

We go all dey alright finally.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Michaelajah: 10:15am On Sep 23, 2025
Time to set our own standard too
Very very nice
Girls are poor
Toto Toto Toto everywhere
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Mayhem1: 10:15am On Sep 23, 2025
Geh gehh should be the president of Nigeria, I'm loving the way boys eyes are now opening grin
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Shnew(m): 10:17am On Sep 23, 2025
This man must be joking even ladies earning above 100k a month are all looking for a readymade man.

Just find one kele way serious make you wife am.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by dalongjnr: 10:18am On Sep 23, 2025
Yeah, I kinda agree with his submissions considering the fact that the dating scene is now a circus 🎪 of unrealistic, delusional,overwhelmingly fraudulent in nature.
Many girls uses relationship as a poverty eradication programme.
It's OK(lovely) for a Nigerian man to marry a broke,uneducated, lazy and wild woman from a generational poor background but it's a taboo for a lady to marry a poor but modest man in this country.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by NaijaCover(m): 10:18am On Sep 23, 2025
Mr Blogger, Is Here, Observing As E Dey Go

The guy, don talk as E dey him mind
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by owobokiri(m): 10:22am On Sep 23, 2025
I support him.
The other greedy gender has been setting all sorts of "high jumps" for men since time immemorial.
Let them taste it a little too..
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by favour32(m): 10:23am On Sep 23, 2025
Guys need to set standard.
This guy knows what he wants.

If you want date broke girl.
You go carry load tire
If you empower broke girl,
e go leave you immediately e see higher class except e nor see

Don't date a broke girl as a guy.
Chop clean mouth and waka immediately.
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by Usmanovic95(m): 10:25am On Sep 23, 2025
Content creators doing their normal shooting .Which food e dey cook in a month wey 100k no fit fill his gas. 🙄
Re: “I Can’t Date A Girl Who Earns ₦100k Monthly, She Must Earn ₦2m” – Nigerian Clea by DaddyGoo: 10:48am On Sep 23, 2025
dalongjnr:
Yeah, I kinda agree with his submissions considering the fact that the dating scene is now a circus 🎪 of unrealistic, delusional,overwhelmingly fraudulent in nature.
Many girls uses relationship as a poverty eradication programme.
It's OK(lovely) for a Nigerian man to marry a broke,uneducated, lazy and wild woman from a generational poor background but it's a taboo for a lady to marry a poor but modest man in this country.
Comrade, one hot plate of pepper soup with some mortuary standard Heineken is your portion for this submission!
1 2 Reply

I Can’t Date Men That Don’t Smoke,They’re 2 Minutes Men On Bed - Lady(vid)Your Husband Earns 100k A Month, How Much Do U Want Him To Give You As AllowanceAnita & Jide: Man Who Earns ₦15m Asks His Fiancee Who Earns ₦42m To Quit Her Job234

Physical features You Want In Your Spouse ?I've Been Wooing Her For Long On FB, Then Today She Uploaded ThisLadies' Guide On How NOT To Court!!