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Kobojunkie:
You didn't answer my question to you, which is, where do you get this idea that bride price should only be paid for virgins when historically— across so many cultures worldover— that has never been the case.🙄

Another issue with your OP is that it assumes that the insistence by traditionalists that men be full-time providers has something to do with or is connected to the virginity of a woman. I would very much like to understand also where you obtain this preposterous idea of yours from, given that the traditional model of marriage — and this is across so many cultures world over — insists that for the man to become the head of household in marriage, he ought to take on, fully, the responsibility of provider. Essentially, when a man marries a woman traditionally, he not only acquires the title of head-of-household but also assumes the role of provider for the woman in the marriage; this is irrespective of the virginity status of both individuals in the marriage.

Your entire premise seems geared towards perpetuating this victimhood mentality for men, without providing evidence for any of the insinuations made. I wonder if it is the case that you also believe somewhere in there that men are forced into marriage or something.

You read to respond. Try reading to comprehend.

Go and read what I wrote again and this time, slowly so you can comprehend my point.

otherway:
➜You read to respond. Try reading to comprehend. Go and read what I wrote again and this time, slowly so you can comprehend my point.

Are you sure you are alright? Are you not responsible for writing and posting the OP along with the image message attached, or something?

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are alright? Are you not responsible for writing and posting the OP along with the image message attached, or something?

I have observed your comments on nairaland and I can tell you that you just love to make a pointless post just for the sake of posting.

This thread is straight forward and very very unambiguous.

Instance:
Bro I disvirgin a lady who is even married now.
I just don't enjoy de stress. Also loose guarded one gal bcuz she was a virgin.. All dis virgin thing no just count for me... As long as de lady is decent {not promiscuous} I'm cool with you.

Holy book say na u go marry the one you disvirgind.. you don't already miss the track. God will help you

Myrepublic:
Holy book say na u go marry the one you disvirgind.. you don't already miss the track. God will help you

Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄

In the book, a prophet called Hezekiah married a prostitute. Was he the one who was written to have been her first? 🙄🙄

Christianity is a game of manipulation; Christians consider that book that belongs to the Israelites a handbook with which they can imagine all of their many vices sanctioned merely by their declaring it so. 🥱🥱🥱

If that's how you view women, you shouldn't be marrying anyone.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄

In the book, a prophet called Hezekiah married a prostitute. Was he the one who was written to have been her first? 🙄🙄

Christianity is a game of manipulation; Christians consider that book that belongs to the Israelites a handbook with which they can imagine all of their many vices sanctioned merely by their declaring it so. 🥱🥱🥱

Go and read Exodus 22:16

Even if it's Israelite notebook, atleast it teaches them to behave like humans,and not wide animals.. Abi e get Wetin them write in there,when say make you do evil? The book teaches good morals.


Now,when you say Christianity is all about manipulation,I totally understand where you are coming from,so I won't argue with you..

Do have a nice day...

Myrepublic:
Go and read Exodus 22:16 Even if it's Israelite notebook, atleast it teaches them to behave like humans,and not wide animals.. Abi e get Wetin them write in there,when say make you do evil? The book teaches good morals. Now,when you say Christianity is all about manipulation,I totally understand where you are coming from,so I won't argue with you.. Do have a nice day...

The book says absolutely nothing of what you allude. Stop hiding your lies behind the mentions of that book.

Only virgin deserves a virgin