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| I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by KiNg0G(op): 8:51am On Sep 27, 2025 |
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free.. First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop. Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age. Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man. I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge. 13 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by obiekunie01: 9:04am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Dont stress yourself bros! All of them na the same thing. The difference be say some dey stay their papa house dey runs am, while some dey their husband house dey runs am. Some stay their school hostel de runs am, while some dey stand for road dey runs am, and some dey hire room to dey runs am. Some ma dey live for hotel dey runs am. THE KOKO BE SAY ALL ALL NA PROSTITUTES - SOME PREFER TO USE THE BAPTISM NAME 'RUNS GIRLS' WHILE OTHERS PREFER TO USE THE CONFIRMATION NAME "HOOKUP!" - ALL NA ASEWO! SOME DEY EVEN START AT AGE 13! AND WHICH EVER WAY YOU TAKE APPROACH AM, IT MUST COST YOU MONEY WELLA! Dey even pray make e dey cost you only money bc some people, e cost them their lives! 116 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by SHIVA001: 9:06am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Find one of the Hook up girls and be dating now, u won't be paying that much again,they also need love too forget say dem dey do hook up. The only thing is that they won't stop doing the hookup with other guys  60 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by KiNg0G(op): 9:06am On Sep 27, 2025 |
obiekunie01:I get you bros.. but nor be the help I need be this. E don tire me... 9 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by KiNg0G(op): 9:09am On Sep 27, 2025 |
SHIVA001:I tried it back fired several times, nor be as you deylook am.. immediately you start paying less, you go see their true character and be like them dey do you favour. Disrespect and all...for my person, I don't like stress but man this is getting a toll on me 8 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by SHIVA001: 9:20am On Sep 27, 2025 |
KiNg0G: na so woman be now, Even if you start dating A lady from the church, dem go Still show u shege maybe u should find a lady from the church then. 14 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Sonnobax15(m): 9:33am On Sep 27, 2025*. Modified: 11:21am On Sep 27, 2025 |
 One thing about myself which I so much love is the fact that I've never been to a brothel all my life.......... Neither have I had a taste of how the girls there taste like  . In fact,I don't know if I'm the only guy,but I'm the kind of selective type when it comes to intimacy.........No be every banny wey I see my diick dey rise for.......Also, building a relationship with my current banny up to this time, making it 4 years hasn't been easy......But being tolerant has always been the key.......If you say you wanna find a banny with a 💯 good character,my brother you go waka lost cuz there's none out there...... Being in your late 30's isn't a bad idea....... You can as well start allover......look for bannies within the age of 30-34 cuz majority of those ones don dey close to their retirement . But you see those under 30's,my brother don't even say Hi to them let alone having any thing to do with them.. 50 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by dahmie2013: 9:33am On Sep 27, 2025 |
My brother, if you are a Christian, Jesus is your redemption. Tell it to him, he'll know how to heal you. 40 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Maj196(m): 9:56am On Sep 27, 2025 |
My brother those girls are demons and they would only wreck you the more. If you know you don't have a girlfriend or not getting married soon, do soapy oo. No cost, No diseases 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Kajaard: 9:59am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:The boldfaced made me burst out laughing  Funny but true 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by JOACHINpedro: 10:39am On Sep 27, 2025 |
I still don't understand how people would waste money on sex with a public server. An activity that won't last for 10mins. Op be logical and see how you've been messed up. The addiction sef is gross risky healthwise. Better to use that money to try making an exotic meal. 17 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Nackzy: 11:09am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Get a church girl that's ready for serious relationship 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by gbaskiboy: 11:10am On Sep 27, 2025 |
First step is to talk to people about your habit not people who are in same habits of yours. Speak to mature person that is the first step to end your addiction on prostitution.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by YeyeGbami: 11:12am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Wetin be these, you fit dey carry OS and still function oga. You dey give OS 80K per night You go run down las las 97 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by stampo: 11:12am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Just stop going to meet them, instead let them come to meet you up.... Guy, you will love it. Continue... 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by jaxxy(m): 11:13am On Sep 27, 2025*. Modified: 11:52am On Sep 27, 2025 |
U need to first understand its not just unhealthy its a dirty habit and if care isn't taken affects other areas of ur life negatively. So why would u want to intentionally hurt yourself or self destruct? Drop it! 2. To stop this u need to either find a decent partner and stick to only her OR go completely Celibate for atleast 6months to a year and focus on cleansing ur body and mind. I Strongly recommend the latter. 10 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by FarahAideed: 11:14am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Why you sef go the sleep with strange woman ..never sleep with any woman till you have a strong connection with her ,if not they will drain your life force and make you useless 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Onlinetutor7: 11:15am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Give your life to Christ, Now. If not, your Doom is nearer than you think. 10 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Love800(m): 11:15am On Sep 27, 2025 |
That's your lifestyle. Well, know the disadvantage part of it. Kudos. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Rollingdollar: 11:16am On Sep 27, 2025 |
This thing is not hard if you are serious with Christ, honestly speaking give it a try and see for yourself. Just be consistent with Him and you shall see how better you have become. He can redeem all your wasted efforts. The devil has tormented you enough. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Emeka71(m): 11:16am On Sep 27, 2025 |
obiekunie01:Simply tell him not to go to meet olosho again because nobody take him there. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Kaybaba5(m): 11:16am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Abstinence is the only sure bet for you, dont kpai yourself before your time. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Enskynelson(m): 11:16am On Sep 27, 2025 |
May God take a way the means you have that is making you patronise prostitute. Can you say AMEN to that? If you are broke, not sure you will have that addiction anymore 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by zoedew: 11:17am On Sep 27, 2025 |
June 30 you called for help. What have you done with the advice you got? Give your life to Jesus and you should soon be free from the bondage you obviously are in. 8 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Uptheante(m): 11:18am On Sep 27, 2025 |
SHIVA001:Can you give this same advice to your son or brother? 4 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by bewisemasses: 11:18am On Sep 27, 2025 |
U will have to give ur life to Christ. Spend more time on spiritual activities, avoid pornography and those unhealthy social media reels. Then submit urself to a church responsibility like preaching to others abt d dangers of what u have been doing to help check mate u when u want to fall. Only a radical decision like this can solve ur problem 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by PulaPower: 11:19am On Sep 27, 2025 |
SHIVA001:No be lie.. Dem dey carry relationship for head pass.. They’re so sweet and can spoil you with money if dem like you.. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by meobizy(m): 11:21am On Sep 27, 2025 |
I don’t see the problem here. OP is getting sex while the women get money. No difference between this and a romantic relationship. Some of those oloshos decide to stay up to a week in a bid to experience what a relationship feels like. If that hasn’t happened then OP is either ugly or still living with parents. He’d have more than his mindset to change if that’s the case. What shocked me multiple times in life was when women I was infatuated with casually suggested that I pay them to have sex. The thing resets my mind and I delegate the woman to the category of an unserious human being. You can always brag about how many women you’ve slept with. An acquaintance told me 80 was a starting number if he was to sit and think of how many women he did. He was twenty-five at the time. I cannot imagine the number he’s reached today. 7 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Edusouls(m): 11:21am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Una don spoil girls finish na the same girls una go still marry in life u can’t eat ur cake and have it, 85% of u men would end up marrying whores and hook ups as wife that’s just the reality 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by NEIGHBOUR(m): 11:22am On Sep 27, 2025 |
obiekunie01:Bros, twale for you!!! You are indeed a research fellow in the field. No additional. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Shegzdave: 11:22am On Sep 27, 2025 |
if you refuse patronising them, who should replace you and how do you want them to break-even or make profit? Continue your patronage 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Cum4me(m): 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025 |
Bro there's nothing wrong with you. The hardship has make our girls something else. Many small girls full area try carry one dey give small change Dem go give you knacking tire I'm a testimony I can never pay for olosho. All those area girls go service you tire with little change. 12 Likes |
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