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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by princepee: 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025
cool cool OGA it's simple...
Get a girlfriend, meanwhile you can self service while you are looking for a girlfriend.


Prostitute is very bad...bad energy plus disease

Make up your mind not to go back
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by rajiedreez: 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025
Let prostitutes start patronizing you then
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Shnew(m): 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025
He no easy normal
If you want stop you know what to do…
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Uptheante(m): 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025
gbaskiboy:
First step is to talk to people about your habit not people who are in same habits of yours. Speak to mature person that is the first step to end your addiction on prostitution..
OP, pls no matter what, don't take this advice 🙏.

Talking to pple about this issue go make you cast & they will use it against you whenever una get problem or whenever they want to deal with you.

The only person you should talk to about this issue is God, because he's the only one who can save you & your secrets will be save.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by gassbee: 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025
Will u die if u get married
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by occfx: 11:23am On Sep 27, 2025
KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.
Chai, you don chop shiiit tire. How do you manage to dig different gutters every week. Thank God I no dey do that nonsense
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by MatrixCircle: 11:25am On Sep 27, 2025
Matthew 5:29-30, cut off anything that continously lead you to sin'
In your own case , it is better to go to heaven without a penis than go to he'll with it.

Kill the urge and replace it with a beautiful woman and the word of God. Fill that space of lack of confidence of approaching responsible women.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by adisabarber(m): 11:25am On Sep 27, 2025
KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.
Discipline is all you need. Don't go to places where you are likely to see them. If u must go to a bar, go to one that there are no prostitutes.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by galadee(m): 11:25am On Sep 27, 2025
Bros your d**k na G.O.A.T you deserve Ballon D'or ,even Messi dey envy you grin grin
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by SHIVA001: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2025
Uptheante:
Can you give this same advice to your son or brother?
Yes of course, I go say make he go dey date lady for their church now.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by tabaralph: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2025
SHIVA001:
Find one of the Hook up girls and be dating now, u won't be paying that much again,they also need love too forget say dem dey do hook up.
The only thing is that they won't stop doing the hookup with other guys grin grin
You are right on point but the issue with this guy is that he likes sampling them rounds in different places,shapes, sizes and colours just like the run girls,this dude forgot to tell us how many times he has cured different diseases and infections.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by SHIVA001: 11:29am On Sep 27, 2025
tabaralph:
You are right on point but the issue with this guy is that he likes sampling them rounds in different places,shapes, sizes and colours just like the run girls,this dude forgot to tell us how many times he has cured different diseases and infections.
grin grin. Problem no dey finish. My guy like opueh, make he find one church girl and be dating na.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by AK481(m): 11:29am On Sep 27, 2025
KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.
You never serious.

Why you go post ashawo picture ? Person wey him prick dey for problem no go get time download and upload picture
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by chiboycue:
KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.
First of all you have to ask God for forgiveness.
You also need to forgive yourself.
Then stop patronizing prostitutes.
Cultivate the habit of saving a fraction of your income.
Starting going to the Church and identify with a service arm of your church to build your spiritual life.
You would find homely single ladies in the Church. You become friendly with them and start getting close to the one your heart chooses.
Then do a traditional and statutory marriage.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by omoadeleye(m): 11:31am On Sep 27, 2025
KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.
Just get a girlfriend and start spending on her, you will surely get sex every time for her
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by VaginaAcademic: 11:31am On Sep 27, 2025
First of all go do STD test o
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by micflo28(m): 11:33am On Sep 27, 2025
80k don reach you to save and marry and give to your wife to run your family. Girls this days are very hungry, you are at risk of dangerous diseases if you don't take your sexual life seriously.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by NiRfreak(m): 11:34am On Sep 27, 2025
We nairaland bro need to organize 7 days online prayer for you. Because we are sad that one of our real own is passing through this demonic oppression. Since u really come out unashamed I pray the Lord shall lose u the Lord shall set u free from the hold of oloshoism. Amen.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by bigpicture001: 11:35am On Sep 27, 2025
stampo:
Just stop going to meet them, instead let them come to meet you up....

Guy, you will love it.

Continue...
Brothel. Ladies they thief well well oo.. if u enter bathroom, them go steal your money or chain or watch etc
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by ledaman: 11:36am On Sep 27, 2025
KiNg0G:
I get you bros.. but nor be the help I need be this.
E don tire me...
Firstly, you need to engage yourself in Religious programmes that would change your mentality or work with people that are Religion oriented.
It not a shame for you to explain your predicament with them.
Secondly, you can add fasting to make your prayers answered quickly.
May Almighty God change your status quo.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by josielewa(m): 11:36am On Sep 27, 2025
na una dey spoil all these OS..80k for daybreak, burst my head. anything above 15k am out of there. OGa just go for your level.

My Honest advise is you having a girl who also just wants sex. There are girls like that. But bro you get money o, because of sex you spending almost 100k weekly. Bro just soapy and give your self peace of mind or else na poverty dey knock your door at 40 years. get a girl, lie to her about your financial power and gift her at intervals, like a normal gf. Lagos babes are ready to send you back to the village and depressed till you finally hang yourself. Quit now and forge a new path ahead..
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by richiemcgold: 11:37am On Sep 27, 2025
adisabarber:
Discipline is all you need. Don't go to places where you are likely to see them. If u must go to a bar, go to one that there are no prostitutes.
I've read all the comments and I can boldly say this is the best so far. I hope op takes this advice seriously.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by gbaskiboy: 11:37am On Sep 27, 2025
Uptheante:
OP, pls no matter what, don't take this advice 🙏.

Talking to pple about this issue go make you cast & they will use it against you whenever una get problem or whenever they want to deal with [/b]you.

[b]The only person you should talk to about this issue is God
, because he's the only one who can save you & your secrets will be save.
In my comment I urged the poster to seek help from Mature person, whom do you consider as a mature person? Talking to mature person will never bring up his secret no matter what happens he will rather help him to get out of his addiction.
People pay money to get someone to advise how many of them has come out to exposed their clients? And you mentioned that he should speak to God, yes I agreed with you but will God come down from the heaven to show him way out? If you are undergoing serious problems and you decided to keep it to yourself that is your own way and it should never be imposes on anyone.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Starz825(m): 11:38am On Sep 27, 2025
Maj196:
My brother those girls are demons and they would only wreck you the more. If you know you don't have a girlfriend or not getting married soon, do soapy oo. No cost, No diseases
Too much soapy sef bad....it affects blood flow to the heart and brain...

He come be like say life na trap...no where you wan go wey wahala wahala wahala no dey grin

Pick the one with the least disadvantage tho

Meanwhile,

for OP...it's a mental issue....apart from having a high sexual libido... sleeping with different ladies in different sizes is a mental issue...

You need therapy.....
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Kenelekan: 11:39am On Sep 27, 2025
Send me private message lemme take you through a counselling session and how to get a wife to get married to in 6 months

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Uptheante(m): 11:40am On Sep 27, 2025
SHIVA001:
Yes of course, I go say make he go dey date lady for their church now.
Among all the beautiful & decent girls in the world, na only olosho he go marry?
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Mindlog: 11:40am On Sep 27, 2025
Nackzy:
Get a church girl that's ready for serious relationship
He is so messed up, his mind cannot process nor withstand being in a serious relationship with any woman. He needs working on himself before any serious relationship.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by NiRfreak(m): 11:41am On Sep 27, 2025
gbaskiboy:
First step is to talk to people about your habit not people who are in same habits of yours. Speak to mature person that is the first step to end your addiction on prostitution..
In my own case , I didn't talk to anyone, I only simply genuinely gave my life to Christ praying, fasting and stop going to bars totally, while going to church regularly as much as I went to bars these days.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by ajalawole(m): 11:41am On Sep 27, 2025
obiekunie01:
Dont stress yourself bros!

All of them na the same thing.

The difference be say some dey stay their papa house dey runs am, while some dey their husband house dey runs am. Some stay their school hostel de runs am, while some dey stand for road dey runs am, and some dey hire room to dey runs am. Some ma dey live for hotel dey runs am.
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THE KOKO BE SAY ALL ALL NA PROSTITUTES - SOME PREFER TO USE THE BAPTISM NAME 'RUNS GIRLS' WHILE OTHERS PREFER TO USE THE CONFIRMATION NAME "HOOKUP!" - ALL NA ASEWO!

SOME DEY EVEN START AT AGE 13!

AND WHICH EVER WAY YOU TAKE APPROACH AM, IT MUST COST YOU MONEY WELLA!

Dey even pray make e dey cost you only money bc some people, e cost them their lives!
bro you sure you normal like this. But true true everybody dey run am.
Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by 1solution: 11:41am On Sep 27, 2025
U should get urself a good girl either from the higher institution girls around U or go get urself a good girl from the church.it costs less and U have hope of getting married. Besides if U must hook up is better is clubs on Fridays in a school environment mis cheaper n U can get something more stable. Go n get tested of hiv once U r negative it helps to caution U on hookups
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