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SHIVA001:
Find one of the Hook up girls and be dating now, u won't be paying that much again,they also need love too forget say dem dey do hook up.
The only thing is that they won't stop doing the hookup with other guys

you carry gun give the guy say make him shoot himself

People have been where you are before and made a turning point, OP you need a strong will to overcome, one can’t be slave to the flesh forever …. Pray about it and work towards it …. Na money dey burn like this o

The problem is when it comes to sex ... the only women that peak your interest are prostitutes so your feet march you to the high end brothels. The same prostitute that sexcites you at the brothel at night may be working at the local pharmacy by day ... but although you don't recognize her ... you have absolutely no interest in her ... see nothing interesting in her. ... because you don't see her as a prostitute. Besides the sex ....whatever makes you pick one prostitute over the others is the something you find attractive in a woman. Look for the same in other women ...in your friends ..in other women ... get out of the tunnel vision... try rid yourself of the mentality that such some. Exist only in brothels ..the streets etc. From this point you need to form friendships ..build relationships ... the sex will be there ... may not be at the level you expect ..but you can always be a teacher ....but you can also be a student since they be tigresses in the bedroom while you're used to house cats only. Start looking at other women.

i swear...na before i dey support yabbing evening news paper...4 under 23s don show me shege...now na 29 yr old single mother dey care for me

Bahamas95:
Just get a lady in her 30s that can match your energy, I mean in za oza room and stick to her. Those ones got lesser problem because they've seen it all. Avoid tiktok girls, dem nor get sense.


I can't believe you spend up to 40 - 80k for sex that you can get almost free these days....How do you even feel after you cūm, e nor dey do you as if you waste money?

gentlegiant95:
You don't have game. If I had even a fraction of the money you have, I wouldn't need to spend heavily before I knack

bros abeg give us game wey no get. Just a few tips. How do you use the little you got to bag a few pussies...especially for one in the ghetto.

Mistersolar:
i swear...na before i dey support yabbing evening news paper...4 under 23s don show me shege...now na 29 yr old single mother dey care for me

single mother ke you dey jump from fry pan to fire. Shey na she dey spend on you, abi na you dey spend?

jamesversion:
I cannot have an erection for a particular consecutively. I have to alternate women to enjoy sex, else it gives me the feeling of having sex under duress.

It's been like that since I came of age. If I have sex with any lady, I cannot have an erection for her again until I sleep with another lady.

Don't allow your village pple to succeed ooh

obiekunie01:
Dont stress yourself bros!

All of them na the same thing.

The difference be say some dey stay their papa house dey runs am, while some dey their husband house dey runs am. Some stay their school hostel de runs am, while some dey stand for road dey runs am, and some dey hire room to dey runs am. Some ma dey live for hotel dey runs am.

THE KOKO BE SAY ALL ALL NA PROSTITUTES - SOME PREFER TO USE THE BAPTISM NAME 'RUNS GIRLS' WHILE OTHERS PREFER TO USE THE CONFIRMATION NAME "HOOKUP!" - ALL NA ASEWO!

SOME DEY EVEN START AT AGE 13!

AND WHICH EVER WAY YOU TAKE APPROACH AM, IT MUST COST YOU MONEY WELLA!

Dey even pray make e dey cost you only money bc some people, e cost them their lives!

My dear you are wrong o.

KiNg0G:
I tried it back fired several times, nor be as you deylook am.. immediately you start paying less, you go see their true character and be like them dey do you favour. Disrespect and all...for my person, I don't like stress but man this is getting a toll on me

If you have the guts to do this, it will solve the problem for you

Do this two thought experiments

Everyday, visualise that you contact HiV or Syphilis from an olosho, imagine explaining that to your close friend or family member

How do you feel?

Second thought experiment, visualise that you lose all your money, and need someone to take care of you in the hospital due to a serious accident

Will these women help you?

You see, brother, you need to face your worst nightmares to stop destructive habits

If you do this exercise daily for ten days, and it doesn't work, dm me.

Maj196:
My brother those girls are demons and they would only wreck you the more. If you know you don't have a girlfriend or not getting married soon, do soapy oo. No cost, No diseases

i thought you were making sense at first only for you to give him a very useless and terrible advice rather than telling him to seek Jesus to deliver him

Attend church service on Sunday and when Altàr call come out you will be prayed for and delivered. Visit a ny of this church Dunamis, RCCG,Living Faith Church (WINNERS CHAPEL) Salvation ministry or MFM you will be delivered.

well she doesnt spend for me and she rejects sometimes if i wanna give, she cooks and gv me peace

Tenrack:
single mother ke you dey jump from fry pan to fire. Shey na she dey spend on you, abi na you dey spend?

AlphaXR:
i thought you were making sense at first only for you to give him a very useless and terrible advice rather than telling him to seek Jesus to deliver him

I don't care what you think, I have said my own

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

Beware of stds

Let me just tell you the truth, first of all you need spiritual cleansing.

Trust me, your demand for s*X every eke day is not ordinary.

I am talking from experience, you don jam different spirits & juju on their body as you dey sleep with them.

Even if you don't catch gonorrhea or other sex infection, trust me, you will catch spiritual virus from them.

You won't get yourself when you don't go there in a week, it's not ordinary.

My brother, go cele church for spiritual cleansing & thank me later

Only Jesus can save you, bro.
Accept Him into your life as personal Lord and saviour.
Hw will surely deliver you.
Thank you.

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

I do this pass you just find a soulmate and thank me later.

Kajaard:
The boldfaced made me burst out laughing

Funny but true

Ahahah!!!

I remember when yahoo pay my guy 49M
Na every night baba dey carry OS steadily
NOW BABA DON BROKE.
All those girls are nowhere to be found.


Me sef nothing concern me with woman konji dey hardly catch me

KingDashx:
I remember when yahoo pay my guy 49M
Na every night baba dey carry OS steadily
NOW BABA DON BROKE.
All those girls are nowhere to be found.


Me sef nothing concern me with woman konji dey hardly catch me

You don’t know what the Lord has done for you. I Dey wake with konji sef🤦‍♂️

Person wey don dey arrange money for tonight

KiNg0G:
I get you bros.. but nor be the help I need be this.
E don tire me...

..why should you pay 40k for short when there are places you can pay 2k or3) for short....the 40k is draining your finances ..but if you want solution to your problems you have to try and go to a strong deliverance church where they can pray for you inorder for you to receive deliverance from the addiction of sex with prostitutes.... and then commit yourself by attending church services and programmes.. you can even be a worker in the church ..listen more to the word of God...fill your mind with the word of God and you will see that you will not have much interest in sexual activities with prostitutes and you will see a responsible lady that you will date and later get married to

To marry these days dey fear me, they don scatter the toto of every girl. Nothing is left for us.

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

Since you like OS find one retired OS and marry ASAP

My brother,it's very possible to stop it, it will save you a lot,give urself 1yr without carrying olosho you will be shock at what you are able to save,and achieve,those things dey set my man back,pray to God to help you and also have the will,you will overcome it,it's not too much for God to do

If you can come to Lord's Chosen Chrismatic Revival Ministry (Chosen) to accept Jesus Christ, you will overcome with ease. That was my problem before i encountered Jesus Christ in the Lord's Chosen Chrismatic Revival Ministry and the rest is a testimony

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

YOU DONT LIKE WOMEN??.......WHY ARE U GAY SIR??(no oofeinse)

KiNg0G:
I get you bros.. but nor be the help I need be this.
E don tire me...

Give your life to Jesus and He will give you freedom from prostitutes and all sexual addiction

Somebody talk to me: do people pay asuch as 80k to carrY woman? Na which kain woman be dat?

Maj196:
My brother those girls are demons and they would only wreck you the more. If you know you don't have a girlfriend or not getting married soon, do soapy oo. No cost, No diseases

Soapy all the way men.

A proud ambassador right here!

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

oga nothing do you and no be only u get this problem
75% of Nigerian girls are into hookup so it's a nonstop journey
The problem you have is dat you didn't learn to get girls the hard way that's why u still pay for sex even in ur 30's which is very bad
Choosing the easy way out affects ur development of game as a man
U should try flirting with bannies start having female friends this also helps
I'm guessing u are an introvert who isn't outgoing
Try and make mature friends who will help you

And also try and get a healthy relationship dat will lead to marriage u don dey old oo

But tbh relationships for the past ten years has been transactional so nothing spoil
But u need to remove this womanizing mentality from ur mind or else you will keep using ur resources to buy girls