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Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by eepeepook: 11:18am On Sep 29, 2025
If you had to ask, the answer is yes.

isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by ayando(m): 11:26am On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.


Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home
Are you for real?

Okay na, let's play along.

You need to call you parents to go visit her parents because calling them may not do the magic.

When you get there beg for not being able to provide and ask for her forgiveness as well as her parents.

Then, your parents can ask her why she left. Let your mother do the talking as a woman to a woman.
Believe me, she will come back.
This time, if you don't want her to leave, don't bother about her cheating until you have money to play the game too, okay. But if you don't have the heart, once you have money, your landlord son will stop . Sikena
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by AWONEYAN(m): 12:37pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
I agree with some part of your statement but I want to clarify some of it. Do you think it’s okay to go with the landlord son? He was the one sleeping with my wife. They were also seen together yesterday and ever since she left and after she accused me of badmouthing her she’s not picking my calls. Send her messages everyday yet no reply. I know I made a mistake by asking her too many questions about sleeping with him but I was just pained .

Maybe it’s okay to call one of her friends so we can go together?
I now understand why the woman left the house and started playing victim mentality on you.

He has seen a man with zero self worth..
She is the husband
She has permanently withdrawn conjugal relationship with you,and probably getting her self satisfied some where.
She knows you will come and beg her.
Being poor does makes one loose his sense.

Guy upon all the sarcastic responses...yet you didn't still get it.


Who told you it's only twice ...
Who told that he is the only one...

You are not the one to beg her.
If you do , she will be slept with constantly under your roof.

I pray God will help you sort out your financial issues soon.

Pls move on, get a woman that will give you peace of mind and not break your marriage covenant
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Carazon: 12:49pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home
Tufiakwa!!!
Young man, clean your mouth.
i kwue alu n'onu. Where is your dignity and self worth?
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by HawkTuahGirl: 1:01pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home
Please beg her parent to beg her to come o. Since you no get money, her association with her landlord son means you live rent free.

To err is woman, to forgive is man.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by zed7: 1:25pm On Sep 29, 2025
You guys formulate these stories for what reason? Not like you're getting paid. Grow up.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by motionarena: 1:56pm On Sep 29, 2025
Yes its very right

Better still beg her you wanna sit and watch next time she is cheating
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by pepigeorge(m): 1:58pm On Sep 29, 2025
I don't understand this question.. It sounds stupid.. How did it get to front page.. My cheats, I will then go and apologize to her.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by omoredia: 1:58pm On Sep 29, 2025
Hehe yoruba people way of life. Is it very okay for una side
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by alamscolo(m): 2:00pm On Sep 29, 2025
Only God knows the type of boys that are being raised these days.

W dey disgust me the more I dey read and in accordance with its title. Go beg am, no worry dem go turn your apartment to short time. Tueeh
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by lagonovo: 2:00pm On Sep 29, 2025
Beg her very very well. In fact carry your entire clan follow and ensure you all roll on the floor left and right seven times in front of her. Don't forget to beg your landlord's son too.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Kajaard: 2:01pm On Sep 29, 2025
pansophist:
Rage bait.

a content deliberately created to provoke strong negative emotional reactions, such as anger and outrage, from viewers.

If this is not a rage bait, then you deserve such a woman, after all, we all get what we deserved.
You are very correct. This is a rage bait post

You need to see the way I am getting very angry reading the post angry
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by opera1(m): 2:02pm On Sep 29, 2025
Wait! I don't understand abeg. She cheat on you and you are asking if you should be begging her. For what abeg and who should be begging who?
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Sandralight(f): 2:03pm On Sep 29, 2025
Are you not the same guy that said 100k was peanuts and you are angry that your brother in law send you such instead of giving you millions to start a business, now you are here with another of your bogus stories.

No advice because this story isn't real and you are just looking for clout
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by ARISHEM: 2:03pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

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Guy. You are finished. I recommend you go for deliverance for entertainment that thought to go and apologize in your mind
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Olumaeme: 2:04pm On Sep 29, 2025
Lmao "Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity"

You deserve a very dirty slap for this question.

Go out and find another woman. The marriage should be over.

Also, you married from a very shameless family, that a woman can cheat, and then leave your house to her parent's house confirms it.

You now want to go and beg, for what?

No Nau.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by descartes400: 2:04pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

Google photos used for illustration
Excuse me?
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by deltateam: 2:04pm On Sep 29, 2025
It's a cooked up story from boredom and imagination so no comments.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Mrfixitt(m): 2:04pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

Google photos used for illustration
Where do this kind of men emerge from ? God abeg ooo
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by michoim(m): 2:05pm On Sep 29, 2025
Seems you have finally lost your self...
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Britishpea: 2:08pm On Sep 29, 2025
Please beg her beg her well well....
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Spin4: 2:09pm On Sep 29, 2025
Omo!
😃😃
Foodqueen:
Oluwa ooooo....

I thank God for all the men in my circle.

Jeezeeee .......
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Spin4: 2:10pm On Sep 29, 2025
😉😃
isyourboy:
I pray so. At least she should come home so I can apologize properly
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by captainking(m): 2:10pm On Sep 29, 2025
i do not want to tag you to my response cos i am angry with your thoughts of thinking to apologize to her...
i would have said God punish you... but i am not used to cursing people....

You tolerate this once....you will remain a slave to her for a long time
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Diamond098454(f): 2:11pm On Sep 29, 2025
davillian:
she just earned herself a silent treatment from me....
until she leaves the house or kill herself.....
i would stop eating in the house but yet provide.
greetings wont be answered
wont sleep in the same room
and would always return late
hmmm you are wicked
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by danieldinho: 2:11pm On Sep 29, 2025
Kai poor man they suffer oh. Bross abeg end the marriage
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