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Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? - Romance (3) - Nairaland

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Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Druss(m): 2:14pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

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Are you kidding me? You must be karma farming.

Mods ban this person or give this account kids rights. No adult should think or post this.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by NOETHNICITY(m): 2:14pm On Sep 29, 2025
Yes, call her and beg her. Also, beg your landlords son. Tell them you are fine with whatever they are doing..
you really need to apologize to her
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by bukatyne(f): 2:15pm On Sep 29, 2025
AWONEYAN:
I now understand why the woman left the house and started playing victim mentality on you.

He has seen a man with zero self worth..
She is the husband
She has permanently withdrawn conjugal relationship with you,and probably getting her self satisfied some where.
She knows you will come and beg her.
Being poor does makes one loose his sense.

Guy upon all the sarcastic responses...yet you didn't still get it.


Who told you it's only twice ...
Who told that he is the only one...

You are not the one to beg her.
If you do , she will be slept with constantly under your roof.

I pray God will help you sort out your financial issues soon.

Pls move on, get a woman that will give you peace of mind and not break your marriage covenant
@bold:

While I understand your message, it is appalling to think that you believe the wife's actions are OK if done by the husband.

I believe your definition of a husband isn't having the 'right' to be nasty or evil to his wife
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by zenburster: 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2025
This is Super Story!!! 🎶🎶🎶
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Wallade(m): 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2025
Tenrack:
Yes. Please invite her family over. Go to the market and purchase those items you used for marriage introduction. Kneel down like your life depends on it and prostrate afterwards. Apologize to her and tell her you can't do without her. Please try to appear very very sorry. Don't worry everything would be fine.
This makes little or no sense.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Flo36: 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2025
To even post it here is offense, woman cheat on u and u want to apologize
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Karleb(m): 2:23pm On Sep 29, 2025
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by naughtysaus: 2:24pm On Sep 29, 2025
It is finished...
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Diamond098454(f): 2:24pm On Sep 29, 2025
Wow, this is my dream husband
A man that will keep apologizing to me whenever i messed up.
You are a good man
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Localordinary: 2:25pm On Sep 29, 2025
She is not your wife, u did not pay for bride price. Pls leave that relationship immediately if u dont want thunder to strike u right away
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Ten06(m): 2:28pm On Sep 29, 2025
Yes, that may be true in America and Europe where they treat their wives like gods, but not in Africa. In Africa, it is the person who does the wrong thing that will apologize.
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by MerchantMNT: 2:28pm On Sep 29, 2025
davillian:
she just earned herself a silent treatment from me....
until she leaves the house or kill herself.....
i would stop eating in the house but yet provide.
greetings wont be answered
wont sleep in the same room
and would always return late
What a nuclear response!

Who send greetings
Funny guy
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by gigabyte13: 2:29pm On Sep 29, 2025
🤣😅😅😂😂😅😅🤣
😂😂😅🤣🤣😅😂😂
Make e just be fiction
Make e no be true life story
If na true life story
Dem supposed carry the Man dash Amadioha abi sango, anyone wey near am immediately as sacrifice for other MUMU men to receive Sense.....
Like what the Bleep....
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by ayoncox: 2:29pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

Google photos used for illustration
Don't beg her oh, go and see her parents and tell them what happened
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by D111: 2:32pm On Sep 29, 2025
This must be a movie
But if para venture it true life story
This man is most foolish man on earth
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by LordBoffin2(m): 2:32pm On Sep 29, 2025
A woman caught cheating is a dangerous woman.
She is not mad that she cheated but she is mad at you because you caught her.
Also, she is trying to gaslight and emotionally blackmail you after she was caught.
If you take her back, she would cheat on you many times because she knows you'd be a fool to do so.
Avoid her foods if you can.
Also note that not all widows are innocent...
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Zetty177x: 2:34pm On Sep 29, 2025
Yes
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by alpharoyalty: 2:35pm On Sep 29, 2025
isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

Google photos used for illustration
Sharaap, we know you are lying
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Localordinary: 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2025
Shame no dey society again. Opueh, twe
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by CorperKola: 2:48pm On Sep 29, 2025
This isnt very unrealistic no matter how unrealistic you feel it may be
I assure you it isnt bacause this bro feels its his fault becuase of his financial incapability.
When you go broke you will find out just how much your wife loves you or how much women can really love men in general
Imo women past 22 yrs are incapable of love
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Lionnation: 2:51pm On Sep 29, 2025
This is the kind of stupidity they want us as Africans to copy as culture
Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by Afriifa(m): 2:54pm On Sep 29, 2025
Smitaro100:
Dats an insult to dogs, u for use goat rather than dog.
Bros the matter tire me
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