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Finished mugu man.
Fu*k the marriage .
Once a cheat,always a cheat.
You better dump her cheating ass 😤

isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

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Send me your wife's number, I want to beg her on your behalf and

prigoz:
Dude, this is ironical statement, for christ sake, your mum never do. Imagine you have all the evidence to send her home and you are spewing thrash that you want to call entire community to beg your wife for infidelity. Tufiakwa, God forbid

I was very livid while I was typing that shit. I wanted to insult him but I knew what was in store for me if I went through with my plan

All these could happen bcuz OP got married for lust, love was not really the foundation of the marriage but lust was.
Maybe he married her bcuz of big yansh or big bobby, and for the woman she married him bcuz of money, maybe she is from a poor background, she wanno escape poverty.
This is a lesson for guys. Guys, marry who loves you. Dont marry who you love.
Bitter truth is that women don't genuinely love 2 men at a time, op your wife's love for you is gone, guy move on.

Yes.

YES. You have to kneel when doing that. Uzuor

Let me not comment what is on my mind because I'm sure the bots will ban me. 😕

Some men na M.U.M.U.

isyourboy:
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Shey o wa Ok Shaa, babe wey decide to leave the house so she can be having steady bunking with the guy in hotels , you want to ask the parents to beg her, did the parents know what she did before she left her home to her fathers home? mind you if the parents can accept her back for you accusing her of infidelity with prove then be rest assured the landlord son is doing your wife and her parents just right, no worry you go hear say Landlord pikin don carry your wife follow am to Netherland , Landlord fit come decide to evcit you from his house becuase he wont be safe living with you.

Bro , forget her , she is far gone.

You must be a very yeye man to be asking this question. How on earth would you even find a supposed wife who cheated on you with evidence attractive to still live together with again? Are you really a man? Haaa some people enheee

This one is a content creator, alias I would have said you should not add to my issues this evening...

Are you part of those that their financial ability determines their state of mind?

You get sober when broke and on top when in wealth
That's not a good lifestyle, you must be in charge always....

You don't owe your wife any further apology than to explain to her to have patience over your broke condition....

Pls Fix your finances and ignore her completely. You can marry her friend later
No peace for the wicked.

Chatgpt
Bro, don’t call her parents to beg her. She’s the one who broke the marriage vow, not you. If you call and beg, it will look like you’re the guilty one. Let her parents know the truth, but stand your ground as a man.

Yes, finances put pressure on your home, but that’s no excuse for adultery. She made her choice. If she truly values the marriage, she should be the one begging you and your family, not the other way around.

If you still want her back, it has to be on the condition that she admits her wrong, repents, and is ready to rebuild trust. Otherwise, begging her parents is just putting yourself under unnecessary shame.

I have always wondered, if the 'likes' people get from posts on Nairaland which are pure and undiluted sensationalism in nature, generates a kind of income to them?

I ask this because, the OP just wrote fiction and expects readers to gulp it down like true life story.

Reading the write-up itself already indicates a very high magnitude of 'let me write something which sounds serious but highly unrealistic' and see if:

A. They will advise me.
B. They will insult me.
C. They will call me a Simp.

All these made up stories are better suited for Nollywood, and not meant to portray real life situations.

Diamond098454:
hmmm you are wicked

same way im nice to people close to me and even strangers.
once i get broken haaa i wicked o i go use attitude torment the person..

isyourboy:
We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

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The heaven is trying to remove problem from your life but you are trying to hold on to it. Okay ooo. Continue.

The most stupid question I have heard in a long time

Tenrack:
Yes. Please invite her family over. Go to the market and purchase those items you used for marriage introduction. Kneel down like your life depends on it and prostrate afterwards. Apologize to her and tell her you can't do without her. Please try to appear very very sorry. Don't worry everything would be fine.

Omor see question o
Children are already taking over NL

Wonderful!
Clap for yourself.
You are a real man!
Wow! Your logic and intelligence is just on point..

😮🙆🏾‍♂️

elipheleh:
Why are you shouting at a woman? Now you've scared her away. You see. See your life.

If someone treats you that way will you like it? Just small fvck o. Small fvck. Na wa o.

Write a letter of apology to her parents.

Tell her to come back.

Finally, try to ignore that landlord son, it is only temporarily. He won't stay in Nigeria forever. Afterall its just for a while.

Only fight the man if he trying to take her permanently . Don't let him take her out of this country.

Love is not a crime.

Fools everywhere

Should this guy even be asking this kind of question here?

Smitaro100:
Dats an insult to dogs, u for use goat rather than dog.

Goat keh
Nor dey insult goat abeg

davillian:
she just earned herself a silent treatment from me....
until she leaves the house or kill herself.....
i would stop eating in the house but yet provide.
greetings wont be answered
wont sleep in the same room
and would always return late

She nor go even live in the same street with me let alone my house.

You dont have a wife again. She left your house because she intends to either move on with landlords son, or two of dem don day plan elope abroad together. Move on with your life. Mk you and her share una garri. She wont come back to you unless landlords son disappoints her.

AllBlack:
What Exactly are you waiting for?

Don't call... go to her parents house in person with a big bowl of ashes and knee down in front of all the family. Give them the bowl of ashes to pour on your head to show you really mean the apology. Don't fail to do this today before it is too late because good women are very hard to find these days. save your marriage.

And if the begging doesn't work, go to someone that she respects very well. From your story I can see she respects the landlord son. Go and meet him with all humility and beg him to help you talk to her for her return. You need to be patient and allow him talk to her in the language she will understand. Offer him a fresh bottle of vaseline or baby Oil so that the communication can go SMOOTHLY and you will see how she will run out from her parent's house.
Don't give up on love my brother.

If wickedness was a person it would be you