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What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op):
Good day Nairalanders and Happy Independence!

So, I got this new girl I started dating lately, and I am also considering settling down with. Things have been going on smoothly between us since we started. However, few days ago, I overheard her on the phone telling her married younger sister not to allow her husband to purchase a property in his name. She advised her to "press his mumu button" and convince him to purchase the property in her name or in their daughter's name.

Ever since, I kept wandering what kind of a person would advise her sister as such. So, I thought I should bring it up here.

1. Was she right to give her sister such advice?

2. Is this a red flag for me?

I would appreciate your sincere input.

cc lalasticlala, nlfpmod, seun, mynd44

Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 12:21pm On Oct 02, 2025
Please, don't just scroll pass; share your thoughts! Ejor! Biko! Da'allah!
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by BlaqJagz: 12:27pm On Oct 02, 2025
It's a Nigerian flag and you already know what it means.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by RollinTNDA:
Nigerian men have not realized that Nigerian girls see Men as a typical MUMU

Women true nature is very shady.
Men think in straight line..

Women think up down left and right center
They think 2 steps ahead of you.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by JoeRizzla(m): 12:33pm On Oct 02, 2025
That's a very dangerous mindset.
Be careful with this certain girl she can kpia you slowly if you don't do what she says, her eyes and heart will be on your material things and properties than your well-being or family values you want to create with her.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by ARISHEM: 12:34pm On Oct 02, 2025
Maybe her Sister’s husband has many properties. You never can tell. Although it’s disturbing she did not even give the advise that the property should be in the name of both of them.
You can bring up a topic about that in any conversation and ask her what she feels.
Conclusively you can flee from the appearance of evil by stylishly cutting off the relationship. Or you can go ahead because something must kill a man. The choice is yours
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Sonnobax15(m): 12:42pm On Oct 02, 2025
lipsrsealed
Bro,take your time and ask any good tailor around you,he/she will definitely tell you that those materials,I e that character displayed by your woman in particular is big enough to sew a very big red flag angry

Run for you dear life,cuz she's not gonna change that mentality of hers...
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by MarkNsukkaBread: 12:50pm On Oct 02, 2025
Why were you listening in on her private conversation?

Now you have heard what you were looking for! grin
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by favour32(m): 1:02pm On Oct 02, 2025
Nor be to jump into conclusion.
Who get the money wey dem one take buy the property?
Na the man or the woman?
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2025
BlaqJagz:
It's a Nigerian flag and you already know what it means.
Hmmm. You know, sometimes, you may need to sample opinions to know if you are on the right track in your thoughts.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:09pm On Oct 02, 2025
RollinTNDA:
Nigerian men have not realized that Nigerian girls see Men as a typical MUMU

Women true nature is very shady
Men think in straight line..

Women think up down left and right center
They think 2 steps forward
@ the bolded: I have also noticed tbat about her.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:10pm On Oct 02, 2025
JoeRizzla:
That's a very dangerous mindset.
Be careful with this certain girl she can kpia you slowly if you don't do what she says, her eyes and heart will be on your material things and properties than your well-being or family values you want to create with her.
Very well noted, sir! Thanks
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:12pm On Oct 02, 2025
ARISHEM:
Maybe her Sister’s husband has many properties. You never can tell. Although it’s disturbing she did not even give the advise that the property should be in the name of both of them.
You can bring up a topic about that in any conversation and ask her what she feels.
Conclusively you can flee from the appearance of evil by stylishly cutting off the relationship. Or you can go ahead because something must kill a man. The choice is yours
He doesn't have many property. He's just a struggling guy, who's grinding his hustle daily to stay afloat
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:13pm On Oct 02, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Bro,take your time and ask any good tailor around you,he/she will definitely tell you that those materials,I e that character displayed by your woman in particular is big enough to sew a very big red flag angry

Run for you dear life,cuz she's not gonna change that mentality of hers...
I appreciate your input, sir!
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:15pm On Oct 02, 2025
MarkNsukkaBread:
Why were you listening in on her private conversation?

Now you have heard what you were looking for! grin
Bro, to overhear is different from to eavesdrop. I think you meant the latter
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:16pm On Oct 02, 2025
favour32:
Nor be to jump into conclusion.
Who get the money wey dem one take buy the property?
Na the man or the woman?
The guy, of course! The sister is presently doing nada
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:18pm On Oct 02, 2025
The mods should move to front page to get more contributions
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody:
Men are primarily 2D creatures, binary logic, 1 and 0s. Women are quantum computers.

Together the two can work wonders, but they are still busy fighting

RollinTNDA:
Nigerian men have not realized that Nigerian girls see Men as a typical MUMU

Women true nature is very shady.
Men think in straight line..

Women think up down left and right center
They think 2 steps forward
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by EvilMerodack(m): 1:26pm On Oct 02, 2025
Dont all women think like this?

They believe they can manipulate their men to do their biddings at almost everytime.They see most men as puppets

You have to quickly learn and adopt their reasoning method in order to be able to outsmart them in all ways

Samantha124 comes to mind. Shady!!!
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 02, 2025
Keep observing her character.

Whatever you see now, multiply by 10.

In a few months you'll know exactly what to do.





Hemanwel:
Good day Nairalanders and Happy Independence!

So, I got this new girl I started dating lately, and I am also considering settling down with. Things have been going on smoothly between us since we started. However, few days ago, I overheard her on the phone telling her married younger sister not to allow her husband to purchase a property in his name. She advised her to "press his mumu button" and convince him to purchase the property in her name or in their daughter's name.

Ever since, I kept wandering what kind of a person would advise her sister as such. So, I thought I should bring it up here.

1. Was she right to give her sister such advice?

2. Is this a red flag for me?

I would appreciate your sincere input.

cc lalasticlala, nfpmod, seun, mynd44
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by favour32(m): 1:29pm On Oct 02, 2025
Hemanwel:
The guy, of course! The sister is presently doing nada
So na bad thing for the guy to acquire properties?
Don't date or marry a jobless girl.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 1:29pm On Oct 02, 2025
Actually they are right. Men are easy to manipulate by women.




EvilMerodack:
Dont all women think like this?

They believe they can manipulate their men to do their biddings at almost everytime.They see most men as puppets

You have to quickly learn and adopt their reasoning method in order to be able to outsmart them in all ways

Samantha124 comes to mind. Shady!!!
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:31pm On Oct 02, 2025
My advice for you is to decoy another means by raising this same topic with you girlfriend in another form directly to her maybe after one month you overhead her advising her sister. This will give the true picture of who you are dating.
Hemanwel:
Good day Nairalanders and Happy Independence!

So, I got this new girl I started dating lately, and I am also considering settling down with. Things have been going on smoothly between us since we started. However, few days ago, I overheard her on the phone telling her married younger sister not to allow her husband to purchase a property in his name. She advised her to "press his mumu button" and convince him to purchase the property in her name or in their daughter's name.

Ever since, I kept wandering what kind of a person would advise her sister as such. So, I thought I should bring it up here.

1. Was she right to give her sister such advice?

2. Is this a red flag for me?

I would appreciate your sincere input.

cc lalasticlala, nfpmod, seun, mynd44
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Aydot99(m): 1:39pm On Oct 02, 2025
There's nothing wrong with her advicing her sister to ask the husband to get the property in her name, but at the end of the day na person way wan buy de land get the final say.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by ExudeLoveToAll: 1:42pm On Oct 02, 2025
favour32:
Nor be to jump into conclusion.
Who get the money wey dem one take buy the property?
Na the man or the woman?
With the narration you can infer that it's the man, who pressed mumu button for money that belongs to her think. The money certainly belongs to the man else she won't have any reason to press his mumu button.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Exceed15: 1:59pm On Oct 02, 2025
Run for your life . She will do worse to you.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by MONEY247: 2:03pm On Oct 02, 2025
Bro run for your life
Someone that does not want to be a partner...

Don't go on with her, she could ruin your future
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by gunners160(m): 2:05pm On Oct 02, 2025
Let it slide since u did not know the genesis of the conversation and the reason why she had to say something like that. It is too much thinking that leads to problem most times... My advice is for you to let it slide and mind ur business but be observant and know r true nature
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 02, 2025
Your ancestors worked overtime to place in a position of 'see things for yourself' but it looks like you're confused and are still considering to disappoint them after all their efforts. I pity them at this time, I really do.

Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by duduade(m): 2:09pm On Oct 02, 2025
Avoid such families

You should know such ladies are after hit and run
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by AndroBlaze: 2:10pm On Oct 02, 2025
Hemanwel:
Good day Nairalanders and Happy Independence!

So, I got this new girl I started dating lately, and I am also considering settling down with. Things have been going on smoothly between us since we started. However, few days ago, I overheard her on the phone telling her married younger sister not to allow her husband to purchase a property in his name. She advised her to "press his mumu button" and convince him to purchase the property in her name or in their daughter's name.

Ever since, I kept wandering what kind of a person would advise her sister as such. So, I thought I should bring it up here.

1. Was she right to give her sister such advice?

2. Is this a red flag for me?

I would appreciate your sincere input.

cc lalasticlala, nfpmod, seun, mynd44
No one can give you proper advice unless one knows more about the kind off husband she has.

Anyone making any assumptions on this incomplete info is not doing you any favours.
Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Kobicove(m): 2:13pm On Oct 02, 2025
How are you so sure that she is not contributing towards the purchase of the property?
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