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| What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 12:03pm On Oct 02, 2025*. Modified: 1:46pm On Oct 06, 2025 |
Good day Nairalanders and Happy Independence! So, I got this new girl I started dating lately, and I am also considering settling down with. Things have been going on smoothly between us since we started. However, few days ago, I overheard her on the phone telling her married younger sister not to allow her husband to purchase a property in his name. She advised her to "press his mumu button" and convince him to purchase the property in her name or in their daughter's name. Ever since, I kept wandering what kind of a person would advise her sister as such. So, I thought I should bring it up here. 1. Was she right to give her sister such advice? 2. Is this a red flag for me? I would appreciate your sincere input. cc lalasticlala, nlfpmod, seun, mynd44
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| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 12:21pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Please, don't just scroll pass; share your thoughts! Ejor! Biko! Da'allah! |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by BlaqJagz: 12:27pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
It's a Nigerian flag and you already know what it means. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by RollinTNDA: 12:27pm On Oct 02, 2025*. Modified: 2:06pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Nigerian men have not realized that Nigerian girls see Men as a typical MUMU Women true nature is very shady. Men think in straight line.. Women think up down left and right center They think 2 steps ahead of you. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by JoeRizzla(m): 12:33pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
That's a very dangerous mindset. Be careful with this certain girl she can kpia you slowly if you don't do what she says, her eyes and heart will be on your material things and properties than your well-being or family values you want to create with her. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by ARISHEM: 12:34pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Maybe her Sister’s husband has many properties. You never can tell. Although it’s disturbing she did not even give the advise that the property should be in the name of both of them. You can bring up a topic about that in any conversation and ask her what she feels. Conclusively you can flee from the appearance of evil by stylishly cutting off the relationship. Or you can go ahead because something must kill a man. The choice is yours |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Sonnobax15(m): 12:42pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
![]() Bro,take your time and ask any good tailor around you,he/she will definitely tell you that those materials,I e that character displayed by your woman in particular is big enough to sew a very big red flag ![]() Run for you dear life,cuz she's not gonna change that mentality of hers... |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by MarkNsukkaBread: 12:50pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Why were you listening in on her private conversation? Now you have heard what you were looking for! ![]() |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by favour32(m): 1:02pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Nor be to jump into conclusion. Who get the money wey dem one take buy the property? Na the man or the woman? |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
BlaqJagz:Hmmm. You know, sometimes, you may need to sample opinions to know if you are on the right track in your thoughts. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:09pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
RollinTNDA:@ the bolded: I have also noticed tbat about her. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:10pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
JoeRizzla:Very well noted, sir! Thanks |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:12pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
ARISHEM:He doesn't have many property. He's just a struggling guy, who's grinding his hustle daily to stay afloat |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:13pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:I appreciate your input, sir! |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:15pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
MarkNsukkaBread:Bro, to overhear is different from to eavesdrop. I think you meant the latter |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:16pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
favour32:The guy, of course! The sister is presently doing nada |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Hemanwel(op): 1:18pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
The mods should move to front page to get more contributions |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 02, 2025*. Modified: 1:12pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Men are primarily 2D creatures, binary logic, 1 and 0s. Women are quantum computers. Together the two can work wonders, but they are still busy fighting RollinTNDA: |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by EvilMerodack(m): 1:26pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Dont all women think like this? They believe they can manipulate their men to do their biddings at almost everytime.They see most men as puppets You have to quickly learn and adopt their reasoning method in order to be able to outsmart them in all ways Samantha124 comes to mind. Shady!!! |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Keep observing her character. Whatever you see now, multiply by 10. In a few months you'll know exactly what to do. Hemanwel: |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by favour32(m): 1:29pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Hemanwel:So na bad thing for the guy to acquire properties? Don't date or marry a jobless girl. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 1:29pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Actually they are right. Men are easy to manipulate by women. EvilMerodack: |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:31pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
My advice for you is to decoy another means by raising this same topic with you girlfriend in another form directly to her maybe after one month you overhead her advising her sister. This will give the true picture of who you are dating. Hemanwel: |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Aydot99(m): 1:39pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
There's nothing wrong with her advicing her sister to ask the husband to get the property in her name, but at the end of the day na person way wan buy de land get the final say. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by ExudeLoveToAll: 1:42pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
favour32:With the narration you can infer that it's the man, who pressed mumu button for money that belongs to her think. The money certainly belongs to the man else she won't have any reason to press his mumu button. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Exceed15: 1:59pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Run for your life . She will do worse to you. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by MONEY247: 2:03pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Bro run for your life Someone that does not want to be a partner... Don't go on with her, she could ruin your future |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by gunners160(m): 2:05pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Let it slide since u did not know the genesis of the conversation and the reason why she had to say something like that. It is too much thinking that leads to problem most times... My advice is for you to let it slide and mind ur business but be observant and know r true nature |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Your ancestors worked overtime to place in a position of 'see things for yourself' but it looks like you're confused and are still considering to disappoint them after all their efforts. I pity them at this time, I really do.
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| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by duduade(m): 2:09pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Avoid such families You should know such ladies are after hit and run |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by AndroBlaze: 2:10pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
Hemanwel:No one can give you proper advice unless one knows more about the kind off husband she has. Anyone making any assumptions on this incomplete info is not doing you any favours. |
| Re: What I Overheard My New Girlfriend Tell Her Married Sister by Kobicove(m): 2:13pm On Oct 02, 2025 |
How are you so sure that she is not contributing towards the purchase of the property? |
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