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A Nigerian lady has gone viral after revealing how she boldly made the first move on her now-boyfriend.

The X (formerly Twitter) user, identified as @simplytee23, shared screenshots of their very first conversation, admitting that she felt “shameless” at the time but is now grateful as the relationship is nearing its third anniversary. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
Making the first move

According to her, it all began after her then-crush complimented her. Summoning courage, she confessed her feelings, though she joked she was afraid she might “trend on Twitter as the girl that loves at first text” if things went wrong.

I kidd you not when I say this is exactly how it started (I’m shameless).😭✋🏽 We are celebrating 3 years together soon.

https://x.com/simplytee23/status/1974698189279424584?t=mdIDzgin5yELxTe66QfxoQ&s=19

she wrote.

The chat quickly blossomed into something deeper as the pair exchanged numbers, discussed their relationship dynamics, and eventually became inseparable.

She reflected:

“I was scared that we won’t be compatible, but God had other plans cause he gave me a best friend for life.”

Netizens react

Her story struck a chord with many social media users who praised her courage and even shared similar experiences of making the first move.

While some hailed her for defying stereotypes around women initiating relationships, others joked that they lacked the boldness to try such.

Her post has since continued to trend, inspiring debates on whether love should wait for tradition or embrace boldness.

https://eyesoflagos.com/lady-shares-viral-chat-of-how-she-toasted-her-man/

Very bold Lady....

Shoot your shot..

If you see what you want... Go for it and stop waiting for the guy to start the conversation.

If the guyman says no, then move on without remorse.

There are many Lions in the Jungle

She shouldn't come and cry to us later oooooooooo

It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

Nice one, don’t deny yourself good things in life because of ego, talk when you need to

Shoot your shot make world a better place no going in circles

Sometimes knowing what you want will definitely save u from unnecessary stress and heartbreaks

it's ok to shoot your shot.
There no law that says a woman can not toast...
I have been toasted many times

She's bold.


Pride won't let a Nigerian lady to do this.

There is nothing special about it, quit all this bullshit will you.

She is sharing it because it worked out. Women never share their Ls

I tell you, this is so funny. If it is genuine, this should be the most awkward first time encounter ever.

Sonnobax15 is probably out of town looking gor Gas to sell to his customers. Make he come see

Don't happened in Nigeria, African culture forbidden trick

I love you and I love you too that instant? Novelty at its peak...

She sense handsome and rich guy, she dripped...


Las las everybody go dey okay

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

are there girls in Nigeria?im not seeing any o.or is there anywhere one can find them?

ipobarethieves:
Sonnobax15 is probably out of town looking gor Gas to sell to his customers. Make he come see

. Her type is very rare...And she'll likely be among the remaining 2% of sensible bannies who are likely to inherit the earth

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

Would never ..

.e be like curse





18 more characters needed

Kaycee9242:
She shouldn't come and cry to us later oooooooooo

Her tears go Belle full you? Why unah too like sorrow??

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

On a VERY NORMAL DAY,
South African women are traditionally naked...
So already, they're behaving somehow right from the village.

Wishing her happy years ahead and plenty of blessings from her boldness

In South Africa if a lady likes you she can ask you first. I am not surprised, I have seen it. It is not new. They are pretty ladies that know what they want in Southy. They have that energy. It's nothing to them , not all of them sha.

He was even the one who made the first move. Women are hopeless.

Am waiting for a Nigerian girl to shoot her shot at a guy. Their own na only to ask for urgent 2k them sabi

SlavaUkraini:
Very bold Lady....

Shoot your shot..

If you see what you want... Go for it and stop waiting for the guy to start the conversation.

If the guyman says no, then move on without remorse.

There are many Lions in the Jungle

Meanwhile, if man now turns lady down, she shouldn't be dejected about it, that's how it's for men, in which ladies turning down on daily basis.

Feminists left the group chat.
God for bid type of ladies left the group chat.
He is not my type left the group chat.
I will only give him green light left the group chat.

Infact all of them left the group chat.

See toast..
Men no get wahala..na women dey do mumu shakara even after dey don like you.

Mods abeg help me add the remaining 30xters

No big deal. Even Ruth did it in the bible. Why is she posting it as though she did the impossible?

If it's not that I'm shy, what's small toasting I can not do?

Abi I should enter his inbox too?