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Please Nairalanders what will you do if you catch your loving father sleeping with your lovely wife
. .be honest because it's painful...

Divorce the woman and let my father have her. I’ll also distance myself from my father for a while.

No matter how close to father, If I have girlfriend that is too close to father or my relatives, I will fire her.

That is not equality I personally need from her.

Sometimes, the kind of dmb* topics some people bring here make me wonder if Nairaland is actually rated 18+. Because honestly, I can’t imagine a full-grown adult coming up with something that shallow. It’s either people just post without thinking, or they just enjoy displaying ignorance for attention..
So if it truly happens, you can't think straight of what to do or until you asked what to do?

You wey marry a non-virgin, what do you expect? Why do most of you think that your preeq is the sweetest that your non-virgin partner has had? If na me, I will only divorce and have it at the back of my mind that a non-virgin can't be trusted 100%. It was a risk to marry a non-virgin and you took it, so deal with it.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Lalami3232:
You wey marry a non-virgin, what do you expect? Why do most of you think that your preeq is the sweetest that your non-virgin partner has had? If na me, I will only divorce and have it at the back of my mind that a non-virgin can't be trusted 100%. It was a risk to marry a non-virgin and you took it, so deal with it.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Thanks Seun for the block button

Ibkay32:
Sometimes, the kind of dmb* topics some people bring here make me wonder if Nairaland is actually rated 18+. Because honestly, I can’t imagine a full-grown adult coming up with something that shallow. It’s either people just post without thinking, or they just enjoy displaying ignorance for attention..
So if it truly happens, you can't think straight of what to do or until you asked what to do?

Are you trying to tell me you've never heard of a man sleeping with his son's wife?? That shit happens often especially when the son isn't well to do and the father is the one providing for his son's family

lionphil:
Are you trying to tell me you've never heard of a man sleeping with his son's wife?? That shit happens often especially when the son isn't well to do and the father is the one providing for his son's family

Why is he now asking for people opinion here, don't he have elders in their family?. That's family issues

Ibkay32:
Sometimes, the kind of dmb* topics some people bring here make me wonder if Nairaland is actually rated 18+. Because honestly, I can’t imagine a full-grown adult coming up with something that shallow. It’s either people just post without thinking, or they just enjoy displaying ignorance for attention..
So if it truly happens, you can't think straight of what to do or until you asked what to do?

There's nothing irrelevant about the Topic.
Such things have happened, & still happens

Everybody for this life with the one wey dey pain am...

Why does the op has she moniker🤔 biá op are you planning what I’m thinking?

Dump her .. don't blame your father.. women don't fall easily

correctyourself:
No matter how close to father, If I have girlfriend that is too close to father or my relatives, I will fire her.

That is not equality I personally need from her.

by the time u give birth to a girl child, I will know whether u will still consider this view of urs valid...this statement of urs regarding a daughter being closed to the father deduce two things 1. U re not married 2. U are either married without a female child
I'm sure any father who have time for his children (especially girl child) would understand better.
So a girl should leave u because u are close to ur mother....how does it sound to u?

Pious101:
by the time u give birth to a girl child, I will know whether u will still consider this view of urs valid...this statement of urs regarding a daughter being closed to the father deduce two things 1. U re not married 2. U are either married without a female child
I'm sure any father who have time for his children (especially girl child) would understand better.
So a girl should leave u because u are close to ur mother....how does it sound to u?

I am refaring to my own side and not her side. I have my reasons and I don't want anybody to feel entitled to my own family, boundaries matters to me.

Prettyangelng:
Please Nairalanders what will you do if you catch your loving father sleeping with your lovely wife
. .be honest because it's painful...

I will do nothing to my father and I will do nothing to "our wife".

Prettyangelng:
Please Nairalanders what will you do if you catch your loving father sleeping with your lovely wife
. .be honest because it's painful...

Absolutely nothing.

And why will this be shocking? Women aren't saints who do not have dark desires and kinks and so on. We are the one assuming, hoping, expecting and wishing that they are nice, wonderful princesses that cannot hurt a fly because they walk swaying left to right like they are going to break into two equal halves and because they wear a dress and seem physically weaker. There is nothing a man cannot do and there is nothing a woman cannot do. Besides, taboo type trysts like this are even the most intense for cheaters and betrayers.

Ok. So you see this happen..what do you do? Do you undo it? Can you undo it? I mean, what do you want to do? The vagina is hers. She feels that is how she wants to use it na, abi? Abi is it your own? Your father's private part is also his, he feels that is how he too wants to use it too. They are both adults and have decided that that is how they want to use their private parts. In pursuit of sexual satisfaction from each other.

Kill him? Not worth your freedom that you stand to lose.

Kill her? Not worth your freedom, you stand to lose.

You see that anger and rambunctious rants of how you will do this and how you will do that, when you dey ''awaiting trial'' for 10 years for Nigeria, your mind go come down and you go regret say if to say you know, you for just jejely leave matter to our brother and friend, Karma, with him Cousin, Dharma.

He simply stops being your father, and you stop being his son- immediately. You stop speaking to him. To you, he becomes dead immediately.

She also stops being your wife and you stop being her husband. To you, she also becomes dead immediately.

You can hide and cry and sob and wail and ask why it is happening to you (I wont). But the energy and resources you will save by cutting both of them off, use it and put into your life, business, investment and live a peaceful life minding your business.