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I Want To Settle Down NOW by Bostin(op):
If you're mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Tenrack: 3:40pm On Oct 07, 2025
Bostin:
If you're an intentional woman that's willing to build a home with a loving man . Let have a talk .
grin angry grin you're looking for intentional woman where? Bros better no use your own hand invite trouble to your peaceful life.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by fyneboi79(m): 4:09pm On Oct 07, 2025
Tenrack:
grin angry grin you're looking for intentional woman where? Bros better no use your own hand invite trouble to your peaceful life.
I am telling you! Shuo!! See me see emotional man o! Guy chin up!!
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by MaziObinnaokija: 4:16pm On Oct 07, 2025
cool congrats.Make I go see Sonnobax15 the renowned relationship expert on your behalf
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by IyaTola: 4:42pm On Oct 07, 2025
Bostin:
If you're an intentional woman that's willing to build a home with a loving man . Let have a talk .
How old are you?
Are you single, divorced, single dad or a baby daddy?
What do you do for a living and how do we reach you
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by pansophist(m): 5:17pm On Oct 07, 2025
I think say na only women get delusion, be like say men sef don join grin

So you think say one beautiful international woman dey wait to come fall for you, marry you, and live happily ever after?

All the horney brothers coming home for dirty december no see this International women catch? and them probably fine, and get money pass you.

Better reason that Iya Biliki daughter wey dey eye you since, and make two of una upgrade una sef.

One day, you will realise that the market women selling stuff under the hot sun, and the bus driver are all created by the same God that created you.

The earlier you live in reality, you can make the right decision and avoid a sorrowful fate when you are old, otherwise, e fit be say na under bridge you go dey sleep sef.

Come on, wake up.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Nnamdipapa(m): 5:23pm On Oct 07, 2025
The most abused phrase by Nigerian is the term " Settle down". I bet, most people use that word without knowing what the meaning.

Good luck OP.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by AbosedeFalade(f): 6:09pm On Oct 07, 2025
pansophist:
I think say na only women get delusion, be like say men sef don join grin

So you think say one beautiful international woman dey wait to come fall for you, marry you, and live happily ever after?

All the horney brothers coming home for dirty december no see this International women catch? and them probably fine, and get money pass you.

Better reason that Iya Biliki daughter wey dey eye you since, and make two of una upgrade una sef.

One day, you will realise that the market women selling stuff under the hot sun, and the bus driver are all created by the same God that created you.

The earlier you live in reality, you can make the right decision and avoid a sorrowful fate when you are old, otherwise, e fit be say na under bridge you go dey sleep sef.

Come on, wake up.
Where in the OP's post did he say that he needs an "international" woman? Cho cho cho.

He said that he needs an "intentional woman" which he is entitled to, and even if he needs an international woman, he's still entitled to it.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Gerrard59(m): 3:35am On Oct 08, 2025
Bostin:
Never been married 44years have a daughter, . 07037147782 Whatsapp to know more
Oh! You are a single dad with a daughter?

Well, your choices are fewer. Your best bet is with a single mom who has a son. A young unmarried woman would quickly oppose marrying a single dad in his forties who has a daughter. Target women in their mid-30s. Then again, as long as she is unmarried, she will view you differently than if you had a boy.

Good luck!
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by motionarena: 4:32am On Oct 08, 2025
Bostin:
If you're an intentional woman that's willing to build a home with a loving man . Let have a talk .
Available
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Double0h7(f): 4:49am On Oct 08, 2025
Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.

Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by AllBlack: 5:09am On Oct 08, 2025
pansophist:
I think say na only women get delusion, be like say men sef don join grin

So you think say one beautiful international woman dey wait to come fall for you, marry you, and live happily ever after?
e go shock you say he go find the woman like play
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by AllBlack: 5:11am On Oct 08, 2025
Double0h7:
Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.
Una too wicked for this forum. why? why? Just why?
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by AllBlack: 5:15am On Oct 08, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
The most abused phrase by Nigerian is the term " Settle down". I bet, most people use that word without knowing what the meaning.

Good luck OP.
I am one of the few Nigerians who has never used that phrase in the context of marriage and relationships. I thoroughly dislike it

Next is those people who use the term ISSUE to describe a child.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Double0h7(f): 5:47am On Oct 08, 2025
AllBlack:
Una too wicked for this forum. why? why? Just why?
What? 😆
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by G0odharddick: 6:21am On Oct 08, 2025
Double0h7:
Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.
If you're interested in him, then reach out to him directly! Doing it indirectly won't help you.

Goodluck with your marital journey!
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Tenrack: 7:23am On Oct 08, 2025
motionarena:
Available
Oh. You're a lady sef lol. No wonder.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Tenrack: 7:24am On Oct 08, 2025
Double0h7:
Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.
cheesy grin ;Dwhy are you dashing the man's last hopes to finding an intentional woman on here na?
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Tenrack: 7:26am On Oct 08, 2025
AllBlack:
Una too wicked for this forum. why? why? Just why?
Blame the fellow wey think say e fit find woman here in the first place. Joke's on him. Nairaland has gone past that era na.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Tenrack: 7:27am On Oct 08, 2025
AllBlack:
I am one of the few Nigerians who has never used that phrase in the context of marriage and relationships. I thoroughly dislike it

Next is those people who use the term ISSUE to describe a child.
we do share the same ideology bro.. I disliike these terms.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Starboytwo(m): 10:18am On Oct 08, 2025
Let every man pursue his fantasies.

Dont over advice.
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by Talkisneeded(m): 10:42am On Oct 08, 2025
Let every man pursue his fantasy,Goodluck with your intentional search here oooo
Re: I Want To Settle Down NOW by AbosedeFalade(f): 2:22pm On Oct 08, 2025
Gerrard59:
Oh! You are a single dad with a daughter?

Well, your choices are fewer. Your best bet is with a single mom who has a son. A young unmarried woman would quickly oppose marrying a single dad in his forties who has a daughter. Target women in their mid-30s. Then again, as long as she is unmarried, she will view you differently than if you had a boy.

Good luck!
The reality about relationship and economic success in life in general is beyond your usual textbook postulations and opinions like this one here.

Your opinion on these issues is even funnier considering that you've not had a firsthand experience in any of them.

Cho cho cho
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