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Finding someone to date and finding someone to marry are two different hustles: Man laments as he prays his next relationship will be his last

We’re in mber months. This is cuffing season for Nigerians.

Chilipepper:
Finding someone to date and finding someone to marry are two different hustles: Man laments as he prays his next relationship will be his last

Scarcity of what is apparently abundant is an impossible contradiction.

I swear am that guy I want my next relationship should be my last and be a marry able one

To keep woman for house all in the name of marriage as a guy wen guide for himself no easy oo. As I become 37 I realized all those love I used to experience when I was 20 was fairy tales. As I experience the real reality of life I became cold in relationship.

eepeepook:
We’re in mber months. This is cuffing season for Nigerians.

And in the west this is the hobosexual season so women are advised to hide their homes and hide their cars. 😅

Chilipepper:
Finding someone to date and finding someone to marry are two different hustles: Man laments as he prays his next relationship will be his last

It’s just like saying

“A woman who want to be a wife and a woman who’s looking for a husband”

Na WA..

This is another good reason why I really need to hold this my banny tight more than ever . Whenever I reflect back on how we started,I just dey imagine if her type still dey out there but I doubt it...... Forget all these social media paparazzi, honestly,it's when you're ready to settle down,that's when you'll realize that most of these relationships you find yourself in,are nothing but time-wasting .

Sonnobax15:

Na WA..

This is another good reason why I really need to hold this my banny tight more than ever . Whenever I reflect back on how we started,I just dey imagine if her type still dey out there but I doubt it...... Forget all these social media paparazzi, honestly,it's when you're ready to settle down,that's when you'll realize that most of these relationships you find yourself in,are nothing but time-wasting .

nothing dey outside guy

CodeTemplarr:
Scarcity of what is apparently abundant is an impossible contradiction.

Trust me, if you listen to Nigeria ladies, it feels like headless beings.

Money is the only thing they think about.

Finding a Job is easier than finding a wife or a husband.


So many beautiful ladies out there but only few qualify as wife material. So many men but few are worth valuable as husbands. The job of singles is to search and not make a mistake.
Because such mistakes are costly and regrettable that can last a lifetime. And lifetime mistakes or errors are difficult to be corrected.

Na when you enter street you'll realize there's nothing out there, all the good ones are gone and we're left with what I dunno, I just regret breaking up with people in the past thinking I'll get something better, from frying pan to fire.

Did he grow up in isolation?

Did he live an irresponsible lifestyle while growing up?

I have met several virgins in my life. The question is, "What kind of lifestyle do you live?" If a lady still maintains her virginity after attending a university, it says a lot about her character.

There are good girls everywhere, but our lifestyle choices determine whether we meet them or not. An irresponsible man attracts his kinds.

It’s not easy my bro I just Dey pipe all of em ni
I never see my suite ni

SmartPolician:
Did he grow up in isolation?

Did he live an irresponsible lifestyle while growing up?

I have met several virgins in my life. The question is, "What kind of lifestyle do you live?" If a lady still maintains her virginity after attending a university, it says a lot about her character.

There are good girls everywhere, but our lifestyle choices make us not to meet them. An irresponsible man attracts his kinds.

Being a virgin is not the all in all in marriage but marrying the right partner with good character and understanding.

To wife a woman is the easiest thing to do, give me money and watch me wife 1000 women like king Solomon.

sparko1:
Trust me, if you listen to Nigeria ladies, it feels like headless beings.

Money is the only thing they think about.

At times I'll be wondering if they have brain up there. I don't even know where to start.

If u are dwelling on beauty u won't find it but check the character of the person and keep observing her or him without lust and sex ,you will definitely know when u find a wife..before we make mistake of either career, business and marriage choices, God at one point will give us a hint of what we need but if u don't fear God or u are avoiding to do his will those chances will pass u by...especially if u are fun of cheating in relationship, that one is a big sign of confusion ,distraction, selfishness and lacking focus...stay away from Satan and close to God u will be on the right path of your destiny

This is actually so true.

Please check my signature below:

Finding a wife material for naija na by connection
but Finding Oskro or Oloshos is far easier

1 Over 90% of Beautiful gals in naija are possessed with different Evil Spirits of Water Air and Occult
2. Real sweet gals are busy with Yahoo boys
3. Plenty Ladies no get good Characters for wifeing
4 Economy don humble guys cos of marriage bills
5. Village People Factors

dauntless15:
Na when you enter street you'll realize there's nothing out there, all the good ones are gone and we're left with what I dunno, I just regret breaking up with people in the past thinking I'll get something better, from frying pan to fire.

This your comment literally cracked me up😁

The word of God and the owner of marriage institution says "Deep calleth unto Deep". What you are not, you can not attract, that is the law of resonance.
Searching outside what you can not offer, you can't find.
Live right you will find the right person.

Someone advised me to just choose one, as they are all shades of the same thing...

Is just colors and shapes that make the difference.
But I chose what was most important to me anyway.

Akamon:
The word of God and the owner of marriage institution says "Deep calleth unto Deep". What you are not, you can not attract, that is the law of resonance.
Searching outside what you can not offer, you can't find.
Live right you will find the right person.

you never really understand life sha. Real life no send this law you dey talk about. Trust me,life is deeper than you think.

pretydiva:
This your comment literally cracked me up😁

I'm going through a lot for girls hand, it's not meant to be funny sha I meant it.

It is when you are ready to marry that you will realize that responsible young girls are no longer available.

Just few of them are wife materials

Chilipepper:
Finding someone to date and finding someone to marry are two different hustles: Man laments as he prays his next relationship will be his last

No be lie oh.

from that moment you declare your intentions for marriage, you will start seeing magic.

After tanba na igbara, na igboro they'll now be complaining say good girls no dey again. After them don deceive girls,promise marriage, impregnate and run them go dey look for harvest wey them no plant

smokinloud:
I swear, there are lot of beautiful girls to date but to find a wife na by God's favour. A good wife is a gift from God.

lmao day just break for your side