7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. - Romance (2)

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by SlavaUkraini: 11:26am On Oct 14, 2025

The materialistic woman is a Big red flag

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by Zocalite: 11:33am On Oct 14, 2025

temitope27:
As a man just avoid anything call relationship, just carry olosho and have baby mama

You no dey shout tinubu again, na olosho you dey carry now

tinubu don happen to you,

Just carry olosh and have baby mama 🤣 similar brain let's olayinka get too

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by press9jatv(m): 11:37am On Oct 14, 2025

Too much red flags here

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by FitCorper: 11:44am On Oct 14, 2025

SpaceX:
you still have the choice of a free agent lifestyle.

Free agent no de pay at old age. Na woman wey u build up with and una two Labour together towards one future and see una children stand for themselves at old age na him worth the stress. Commitments must be equal from both parties. I guess priorities shift with more experience.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by payloader(m): 11:52am On Oct 14, 2025

Even better for me. The more she "slips away" the better. My money will be spent wisely and profitably. If I'm to have to say anything I'd advise guys to keep themselves. Make money and dictate the terms of your relationship. Wealthy mean don't indulge in frivolous fancies.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by payloader(m): 12:01pm On Oct 14, 2025

Nazgul:
5. The girl who only has male friends. Be careful here. If every single one of her friends is a man, you're not dating in peace - you're dating in competition. She'll tell you oh they're just like brothers to me. But you and I both know the truth - most men don't hang around women for brotherhood. They're waiting....waiting for her guard to drop, waiting for a fight between you two, waiting for an opening.

Male friends hanging around a lady are like vultures and hyenas waiting for the weak animal to succumb so they can swoop in and devour😂😂😂

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by G0odharddick: 12:03pm On Oct 14, 2025

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

Are you a virgin? And what valuable thing do you have to offer the man?

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by ngita234(m): 12:38pm On Oct 14, 2025

Madam Standard!!!! Can you afford what you're asking for?

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by Gbadugbakun(m): 1:03pm On Oct 14, 2025

ngita234:
Madam Standard!!!! Can you afford what you're asking for?

Leave all these broke a$s girls. Most of them can't even feed themselves yet they keep demanding heaven and earth from men.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by Emeskhalifa(m): 1:20pm On Oct 14, 2025

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

Hahahahaha there is a thing line between being realistic and being materialistic

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by pocohantas(f): 1:21pm On Oct 14, 2025

Nazgul, wetin inspire this writeup? grin

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by DMCA: 1:32pm On Oct 14, 2025

incogni2o:
Please answer this question, How old are you?

Jennyclay come answer oh! grin

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by Exceed15: 1:56pm On Oct 14, 2025

6.The girl who disrespect you

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by ogascomax: 2:02pm On Oct 14, 2025

My woman has passed this conditions.

Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by Ijaya123: 2:24pm On Oct 14, 2025

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

Are you on a sick bed?

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by mbaise1000: 2:36pm On Oct 14, 2025

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

Dear miss,
What might be your definition of taking good care of you and showing true love?
And what are you bringing to the table?
I ask you this question because I think that a woman who will separate true love from taking good care of a person one loves doesn't know the meaning of true love and anyone who doesn't know the meaning of true love wouldn't give true love and anyone who couldn't love others truly and putting conditions before loving someone like you did doesn't deserve true love and is most likely not going to find any because God is not stupid. Because what you are asking God to give you is likely what the man you want is also asking God to give him too, and if actually God is involved, you will get exactly what you deserve and since God is not involved in these type of relationships, that's why we will keep reading more of these type of stories. And because the majority of people go into relationships with the wrong motives and are not ready to lower their expectations, expectations of things they are not even ready to or able to give, themselves

Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by folake4u: 3:00pm On Oct 14, 2025

Toh.

I kuku be number 1.

Team "Baby,have you sent the money?"

Marilyn Monroe said Diamonds 💎 are a girl's best friend.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by FalseProphet1(m): 3:03pm On Oct 14, 2025

folake4u:
Toh.

I kuku be number 1.

Team "Baby,have you sent the money?"

Marilyn Monroe said Diamonds 💎 are a girl's best friend.

I see you in Shiloh looking for husband 10 years from now if you don't change your ways.

This I have seen.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by Talismann: 3:04pm On Oct 14, 2025

2cribz:
I stop dating 3 years ago.have not knacked in 2years. Lost interest in toasting naija ladies .we chat on whatsapp.after a few moments later.i loose interest.i delete and block. Can't be stressing myself when I'm higher than u

soapy go don nialy kpai this one

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by ABK2022: 3:04pm On Oct 14, 2025

[quote author=Nazgul post=137116402] 6. The girl who has slept with many men Here's what most men don't like to admit. History matters - the more partners she's had, the harder it is for her to bond deeply...why? Because everytime she gave herself casually, she trained her heart to detach - she taught herself how to move on quickly, so when you come along and think you're special and think you'll be the one she'll finally commit to....bro you're not the exception.

You're just another chapter in the same book. Yes it might feel exciting in the beginning, she's adventurous, passionate, you both connect very well... But over time that excitement turns into emptiness for her. If intimacy was cheap for her, loyalty would be expensive for you. Sadly most men would hang on believing they can change her, they think they'll be the man who finally makes her settle down. Unfortunately, they fail 9 times out of 10.

7. The girl who doesn't love you She clearly doesn't love you. She just likes the attention you give her, the gifts, the company, the safety net...but not you. And when a woman isn't emotionally invested, she isn't morally anchored. That's the part most men miss - without real love, there's no deep respect, without respect, boundaries become optional. Cheating stops feeling wrong and starts feeling justified.

Here's how it plays out in real life. She enjoys what you bring, but she's still hungry for a feeling she doesn't get with you, so she leaves the door open. This is why you see a girl dump a guy who trained her fron year 1-finals in the university.

This is because she has outsourced her emotions to other men, secret conversations, private meetups. And while you're busy proving yourself, someone else won't have to.

Note this: The more you fight to get her, the more you'll fight to keep her, and while you're fighting, she'll be exploring. If love isn't there - cheating wouldn't be a question of if. It would be a question of when and with whom.

Stop auditioning and trying to prove yourself to her. If she doesn't choose you clearly and freely, walk away early. Real love isn't complicated

Finally, this thread isn't about hating women as some people might feel. It's about protecting men. Cos the wrong woman can cost you years of your life. She can drain your confidence, wreck you financially and steal your focus. But the right woman....she multiplies everything. So stop chasing the wrong ones, stop making excuses for red flags. Protect your peace, protect your mental health, protect your future.

Wrong value system makes many to overlook critical qualities. Many ladies are easily carried away by money. They are attracted to rich guys they hope to bring poverty alleviation program to their family. Many guys are interested in physical appearance, ignoring these basic red flags.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by GloriousGbola: 3:09pm On Oct 14, 2025

folake4u:
Toh.

I kuku be number 1.

Team "Baby,have you sent the money?"

Marilyn Monroe said Diamonds 💎 are a girl's best friend.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnGE5NYOK4M?si=ElyL-dTbMoPfs1O7

Smh

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by folake4u: 3:20pm On Oct 14, 2025

GloriousGbola:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnGE5NYOK4M?si=ElyL-dTbMoPfs1O7

Smh

No romance without finance. kiss

Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by folake4u: 3:22pm On Oct 14, 2025

FalseProphet1:
I see you in Shiloh looking for husband 10 years from now if you don't change your ways.

This I have seen.

You're a false prophet so your words are like ashes gone with the wind. wink

Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by FalseProphet1(m): 3:30pm On Oct 14, 2025

folake4u:
You're a false prophet so your words are like ashes gone with the wind.

What am telling you has nothing to do with my user name. Change that's the message I have for you. Women are like flowers, people only value you when you are blooming once you wrinkle you would be thrown away. If you play around with your blooming years you'll be lonely in your wrinkled years. This is the way of the universe.

This I have seen.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by folake4u: 4:02pm On Oct 14, 2025

FalseProphet1:
What am telling you has nothing to do with my user name. Change that's the message I have for you. Women are like flowers, people only value you when you are blooming once you wrinkle you would be thrown away. If you play around with your blooming years you'll be lonely in your wrinkled years. This is the way of the universe.

This I have seen.

Well, your moniker is a reflection of you.

Save that message for the women in your life please.

Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by FarahAideed: 4:25pm On Oct 14, 2025

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

So you mean your dad is a red flag?

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by FalseProphet1(m): 4:38pm On Oct 14, 2025

folake4u:
Well, your moniker is a reflection of you.

Save that message for the women in your life please.

You sound like the regular rude Nigerian girl between the ages of 18-24. I can easily recognize that wicked tone. Don't worry I'll be waiting for you in my spiritual center when you mature.

This I have seen.

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Re: 7 Red Flags You Mustn't Ignore In A Relationship As A Man. by folake4u: 4:44pm On Oct 14, 2025

FalseProphet1:
You sound like the regular rude Nigerian girl between the ages of 18-24. I can easily recognize that wicked tone. Don't worry I'll be waiting for you in my spiritual center when you mature.

This I have seen.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Please wait till I reach 25.

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