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This question is something a lot of us think about.

Should you do DNA or continue to live in paradise believing that the child is yours as long as there is no pressure?

I think it's the same thing as "should you check your partner's phone or rather not risk the potential issues it may cause?"

Personally, in both cases, I'll chose to go the hard way.

I'm not a coward. I rather face any problem that may arise squarely instead of living in a fōøl's paradise.

So yes, I'll run DNA test. I'll check my partner's phone.

Peace is not the absence of war. Living in delusion should never be mistaken for peace. Living in pretense or running away from reality is not life.

If the child looks like my siblings, why should I care? If the child doesn't look like he/she came from my family tree, I will run the test. If confirmed to not be my child, I will split from the female. Life no hard, na human being complicate am.

You can let sleeping dog lie… as long as no man come knocking your door after training them all….

DNA test should be compulsory in Nigeria. Maybe we can reduce the rate of paternity fraud.
Let them keep living in a fool’s paradise but even the child and mother will later hate you for that. This I have seen👨‍🦯

DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

You don carry this your Delta state mentality come here. See reasoning, so if the real father comes tomorrow to claim his child you and the step father will say he's under my roof. Seems you are still living in stone age days. Well you ladies know the kinds of men you can try that shii with.

OKOATA:
You don carry this your Delta state mentality come here. See reasoning, so if the real father comes tomorrow to claim his child you and the step father will say he's under my roof. Seems you are still living in stone age days. Well you ladies know the kinds of men you can try and hat shii with.

hey Mehhhh don't take it personal, men like you normally turn to vegetables when you get married.

Do DNA test

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

and you fit no be your papa pikin o

Host78:
and you fit no be your papa pikin o

it doesn't matter what matters in life is, if you are doing well. Even the person that rejected you will come back to appreciate and apologize to you.

That sleeping dog will die in its sleep.
Shege banza

Host78:
I think it's the same thing as "should you check your partner's phone or rather not risk the potential issues it may cause?"

it is not and can never be the same.
An olosho partner is an olosho partner.
A B#stard child is a B#stard child.

Diamond098454:
it doesn't matter what matters in life is, if you are doing well. Even the person that rejected you will come back to appreciate and apologize to you.

why would I want that? Will the apology add something?

247man:
You can let sleeping dog lie… as long as no man come knocking your door after training them all….

oshey Mr Trainer

illegitimate coach

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

is this how your dad got you?

Even “Sleeping Dog” will do DNA

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

Minister of Paternity Scam has spoken..

AllBlack:
is this how your dad got you?

Na Gateman property but dad doesn’t know..

Most African cultures do not recognize DNA test.

Any child born under a man's roof belongs to him!

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

You are very correct

AllBlack:
is this how your dad got you?

Did her father ever tell you that he denied her as his child?

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

Lols...an analogy that favors them! They would support such even when it is obviously bereft of morals!

A son raised outside his real family land and his ancestors can not have peace and will not give peace to people around him because his spririt is restless. It's just like an ohu. This is why black Americans and black Europeans will continue to commit crimes and cause troubles because they are not where they belong. A man should be raised by his real father. Many families that have disputes today, go and check who started the trouble there. It is either an adopted son or a son with foreign blood. Doing dna tests especially on your sons is like doing yourself and the entire community a whole good. Do it immediately after birth before building emotional attachment with the child which will make it harder on you.

Are you wiser than the American Embassy that ask couple for DNA test as proof to confirm paternity of kids before they can have their Visa approved?.. we are talking about lifetime of deceit (paternity fraud) here , something that can hurt a man even up till his grave.
if to raise child dey hungry you, why not enter motherless home and adopt one?

I would do with my last money if I sense an atom of doubt in my mind.. Don't trust a woman that u did not meet a virgin. If she cheats on u once, it's sure she would do it a second and a third time.

DNA hands down. Non negotiable

This is the problem of most families today. A different blood is running in the families eroding their natural values

The man will just wonder how on earth he fathered such a child that does not in anyway agree with him. Sometimes the child grows so annoyed with the father because there is no biological connection.

Some women have created great problems in most families that this DNA thing has indeed become a national concern.

My first child does everything like when I was a kid. E kon sabi book wella like me too. Even if he is not my biological child, I will adopt and readopt someone like him a thousand times over

with Jennyclay and goodlady girls everywhere,
DNA test is a must

Imagine the person in the image below as wife.
tufiakwa 🤮

I have absolutely no issue raising someone else's child especially if they don't have a dad, but raising someone else child while believing it's mine is a completely different matter.