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Single mama is no no to any ambitious guy.

Tenrack:
bros seriously. Get one fine Yoruba Muslim babe wey I be dey eye early last year. I could tell she was into me too as I'd caught her severally staring at me. So I walked up to her to collect her digit which she gave me without stress. So I started texting her and I discovered that she was replying me in a dry manner. I stopped after a while. Every now and then I'd come across her and I'll just throway face...this continues for a while until I stopped going to Thier shop to buy stuff. I later discovered after a while that she had a protruded tummy- she don get belle- dawan make me comot mind finish. She later gave birth to a baby girl. Now recently I've been going there to withdraw money and I noticed that she's always so friendly even trying to crack jokes with me. Laughing at almost everything I say.....e come be like we Neva talk before. She was even saying I should come by often bla bla bla....I was now wondering what was the attitude for earlier? Now wey you don born for another person.... wetin I won come use you do now? In her mind now...very confused bunch

Truth #1: Single mothers are not capable of love. They are paranoid. They feel all guys are out to hurt or deceive them.

Truth #2: They see every new relationship as a form of revenge for what their baby daddy did to them. One even told me she couldn’t get me a gift because she bought a gift for a man and he gave it to another girl. Like, how does that concern our relationship? 🤷‍♂️

Truth #3: They transfer all the love they have to their kids. They don’t care about you. They’ll always put their kids first, and you’ll always find yourself wanting more in the relationship.

Truth #4: Any act of love is met with skepticism. They think you’re just out for their cookies, and anything you do will never satisfy them.

Truth #5: They can never be in a serious relationship. They always have options. Like, they are desperate to have options. Every guy is a potential boyfriend. They can never be loyal. They are very smart and can date more than four guys without the guys knowing.

Truth #6: They are very manipulative and are masters of gaslighting. They also hate when you call them out. They’ll always find a way to put the blame on you, and you might end up begging if you can’t hold your frame.

Nowadays, I deal with virgins. 😁 If you like do anyhow, e concern you. I’ve made my imprint, I’m done. If you wanna stay, it’s up to you. If you don’t want, take a leave. Virgins are less risky and stressful.

SpencerForbes:
Truth #1: Single mothers are not capable of love. They are paranoid. They feel all guys are out to hurt or deceive them.

Truth #2: They see every new relationship as a form of revenge for what their baby daddy did to them. One even told me she couldn’t get me a gift because she bought a gift for a man and he gave it to another girl. Like, how does that concern our relationship? 🤷‍♂️

Truth #3: They transfer all the love they have to their kids. They don’t care about you. They’ll always put their kids first, and you’ll always find yourself wanting more in the relationship.

Truth #4: Any act of love is met with skepticism. They think you’re just out for their cookies, and anything you do will never satisfy them.

Truth #5: They can never be in a serious relationship. They always have options. Like, they are desperate to have options. Every guy is a potential boyfriend. They can never be loyal. They are very smart and can date more than four guys without the guys knowing.

Truth #6: They are very manipulative and are masters of gaslighting. They also hate when you call them out. They’ll always find a way to put the blame on you, and you might end up begging if you can’t hold your frame.

Nowadays, I deal with virgins. 😁 If you like do anyhow, e concern you. I’ve made my imprint, I’m done. If you wanna stay, it’s up to you. If you don’t want, take a leave. Virgins are less risky and stressful.

ROTFL bros i no even won get anything to do with her. All your points are valid. She is a manipulative beeach

Samantha125:
What do you mean I don't like my sister when I've always been the one who had her back when the entire family turned their backs on her? No one at home takes her seriously anymore because they regard her as a disappointment... They didn't even think her relationship would last a year but I've always tried to overlook her flaws and see the goodness in her like I do with everyone...That's why she even trusted me with her money... And where did I say I kept in communication with the man?

He sent me a WhatsApp message out of the blue and I clearly stated how I was surprised to even see his message because it was the first time ever that he did, was I supposed to ignore him? It was even the first time him and I held a conversation.

And if I didn't like her, do you think I'd have bothered opening this thread? I mean I could've just went straight ahead and told the guy everything.

Okay. I thought you wanted input so I gave my 2cents. It’s your decision to make and I wish you all the best with it.

The should break up with her ASAP

You're free to give your own input, but please, don't ever assume that I dislike my own family... I'm not that type of a family member who'd be harbouring grudges against my family members... I was just shocked by the news.

Anyways, thanks for your input...

Double0h7:
Okay. I thought you wanted input so I gave my 2cents. It’s your decision to make and I wish you all the best with it.