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ednut1:
What will now happen to the rice and drinks if true?

kingthreat:
One thing I am sure of is that is next marriage would be less than 2 Million naira.

Kobojunkie:
🤣😂😂😂😂

immortalcrown:
Telling us why the marriage ended is more important than telling us the cost of the wedding. The cost of the wedding is never the reason the marriage ended.

Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

Wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.

Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married.

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!!
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

and woman can be a saint abi?

immortalcrown:
Telling us why the marriage ended is more important than telling us the cost of the wedding. The cost of the wedding is never the reason the marriage ended.

Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

Wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.

LordVoldemort02:
How you sure he’s not gay or has skeleton in his cupboard. I need to hear the lady’s lies before I can conclude.
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immortalcrown:
Telling us why the marriage ended is more important than telling us the cost of the wedding. The cost of the wedding is never the reason the marriage ended.

Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

Wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.

maasoap:
Not just the cost as the stand alone reason, listen to me clearly.
The period is very short my guy. You can't spend 37 million naira on wedding and walk away from it after just two weeks even if you married devil himself/herself. If the woman was the one who spent that amount, she wouldn't walk away just after two weeks. She would want to exercise patience and see if both could walk through their issues.

Kobojunkie:
This response makes no sense since the OP, no matter how half-arsed it is, indicates the woman invested her time—recall, time na money — and then decided two weeks into the marriage that it ain't worth it.

2. This is also a rather simplistic take on what men would do if they were to realize the red flags early, since time and time again, like women, men have shown they are equally prone to ignoring red flags.

Juliearth:
....or the true character has been there and as clear as day from the onset, but the lady assumed she can pray him into changing...

Kobojunkie:
Gwarimpa? "Find herself?" Was she coerced into marrying your friend?

Abeg, bring your friend to make him come tell us the truth about why his bride decided to call it quits after just two weeks with him.

fxexperts:
You and always believing controversy is something else. She said she needed to find herself, what other truth or lie do you want to hear from her again. Why must you always conclude that she was treated badly or vice versa. As a matter of fact my wife was gisting me one day in church she met a young girl maybe her age and somehow they vibe, because my wife was pretty and she was pretty too. so during discussion she asked my wife how long she is been married my wife told her 7 years and she was like how did you cope to still be married for this long and still looking happy and young. the lady in question was just married few months ago and she relocated from Lagos to Port harcourt just so she can be with her husband. Then my wife asked her how long she is been married and she said 3 months and she is already fed up with married life, my wife asked if there is anything wrong with her or her husband and she said nothing was wrong but she never thought that marriage could be this boring that she is struggling to find herself my wife was shock anyway they exchanged numbers and my wife will check on her sometimes only to later find out in less than a month time she was posing pictures in different clubs in Lagos living the baby gril life without her wedding ring that was how she left the marriage so people can live marriage jut to find themselves it was obvious the lady in question was not ready for marriage and probably was forced into it by society and maybe her parents.

fxexperts:
➜ You and always believing controversy is something else. She said she needed to find herself, what other truth or lie do you want to hear from her again. Why must you always conclude that she was treated badly or vice versa. ....

Ishilove:
37 million can buy a land and build a modest house in Lagos. What manner of wastefulness is this??

GloriousGbola:
Like erm er Na your money?

Different people have different levels of disposable income.

And no you cannot build a modest house with that money in 2025

Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married.

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!!
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.