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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
I laugh once again but I understand it's too much and hard to swallow so I understand you can't take it.
You’re trying hard to change my way of thinking to make ladies sound mysterious but I only treat them as adult babie😂

Punish who needs to be punished and reward who needs to be rewarded🍹
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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 5:25pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Why should you care what your ex thinks about you?
You both are adults and had sex enjoyed by both of you. Who knows if she’s already enjoying herself with another man.

Not all relationships will lead to marriage. Have fun, enjoy yourself and don’t lay emotional burden on yourself. What’s meant to be will be. One thing ladies don’t like and might not tell you is comparing your present relationship to the last one or worrying that it will end like the last. Once she senses that, she’ll feel you’re still in love with the other gal.

Go with the flow! If she likes you, she’ll be the one trying to make the relationship work and if you’re on the verge of breaking up, always try to reason with her why you aren’t compatible. Verbally or with your actions. Never end a relationship in war and she’ll always remember you.

Any gal that wants to feel that way, should go ahead. You don’t know how many she has used too. But if you’re looking for long term relationships, make sure you’re emotionally connected before sex if not one person will always feel guilty.
All I’ll say is forget about your ex and try to enjoy this relationship 🍹
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Hmm...words of wisdom.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 5:27pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
You’re trying hard to change my way of thinking to make ladies sound mysterious but I only treat them as adult babie😂

Punish who needs to be punished and reward who needs to be rewarded🍹
🚶‍♂️
Lol! As I said before, I understand.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 5:27pm On Oct 23, 2025
fyneboi79:
Hmm...words of wisdom.
What a pity!
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 5:28pm On Oct 23, 2025
StillDtruth:
This is where you are supposed to see that women, sex and Sathan have a very big connection.

Or have you forgotten how guys have been dumped because uncle was trying to be a good boy?

Or why we all see that women love bad boys but forc a virgin and dump him breaking his heart in pieces?
me I don tire for them, make them carry their wahala go.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by StillDtruth: 5:29pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
That’s why I talked about the guy that deflowered her. He has a chance of experiencing innocent love compared to the ones after him. They’ll just be paying for sins they didn’t commit.

She knows the guy can hurt her but she’ll still wanna give it a try and when she gets bitten, the rest of the relationships is revenge.

Best part is to stay chosen🍹
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This is where I shock you that you think you are the first. Or rather you hope you are the first, hence the crazy shock you get when you find out that she is not.

And what you do not know is that the man who deflowered her was a married man ranging from her father, uncle, neighbour's husband. That was who she was "loving", hence why women can never ever tell you the truth as to who disvirgined them. The answer will shock you to death and you just might kill her by mistake because she is the past tense of wear.

So, you see, most people are recipients of her revenge and anger
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 5:30pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
What a pity!
Bros rest na..I don't understand your point.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 5:32pm On Oct 23, 2025
fyneboi79:
Bros rest na..I don't understand your point.
Lol! I am female
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 5:34pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
Lol! I am female
huh
So what are you doing here?
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 5:35pm On Oct 23, 2025
fyneboi79:
huh
So what are you doing here?
Answering your questions!
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by StillDtruth: 5:35pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
For real 😳 sorry bro but I don’t have emotions. They died long ago. Now I just work with the flow🍹
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For your emotions to be dead means that woman don kill you before.

But you have still not learnt and you are just doing hardness of heart and tough guy. You are just deceiving yourself boy, you are not the first to have done so and of course you do not know the end.

But don't worry, try your way and let us see if your result will be different
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:41pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
I laugh once again but I understand it's too much and hard to swallow so I understand you can't take it.
Herbert Agar — 'The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 5:42pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
Women are cold hearted calculative beings. So whatever you think you know is what they want you to know.
This is scary and deep because I have noticed this cold hearted behaviour with women even in close family settings. Honestly speaking I can't genuinely love a woman anymore, I'm just trying to remain biologically balanced by nature.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 23, 2025
StillDtruth:
This is where I shock you that you think you are the first. Or rather you hope you are the first, hence the crazy shock you get when you find out that she is not.

And what you do not know is that the man who deflowered her was a married man ranging from her father, uncle, neighbour's husband. That was who she was "loving", hence why women can never ever tell you the truth as to who disvirgined them. The answer will shock you to death and you just might kill her by mistake because she is the past tense of wear.

So, you see, most people are recipients of her revenge and anger
I guess you’ve never dated a virgin before 😂😂😂 my current one is or was so I get you😂😂😂

You think all girls indulge in incest😂
Have a nice day🍹
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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 5:45pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
Answering your questions!
Fair enough, but you should activate the "f" symbol. Seun put it there for a very good reason of social decorum observation.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Oct 23, 2025
StillDtruth:
For your emotions to be dead means that woman don kill you before.

But you have still not learnt and you are just doing hardness of heart and tough guy. You are just deceiving yourself boy, you are not the first to have done so and of course you do not know the end.

But don't worry, try your way and let us see if your result will be different
Nah. I’ve always told girls that I’ve never been heartbroken and they don’t believe. Before you play the breakup card, I’d already sensed it and would even call of the relationship. One thing I love about myself is I don’t wait till I experience it before I learn. I’m even learning from you right now. So I still don’t think I’ll ever experience it.

Yes ladies are manipulative but why do you think they always tell a guy it’s because I gave my body to you😂😂😂

It’s either they were expecting something or you flipped the cards😂

Learn game bro. I’d loved to recommend one 🥷 here.

Read some of ubunja miseducation and you’ll learn for life. Once you’re done, then we can talk🍹
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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 23, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Herbert Agar — 'The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear
That’s true but we all agreed here that women are manipulative. Why do you think she’s telling the truth when we know they’re manipulative🤔

Women love to stay mysterious. They love us creating threads on nairaland about them. While we were learning construction and building empires, they were with their mothers learning how to control us.
So what do you think will happen when you demystify all she’s been learning, do you think she’ll be happy, hell no.

That’s the underlying origin of feminism🍹
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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:54pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
I guess you’ve never dated a virgin before 😂😂😂 my current one is or was so I get you😂😂😂

You think all girls indulge in incest😂
Have a nice day🍹
🚶‍♂️
I did not just date a virgin, I married her too, to the glowry of God.

And so, I know it all. And the most important aspect is that we never had sex throughout the 10 years it took before we got married.

And by God's saving power I was a virgin because I noticed that God always spoiled and ruined my fornicating plans before my wife came. And by the time she came I had chilled and given up on fornication especially as I noticed many many things about it.

And that is why I am talking now.

So, if you think it is going to be a stroll you are in for a shock that would make you nearly of yourself
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:58pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
That’s true but we all agreed here that women are manipulative. Why do you think she’s telling the truth when we know they’re manipulative..
Because, this is the how the Truest Truths are.

The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable," James A. Garfield
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 6:00pm On Oct 23, 2025
fyneboi79:
Fair enough, but you should activate the "f" symbol. Seun put it there for a very good reason of social decorum observation.
That's not the issue here but that you asked why I, a female was here and I have answered you.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:00pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Nah. I’ve always told girls that I’ve never been heartbroken and they don’t believe. Before you play the breakup card, I’d already sensed it and would even call of the relationship. One thing I love about myself is I don’t wait till I experience it before I learn. I’m even learning from you right now. So I still don’t think I’ll ever experience it.

Yes ladies are manipulative but why do you think they always tell a guy it’s because I gave my body to you😂😂😂

It’s either they were expecting something or you flipped the cards😂

Learn game bro. I’d loved to recommend one 🥷 here.

Read some of ubunja miseducation and you’ll learn for life. Once you’re done, then we can talk🍹
🚶‍♂️
Continue, you will see where it would take you.

And you have not asked nor seen how ubunja is really faring on this matter, even though he observed the same things. But do you think his recommendations work out well in the long run?

Even Dpsychologist too is saying same.

Anyway, remember that i told you that you guy are not the first
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 6:01pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
That's not the issue here but that you asked why I, a female was here and I have answered you.
Na you sabi....
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Oct 23, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Continue, you will see where it would take you. And you will remember that i told you that you are not the first
Thanks a lot preacher😎🍹
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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 6:05pm On Oct 23, 2025
fyneboi79:
This is scary and deep because I have noticed this cold hearted behaviour with women even in close family settings. Honestly speaking I can't genuinely love a woman anymore, I'm just trying to remain biologically balanced by nature.
Oh oo, I know all men have noticed this.

No woman should upset your balance.

The point is to understand them so you know who you are dealing with and how best to guide yourself with them
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:06pm On Oct 23, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Thanks a lot preacher😎🍹
🚶‍♂️
Hope to help as I too got help
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 6:07pm On Oct 23, 2025
fyneboi79:
Na you sabi....
This is not socially decorous. Ah Ah!
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:07pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
Oh oo, I know all men have noticed this.

No woman should upset your balance.

The point is to understand them so you know who you are dealing with and how best to guide yourself with them
Ha, he should be upset oo. Maybe it would make him more alert and sensitive.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 23, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
I did not just date a virgin, I married her too, to the glowry of God.

And so, I know it all. And the most important aspect is that we never had sex throughout the 10 years it took before we got married.

And by God's saving power I was a virgin because I noticed that God always spoiled and ruined my fornicating plans before my wife came. And by the time she came I had chilled and given up on fornication especially as I noticed many many things about it.

And that is why I am talking now.

So, if you think it is going to be a stroll you are in for a shock that would make you nearly of yourself
So are you her family member🤔 cos someone said virgins are deflowered by their families.
Nah. Preacher of doom. That’s where I always have problem with you and would soon stop replying you cos everything about you ends in hell or punishment.

If God had plans like you then after creation, he’ll send everyone to hell. But here we are on earth to make mistakes, learn, re learn and many things.

Enjoy your time on earth. What will be will be. The thief on the cross never knew the day before that faithful day he’ll end in paradise but there he is🍹🍹
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Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by fyneboi79(op): 6:10pm On Oct 23, 2025
vdestro:
Oh oo, I know all men have noticed this.

No woman should upset your balance.

The point is to understand them so you know who you are dealing with and how best to guide yourself with them
Is it then easy to understand a woman? NO!!
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by vdestro: 6:10pm On Oct 23, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Ha, he should be upset oo. Maybe it would make him more alert and sensitive.
You are right.

I just do not want him running into straight out bias rather than studying and seeing things for himself.
Re: Why do ladies hate celibacy in a relationship? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 23, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Hope to help as I too got help
Nah all your threads are created in fear. I have a strong urge you’re more occultic than Christian but let’s not derail the thread with your holiness. This is romance and when we get to religion, we know how we do over there😉
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