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Oga i have met virgins that even if you give me 1 billion naira to marry them I will not , being a virgin is just a bonus that can even be ignored, all these bad girls on the street today were once a virgin.

SmartPolician:
Did he grow up in isolation?

Did he live an irresponsible lifestyle while growing up?

I have met several virgins in my life. The question is, "What kind of lifestyle do you live?" If a lady still maintains her virginity after attending a university, it says a lot about her character.

There are good girls everywhere, but our lifestyle choices determine whether we meet them or not. An irresponsible man attracts his kinds.

Cum4me:
To keep woman for house all in the name of marriage as a guy wen guide for himself no easy oo. As I become 37 I realized all those love I used to experience when I was 20 was fairy tales. As I experience the real reality of life I became cold in relationship.

My own coldness is even worse. And makes me super judgemental of every woman... Physical spec or achievement don't even move me anymore. And I have no interest in the sexual aspect of a relationship, it now seems I don't need a woman in my space... Since almost every where, what they project is sex, money and the superficial.
Makes it difficult to see reason why I should take the stress to pursue women

Orlandoo:
Being a virgin is not the all in all in marriage but marrying the right partner with good character and understanding.

You obviouslt didnt understand his point

A virgin already scored high in terms of discipline and decency. Shes on e you can trust your girl child with


Then you can now easily screen for other things. Non-virgins arent automatically the ones with good character too but i would pick a virgin with good character over a non-virgin with good characterz

Weak people all they think and post about is romance and dating when people are dying like chickens in the hands of kidnappers and terrorists. Nigerians are weak... truly deserve evil politicians.

Jman06:
Blaming men always as though women have no faults! When would ladies start taking responsibilities for their actions in this life? Every spoilt brats with poor parental upbringing and moral decadence would still blame men for their bad characters!

if you sow good seeds,you will reap good harvest.

vikstandon:
Someone advised me to just choose one, as they are all shades of the same thing...

Is just colors and shapes that make the difference.
But I chose what was most important to me anyway.

What did you choose

smokinloud:
I swear, there are lot of beautiful girls to date but to find a wife na by God's favour. A good wife is a gift from God.

It's a mess really.

A big one

dangotesmummy:
if you sow good seeds,you will reap good harvest.

Not always the case. Sometimes you sow good seeds but end up with poor harvest due to bad soils and other factors

Jman06:
Not always the case. Sometimes you sow good seeds but end up with poor harvest due to bad soils and other factors

everything is perspectives my dear