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Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you lov you need deliverance e then get out of the relationship.

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know.

goran3310:
Poverty turns a man into a thief — and a woman into a who.re.

Don’t get into a relationship with someone who’s poor.
Or if you do, test and verify her right away to see if she’s worth it.
There’s gold in the mud sometimes — but it’s rare, and that’s why it’s valuable.
At the first sign that she’s hungry, that she needs this or that — turn around and walk away.It’s not a matter of money. It’s a matter of how her mind is wired.
And no one needs wiring like that.

Gerrard59:
The problem with this avoid poor or "broke" people (both men and women) is that Nigeria is a country filled with poor people. The economy really needs to grow so people can get okay and good jobs which they use to build their lives.

Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship.

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know.

Gotocourt:
If Dem bill you, just ignore them. They will gradually adjust or leave 📌💯🤷🏿

Kalatium:
Omo, that’s the real problem these days.
You try to have a serious, meaningful conversation — she’s billing.
She flashes you, you call back — billing.
You call to check up on her — she says, “I’m hungry.”
Billing upon billings. 🤔

⚡ The New Emotional Economy

We live in an era where many relationships have turned into mini tax systems.
Every emotional interaction comes with a cost implication.
You can’t even share genuine concern anymore without it being mistaken for a financial transaction.

It’s not about the money — it’s about intention decay.
When every conversation has a price tag, sincerity dies.

💡 The Psychology Behind It

Here’s the catch — when financial dependency replaces emotional connection, the relationship loses its foundation.
You can’t build trust on constant billing.
It breeds quiet resentment, emotional fatigue, and fake affection.

Eventually, the giver becomes drained.
The receiver becomes entitled.
And both stop growing.

Real Talk

Let’s be clear — there’s nothing wrong with helping someone you care about.
Generosity is beautiful.
But when every “hi” becomes an invoice and every “I miss you” is code for “send something,”
then love is no longer love — it’s logistics.

If affection needs constant top-up, it’s not connection; it’s subscription. 💳

The Bigger Lesson

As a generation, we need to start redefining value exchange in relationships.
Let support be mutual.
Let conversations be genuine.
Let love be affordable — emotionally, not financially.

Because if your wallet must always validate your words,
then what happens the day your balance drops?

Let’s bring back sincerity before billing replaces bonding.

Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship.

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know.

Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship.

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know.

EvilMerodack:
Na why i dey choose my women with the kin Job wey dem dey do.
I have done stuffs with women in Finance(Bank and Audit), FMCG, Tech and now, na Oil and Gas i dey find badly but e still tight small

I carefully select women with earning powers first, every other thing na secondary

I no dey discriminate but i just want wetin i want

Goodluck to guys that find it cool to walk up to random women as ask them out.

For me, i gat don know where you dey work already before i go even show interest or save your contact

Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship.

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know.

dododawa1:
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