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I don't think i can borrow any friend money in my life again....50k,80k & 30k all gone in this 2019

cnonyechi:
Y. Wat happens if d person dies and the bank eats d money. Is it better to lend ?

hm... not, it's not better to lend. it's better not to lend ever. It's always better to rely on your own strength. With loans well only in one country - USA. In the rest-it is better not to deal with banks

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you lend people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

Because they believe that you'll lend them again without much effort since they paid the previous one before due date.

The goal is to earn your trust then boom, they'll borrow a huge amount which they'll never pay back.

Nazgul:
Because they believe that you'll lend them again without much effort since they paid the previous one before due date.

The goal is to earn your trust then boom, they'll borrow a huge amount which they'll never pay back.

Exactly what my afang seller did to me.
Though not huge money, but she paid back twice and the third time, my 30k grew wings.
😂😂😂😂😂

pocohantas:
Exactly what my afang seller did to me.
Though not huge money, but she paid back twice and the third time, my 30k grew wings.
😂😂😂😂😂

The worst part is that they would have the money but would deliberately choose not to pay you back. In their mind you're bigger than it so why can't you leave it for them.