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My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 07, 2025
Quite long... So, there's this my friend (male) since 10years now, he's the jovial type and social as well, but right now the friendship is sour. Last year, when I broke up with my ex, he was the so happy about it that he banters me any given chance he gets. I didn't see any fault with it because he warned me before entering the relationship.
He introduced me to this girl(chi) from where he is serving so I got interested not because I wanted anything serious with the girl but my friend kept on Insisting dat I try her... So, I met the girl we got talking and she was a vibe ngl, my friend invited me to his place of service, I went and spent 2weeks there. Immediately I got to the town where he is serving he introduced me to the girl and we clicked almost immediately, this babe was so clingy and all dat, we got intimate, I was staying with my friend in his room while the babe has her own room with her roommate, so all of a sudden my guy hated this babe and started beefing her, I was surprised asking him what the problem was and he refused telling me.
One day, on a Wednesday he told me he'll be expecting a girl to spend the night with him so I'll have to excuse him and go and stay in Chi's room, which was kinda disrespectful to me for the fact I am a guest here, after telling the rest of our guys in our group, I was persuaded to stay over in Chi's room so dat my guy will spend the night with his own guest, I agreed but on the condition that the next day he'll have to excuse me as well so that Chi will spend the night with me, he agreed. So, I went to Chi's room to sleep which was awkward to me but anyways I had sex with her that night and unfortunately for my friend his guest didn't let him have his way with her, which was funny...
Now it was my turn to spend the night with Chi in his room, my guy refused after telling him I had sex with her, my friend swore on his life that he won't let Chi enter his room, Note; ( this was the girl he hyped and told me she was nice and good) still refused to tell me what his problem with the Chi is after I came. I was still in Ondo(my friend's state of service) 4days before my departure my friend stopped cooking with me, omo but I was still hanging out with the babe till my last day there, my friend refused to escort me to the park the morning I was going. On my way, my friend didn't call me once to know whether I am safe or not, he didn't. I got back to Lagos and still chat this girl as a friend, that day I went back to Lagos was the same day my friend too went back to Lagos.
In our circle of friends and our group, this guy kept on saying horrible things about this girl, the most horrible words mehn, I now asked him "If you knew she was horrible, why did you introduce me to her", still no answer🤷🏾‍♂️. Now, on Christmas Day, we were hanging out and on our way to the bar, we passed my ex's house and my friend intentionally went to my ex's gate and banged on her gate causing a nuisance, I immediately made it known to him that I didn't like what he did, instead of him acknowledging what he did was wrong and uncalled for he started telling me I did him wrong in Ondo state when I came visiting, I was amazed and cold wondering what wrong I did to him in Ondo state... We fell out that day, and the rest of our guys we're asking him what wrong I did, he still wasn't making any sense, he refused to apologize for what he did dat day till today. So, unlike him I was worried and I decided to do my diggings, I had a long talk with Chi and asked him if she had any thing with my friend that I am not aware of and she told me my friend made a move on her for sex and relationship and she turned him down but he wasn't specific about what he really wanted with the girl and I felt used and betrayed but I lock up, nothing spoil *I DON COLLECT MY THREE POINTS* .
I thought of everything and I realized what the problem was with him and the sudden hatred he grew for Chi... I was the problem. He had feelings for the girl and couldn't open up, he didn't even tell me his friends about the move he made on the girl, another question I asked myself was why did he invite me and linked me up with the girl in the first place, I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl that I am not even dating because I told him I don't want a relationship with any girl, we've not spoken since December... I still talk with the girl actually no strings attached tho... Now, early this week the girl told me that my friend is now moving close to her again and acting all nice with her, he even asked her to come to his room and eat with him, saying he wants the friendship back with her like it was before I came into the picture or rather invited. Anyways, the friendship between me and my friend isn't like it was anymore and I don't really care again... Saw jealousy in him and I don't welcome that...
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Joeboypondeck(m): 10:01am On Nov 07, 2025
Lalalasky:
Quite long... So, there's this my friend (male) since 10years now, he's the jovial type and social as well, but right now the friendship is sour. Last year, when I broke up with my ex, he was the so happy about it that he banters me any given chance he gets. I didn't see any fault with it because he warned me before entering the relationship.
He introduced me to this girl(chi) from where he is serving so I got interested not because I wanted anything serious with the girl but my friend kept on Insisting dat I try her... So, I met the girl we got talking and she was a vibe ngl, my friend invited me to his place of service, I went and spent 2weeks there. Immediately I got to the town where he is serving he introduced me to the girl and we clicked almost immediately, this babe was so clingy and all dat, we got intimate, I was staying with my friend in his room while the babe has her own room with her roommate, so all of a sudden my guy hated this babe and started beefing her, I was surprised asking him what the problem was and he refused telling me.
One day, on a Wednesday he told me he'll be expecting a girl to spend the night with him so I'll have to excuse him and go and stay in Chi's room, which was kinda disrespectful to me for the fact I am a guest here, after telling the rest of our guys in our group, I was persuaded to stay over in Chi's room so dat my guy will spend the night with his own guest, I agreed but on the condition that the next day he'll have to excuse me as well so that Chi will spend the night with me, he agreed. So, I went to Chi's room to sleep which was awkward to me but anyways I had sex with her that night and unfortunately for my friend his guest didn't let him have his way with her, which was funny...
Now it was my turn to spend the night with Chi in his room, my guy refused after telling him I had sex with her, my friend swore on his life that he won't let Chi enter his room, Note; ( this was the girl he hyped and told me she was nice and good) still refused to tell me what his problem with the Chi is after I came. I was still in Ondo(my friend's state of service) 4days before my departure my friend stopped cooking with me, omo but I was still hanging out with the babe till my last day there, my friend refused to escort me to the park the morning I was going. On my way, my friend didn't call me once to know whether I am safe or not, he didn't. I got back to Lagos and still chat this girl as a friend, that day I went back to Lagos was the same day my friend too went back to Lagos.
In our circle of friends and our group, this guy kept on saying horrible things about this girl, the most horrible words mehn, I now asked him "If you knew she was horrible, why did you introduce me to her", still no answer🤷🏾‍♂️. Now, on Christmas Day, we were hanging out and on our way to the bar, we passed my ex's house and my friend intentionally went to my ex's gate and banged on her gate causing a nuisance, I immediately made it known to him that I didn't like what he did, instead of him acknowledging what he did was wrong and uncalled for he started telling me I did him wrong in Ondo state when I came visiting, I was amazed and cold wondering what wrong I did to him in Ondo state... We fell out that day, and the rest of our guys we're asking him what wrong I did, he still wasn't making any sense, he refused to apologize for what he did dat day till today. So, unlike him I was worried and I decided to do my diggings, I had a long talk with Chi and asked him if she had any thing with my friend that I am not aware of and she told me my friend made a move on her for sex and relationship and she turned him down but he wasn't specific about what he really wanted with the girl and I felt used and betrayed but I lock up, nothing spoil *I DON COLLECT MY THREE POINTS* .
I thought of everything and I realized what the problem was with him and the sudden hatred he grew for Chi... I was the problem. He had feelings for the girl and couldn't open up, he didn't even tell me his friends about the move he made on the girl, another question I asked myself was why did he invite me and linked me up with the girl in the first place, I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl that I am not even dating because I told him I don't want a relationship with any girl, we've not spoken since December... I still talk with the girl actually no strings attached tho... Now, early this week the girl told me that my friend is now moving close to her again and acting all nice with her, he even asked her to come to his room and eat with him, saying he wants the friendship back with her like it was before I came into the picture or rather invited. Anyways, the friendship between me and my friend isn't like it was anymore and I don't really care again... Saw jealousy in him and I don't welcome that...
must you bring your personal life to social media cry
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Tenrack: 10:07am On Nov 07, 2025
So we're now recycling old stories now on Nairaland Seun. This is really pathetic. I recall reading this tale a year or two ago.

Besides why do you stop us from saying the truth as it is on this platform. You keep banning and censoring our words like kids from kindergarten. Little influence you have you are oppressing us. Keep encouraging nonsense you hear. If you like ban me again.
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Joeboypondeck(m): 10:08am On Nov 07, 2025
Tenrack:
So we're now recycling old stories now on Nairaland Seun. This is really pathetic. I recall reading this tale a year or two ago.

Besides why do you stop us from saying the truth as it is on this platform. You keep banning and censoring our words like kids from kindergarten. Little influence you have you are oppressing us. Keep encouraging nonsense you hear. If you like ban me again.
copy and paste oooooooo
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Tenrack: 10:09am On Nov 07, 2025
Joeboypondeck:
copy and paste oooooooo
for real.
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Nobody: 10:39am On Nov 07, 2025
Joeboypondeck:
copy and paste oooooooo
This is not copy and paste tho....
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Nobody: 10:39am On Nov 07, 2025
cry
Joeboypondeck:
must you bring your personal life to social media cry
Silence would have been ur best answer
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Noblejohn32(m): 10:53am On Nov 07, 2025
I have so much to say about this.
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Rhassidy360: 11:29am On Nov 07, 2025
Go make money and stop been foolish
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by TheWolfen(m): 11:36am On Nov 07, 2025
Go make money and forget all those bullshiit bro undecided
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by RollinTNDA: 12:04pm On Nov 07, 2025
A 10 year old has smartphone

Many topics here are from 10 yrs olds
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by brain54(m): 12:20pm On Nov 07, 2025
Na the op first share him story for NL...


Abi this is the strangest story Una don read here? Because I no understand why Una dey pick on am.

If una no fit relate to the story then ignore and jump am pass.


I actually relate with the story and think they are lessons to learn from it.

Op no mind anybody jare!
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Gggjhhj: 1:09pm On Nov 07, 2025
Tenrack:
So we're now recycling old stories now on Nairaland Seun. This is really pathetic. I recall reading this tale a year or two ago.

Besides why do you stop us from saying the truth as it is on this platform. You keep banning and censoring our words like kids from kindergarten. Little influence you have you are oppressing us. Keep encouraging nonsense you hear. If you like ban me again.
The guy don crase
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Ki11YurSev: 1:42pm On Nov 07, 2025
Lalalasky:
Quite long... So, there's this my friend (male) since 10years now, he's the jovial type and social as well, but right now the friendship is sour. Last year, when I broke up with my ex, he was the so happy about it that he banters me any given chance he gets. I didn't see any fault with it because he warned me before entering the relationship.
He introduced me to this girl(chi) from where he is serving so I got interested not because I wanted anything serious with the girl but my friend kept on Insisting dat I try her... So, I met the girl we got talking and she was a vibe ngl, my friend invited me to his place of service, I went and spent 2weeks there. Immediately I got to the town where he is serving he introduced me to the girl and we clicked almost immediately, this babe was so clingy and all dat, we got intimate, I was staying with my friend in his room while the babe has her own room with her roommate, so all of a sudden my guy hated this babe and started beefing her, I was surprised asking him what the problem was and he refused telling me.
One day, on a Wednesday he told me he'll be expecting a girl to spend the night with him so I'll have to excuse him and go and stay in Chi's room, which was kinda disrespectful to me for the fact I am a guest here, after telling the rest of our guys in our group, I was persuaded to stay over in Chi's room so dat my guy will spend the night with his own guest, I agreed but on the condition that the next day he'll have to excuse me as well so that Chi will spend the night with me, he agreed. So, I went to Chi's room to sleep which was awkward to me but anyways I had sex with her that night and unfortunately for my friend his guest didn't let him have his way with her, which was funny...
Now it was my turn to spend the night with Chi in his room, my guy refused after telling him I had sex with her, my friend swore on his life that he won't let Chi enter his room, Note; ( this was the girl he hyped and told me she was nice and good) still refused to tell me what his problem with the Chi is after I came. I was still in Ondo(my friend's state of service) 4days before my departure my friend stopped cooking with me, omo but I was still hanging out with the babe till my last day there, my friend refused to escort me to the park the morning I was going. On my way, my friend didn't call me once to know whether I am safe or not, he didn't. I got back to Lagos and still chat this girl as a friend, that day I went back to Lagos was the same day my friend too went back to Lagos.
In our circle of friends and our group, this guy kept on saying horrible things about this girl, the most horrible words mehn, I now asked him "If you knew she was horrible, why did you introduce me to her", still no answer🤷🏾‍♂️. Now, on Christmas Day, we were hanging out and on our way to the bar, we passed my ex's house and my friend intentionally went to my ex's gate and banged on her gate causing a nuisance, I immediately made it known to him that I didn't like what he did, instead of him acknowledging what he did was wrong and uncalled for he started telling me I did him wrong in Ondo state when I came visiting, I was amazed and cold wondering what wrong I did to him in Ondo state... We fell out that day, and the rest of our guys we're asking him what wrong I did, he still wasn't making any sense, he refused to apologize for what he did dat day till today. So, unlike him I was worried and I decided to do my diggings, I had a long talk with Chi and asked him if she had any thing with my friend that I am not aware of and she told me my friend made a move on her for sex and relationship and she turned him down but he wasn't specific about what he really wanted with the girl and I felt used and betrayed but I lock up, nothing spoil *I DON COLLECT MY THREE POINTS* .
I thought of everything and I realized what the problem was with him and the sudden hatred he grew for Chi... I was the problem. He had feelings for the girl and couldn't open up, he didn't even tell me his friends about the move he made on the girl, another question I asked myself was why did he invite me and linked me up with the girl in the first place, I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl that I am not even dating because I told him I don't want a relationship with any girl, we've not spoken since December... I still talk with the girl actually no strings attached tho... Now, early this week the girl told me that my friend is now moving close to her again and acting all nice with her, he even asked her to come to his room and eat with him, saying he wants the friendship back with her like it was before I came into the picture or rather invited. Anyways, the friendship between me and my friend isn't like it was anymore and I don't really care again... Saw jealousy in him and I don't welcome that...
Nah wa o.. if you and that jealousy friend wey you tag ham fit dey beef each other over one kain used chikito grin Wetin go con dey sup if una two marry some kain old chikitas put for crib.. poison each other abi cheesy

You two should better wise up.. Make una nor go dey loyal for one kind banny wey nor worth una two friendship or whatever.

Very irritating storyline grin
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Sandralight(f): 2:30pm On Nov 07, 2025
Your story started last year, both of you even went home for Christmas and till now your friend still dey serve, you friend no dey finish Nysc lol
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Nemesis0147(m): 7:38pm On Nov 07, 2025
Tenrack:
So we're now recycling old stories now on Nairaland Seun. This is really pathetic. I recall reading this tale a year or two ago.

Besides why do you stop us from saying the truth as it is on this platform. You keep banning and censoring our words like kids from kindergarten. Little influence you have you are oppressing us. Keep encouraging nonsense you hear. If you like ban me again.
the thing tire me….some people sha
Just for attention….
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Nemesis0147(m): 7:39pm On Nov 07, 2025
brain54:
Na the op first share him story for NL...


Abi this is the strangest story Una don read here? Because I no understand why Una dey pick on am.

If una no fit relate to the story then ignore and jump am pass.


I actually relate with the story and think they are lessons to learn from it.

Op no mind anybody jare!
this is an old story on this platform and he is not the owner sef
He just copied and pasted it
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by brain54(m): 7:42pm On Nov 07, 2025
Nemesis0147:
this is an old story on this platform and he is not the owner sef
He just copied and pasted it
Okay I see...
Re: My Friend Beefed Me Over A Girl He Introduced Me To by Nobody: 10:52pm On Nov 07, 2025
Nemesis0147:
this is an old story on this platform and he is not the owner sef
He just copied and pasted it
Lol... Una funny sha.... See how serious and stupid u sounded saying this
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