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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by AlphaTaikun: 8:45am On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?

Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.

Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)

Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc

Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

NEVER get married without working on yourself. Work on your "emotional intelligence" and look for a woman who complements you in terms of being resourceful and entrepreneurial for instance. You can still get married up to 45 years of age.

Some wealthy, prominent men I know globally even got married for the first time ever in their early 50s as well and then proceeded to have their first children. Because of the biological clock, women CANNOT afford to stay too long before getting married or having children like men. Period.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Lumig: 8:48am On Nov 10, 2025

Don't get marry

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by AlphaTaikun: 8:48am On Nov 10, 2025

ibechris:
30 is good to settle down.

But don't date a liability in preparation for marriage.

If u do,u might be setting yourself for a great financial down fall.

A terrible one at that.

I have been married for 10years...my greatest luck was that I married a wife who sees marriage as a team ensuring that we win all the time.

She was my school mate and we married when I was 32.

Today,I will say with certainty I have no regret in being married.

Finally,if u are not financially argute pls avoid marriage...

Succinctly stated.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by bizbro: 9:14am On Nov 10, 2025

25 if the money is available and you’re emotionally and mentally matured.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Nchenches: 9:36am On Nov 10, 2025

LIVINGICONREBOR:
For this great tinubulation era, nah 45 years win am.🥱

45? At 45, man in Nigeria is approaching departure lounge.
The average life span in Nigeria is 54 years. It has even gone lower since APC took power in Nigeria.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by MartinsD12(m): 10:35am On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

No best age , when you ready you will know, marriage no be traditional wedding and white wedding, kids will come , they will eat , clothing, medication, go to school infact you should have a plan that will cover their education for at least 10 years, budget a money plan for them , make no body deceive you , don't bring kids you can't train to suffer in this world.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Kaybaba5(m): 10:45am On Nov 10, 2025

LIVINGICONREBOR:
chiboy, what sort of English is this?🥱

Na English you dey find up and down

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by fitinwell: 11:01am On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

Demons go full your scrotums. E dat ooo.. shocked

don't say you want to settle down for a church girl virgin oo...

Only a baddie like yourself would fit eachother..

If you have the money you can settle down at your own pace... because Marriage is all about Money... Plenty Money.. steady income of money...

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Josywhyte: 11:25am On Nov 10, 2025

Any time e sweet you for mind to marry you marry. No gree person pressurize you into marriage wey u no ready. Most naija bannies no get sense at all,G-boys don use some of them. Na God hand we gather dey like this....

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by ibechris(m): 11:38am On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

Few marriages are crashing and many are also striving and doing very well.

The aim is for u to be among those that are doing well.

Additionally,ensure u have the patience to sustain ur marriage. That is where u are going to be tested often.

Good luck to u.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Nefort: 11:42am On Nov 10, 2025

Bukola94:
the best age is 23yrs to 30yrs and you must be financially bouyant and have a well paying job. Is not easy in Nigeria of today, people that married at early age and have made enough money are very lucky

If you loose the well-paying job nko?

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by YoungLionken(m): 11:45am On Nov 10, 2025

Brother, you can have kids without getting married. So many married men will never renew their vows (another chance to marry the same wife) if the opportunity comes, as they're living in regrets. And if you must marry, settle down select like beans from stones...

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Dynamicboss: 1:11pm On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

It’s your life but at old age, you will wish to change the tide of time and never lived the life you are living now.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by May1st: 1:31pm On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir....
I've planned my life ahead , you know sometimes plans falter. Doing good financially, currently I earn in two currencies , plus Nigerian naira as well. I have liquid assets , stocks ,bonds. Ntb
Asides from the pressures I've always been very mindful of the maths too , I don't want to have teenage kids in my 60s.

Godspeed bro.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by merrygorou(m): 2:55pm On Nov 10, 2025*

MikeofKd:
I dey use protection, no shaking. Plus I only do clean girls.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Gerrard59(m): 3:11pm On Nov 10, 2025

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

After him don "chop" the entire West Africa grin

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Gerrard59(m): 3:16pm On Nov 10, 2025

Mcslize:
The bolded part is like finding a needle in the deep ocean.

Majority of our girls are now damaged and far from being chaste.
If you find one, let me know.

Who damaged these girls?

Nigerians go support yahoo yahoo criminals, then complain when the negative effects showcase themselves in the society.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by VEE2010(m): 4:35pm On Nov 10, 2025

Best advice I will give my sons is to marry at 27.
I got married at 33, my wife had issues with pregnancy for another few years...
Thank God today, we have children now...

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Mcslize: 5:55pm On Nov 10, 2025

Gerrard59:
Who damaged these girls?

Nigerians go support yahoo yahoo criminals, then complain when the negative effects showcase themselves in the society.

We can't blame men for the pandemic of our girls. Let's blame it on their materialistic nature.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by joachimnkenchor(m): 6:21pm On Nov 10, 2025

When money enter your hand

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by te3fik(m): 6:23pm On Nov 10, 2025

Get married when you are ready. There is no age limit to marriage else if you rush in, you will rush out

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by folake4u: 6:38pm On Nov 10, 2025

50 is a great age. After all, men age like fine wine.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by pocohantas(f): 7:12pm On Nov 10, 2025

folake4u:
50 is a great age. After all, men age like fine wine.

58 is more like it and to an 18yo girl.😘

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Mistersolar: 7:31pm On Nov 10, 2025

can u gist me a little..what did their wives do

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Karleb(m): 7:41pm On Nov 10, 2025

35.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Mistersolar: 7:42pm On Nov 10, 2025

degree holder go show u pepper

Britishcoins:
I married at 32, my wife was 22 that was last year, but before then, I was already doing fine in my business, I ensure that I built my house atleast no more renting... then I bought small car, before I now went for her.. Today I am comfortably taking care of her, my baby son and two siblings of mine...

Marrriage is sweet if you marry for peace of mind.. She is beautiful and good cook, though not a degree holder but I love it like that..

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Mistersolar: 7:43pm On Nov 10, 2025

what is shes a single mother

IbrahimSola:
If you have money and wisdom to handle the kind of woman that you want to marry, go ahead and marry even if you're 19 years old. If any of the 2 is missing, sorry. You won't enjoy the marriage.

You must have money. Don't let anyone deceive you. Most marriage disputes come from money. Finance.
You must have the wisdom to handle the kind of woman you marry. If you marry a PhD, you must have the wisdom to handle such a woman. If you marry an ogbanje, you need a requisite wisdom. If you marry agaracha, you need the level of wisdom to handle her. Money + Wisdom = successful marriage. Wisdom includes even intimacy matters. Every other thing in between na stories.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Mistersolar: 7:50pm On Nov 10, 2025

why would u b saying dis,ur kid raised by single mum,ur baby mama sleeping around

autoez:
Marriage can often feel like a burden rather than a blessing. Focus on raising children and enjoying life rather than getting caught up in the institution of marriage. True marital love is almost impossible to achieve with the kinds of ladies out there now. When finances become tight, the pressures of marriage can weigh heavily. Embrace the idea of being a single father – it can be a fulfilling path without the complications that often come with marriage. Prioritize what truly matters and live life on your own terms.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by folake4u: 8:14pm On Nov 10, 2025

pocohantas:
58 is more like it and to an 18yo girl.😘

Yes, that's more like it. cheesy

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by placeofallure(f): 2:54am On Nov 11, 2025

MikeofKd:
Thank you Big sis..
I'm not playing around with girls on purpose , it's a coping mechanism for the pressures I face , but i would reduce it to the lowest minimum probably find one active sexaul partner while I look for my future wife.

Berreeer! Good luck to you in your search.

Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Nnamdipapa(m): 1:47pm On Nov 11, 2025

40 to 45 and with a goal of one kid at most. if you are a successful man, find a gf who can have a baby for you and work out an arrangement with her. Marriage means giving up your precious independence.

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Re: What's The Best Age To Get Married As A Nigerian Man ?? by Diamond098454(f): 3:08pm On Nov 11, 2025

That age you start Cariesing girls on your bed is the best time to marry. You can't be sleeping with different girls and at the same time asking for a particular age one can get to before getting married NO WAY....

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