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| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 5:38pm On Oct 28, 2025*. Modified: 8:56am On Oct 30, 2025 |
good evening to you, sir NemoDatQuod. how've you been doing? trust family is doing great?? trust work is going well?? I express my profound gratitude for the altruism you showed the other time sir. Thank you so much! After the unique inputs you made the other time, subsequently, I made it known that, the duration that remains in the course of therapy ranges from 5 - 6 months. And after this, physiotherapy sessions would follow. For months,I tried to actualize my aim by going around to gather the needed inputs, buhh when it seemed nothing concrete was forthcoming, I reluctantly reached out to ex'colleagues from secondary school. And surprisingly, by God's Grace, the inputs that were needed for the completion of the therapy and the physiotherapy sessions that would follow, were gotten. The proofs are below sir:
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| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 7:35pm On Oct 28, 2025*. Modified: 10:09am On Oct 30, 2025 |
The inputs I have on ground, are meant to actualize specific aims, so I'm unable to tamper with them in any way. Please, sir NemoDatQuod, could you consider making an input so I can have something at hand to hold onto from now till next February or March? From now, till the time I recuperate, there would be a necessity to get basic things for myself regularly, and I can't put hand to what's on ground, else, what they're meant for could be jeopardized. Could you please vouchsafe to make this fulfilment sir? I present this humbly. |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 9:36am On Oct 30, 2025*. Modified: 10:13am On Oct 30, 2025 |
I'm terribly sorry if it seems I'm being bothersome sir NemoDatQuod. The antispam bot dealt with me for a while. For God's Sake sir, please, do find it within you to oblige me 🙏🏽. Everything I've made-known so far, has been the truth. I earnestly appeal to you sir NemoDatQuod, to please extend the Grace you expect to receive from God, to your fellow man sir. • I am ready to prove my identity to the core. • I'm willing to prove beyond reasonable doubt that - I was a student of Wesley. • Sir, I will prove that everything Victoria wrote in the report she made to the Wesley Alumni group, about her visit to me together with Tosin, are valid to the core. • Should you ask of it sir, I am ready to prove that Victoria and Tosin are ex'students of Wesley just like I am, infact, I will make it possible for you to reach them independently, to verify what were made-known in the report. I would go this far, to make it seen that I'm authentic with my claims to the core, and to obliterate the impression of chicanery. |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by NemoDatQuod(m): 9:30am On Nov 10, 2025 |
I felt you exhibited an ungrateful behavior the last time we interacted. I gave you more than you asked and you came back within a few days to ask for more, for something else. I have never stolen a £ let alone a Naira in my life. I work hard for my sustenance and I am not a greedy person. I stay away from those who exhibit the sort of actions I saw you exhibit. In this instance, I have seen your write up. Yet you have not made an ask of me. That is something else that is puzzling. If you are truly in need, why have you not stated what you need and justify it? There is nothing in your write up below that states what you need from me and its justification. I'll come back here in the next couple of days to see if you have made an actual ask with justification. TheBlueDiamond: |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Addme: 10:17am On Nov 10, 2025 |
NemoDatQuod:Good morning Sir and merry Christmas in advance. It's been a while. Trust your family is great? You are one of those I will never forget. Thanks once again |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 1:15pm On Nov 10, 2025*. Modified: 8:30pm On Nov 11, 2025 |
TheBlueDiamond:To buttress this, and perhaps establish clarity and ensure more preciseness, the input I have on ground - is designated for a specific purpose which has been made-known, and due to this, it can't be touched so that what it's meant for, won't be compromised. Also, sir NemoDatQuod, the principles involved in the distinct form of regimen I am onto presently, are restrictive in terms of mobility. With these, comes the reason for reaching out to you sir, for input to hold onto, until I recuperate at least |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by drstranged: 8:50pm On Nov 10, 2025 |
Why should a man be scared that a girl doesn't love him when there are hundreds of girls out there? Only simps talk this way. You need to swallow the red pill! |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 5:54pm On Nov 11, 2025 |
NemoDatQuod:Sir NemoDatQuod, I tried to merge the whole write-up into one, buhh the antispam bot keeps removing my posts. Please sir, do try and check the fifth page of this thread, starting from the very top. Virtually everything that needs to be known, are there 🙏🏽! |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 8:20pm On Nov 11, 2025 |
NemoDatQuod:I am extremely grateful for deeming my "reaching out to you" worthy of being responded to, sir NemoDatQuod. The details that constituted my reaching out to you, were made in parts, and from the nature of your response sir, it seems only the last and concluding part of my posts was read by you. Sir NemoDatQuod, please for God's Sake, do vouchsafe to check page 4 or 5 of this same thread. https://www.nairaland.com/8347832/im-afraid-girlfriend-dont-love/4#137274660?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C7285030959 I mean the above. Though made in parts, the full information about the nature of my reaching out to you are embedded there sir, including "making an ask and it's justification". I present a thorough apology if I ever come across as being ungrateful sir. I'm not such kind of person. After the huge input you kindly made the very first time I approached you, I went to the pharmacy to utilize the money for what it's meant for. On getting there, when the pharmacist on ground made the price of the drugs known to me, I was hit with the realization that - the drugs has gotten much more expensive than I imagined. The money I had with me could barely cover 2 months worth of the drugs, out of the 5 - 6 months that remains. This formed the basis of me reaching out to you again back then, rather than remaining mute about the true picture of things. I made a mistake, I admit sir. At the period I approached you the first time, I was mentally disturbed, agitated and distressed about the whole thing. I should have done due diligence before reaching out on here at all, buhh I couldn't, due to my disturbed psychological state then. I only quoted a figure I thought would be enough to probably cover the whole thing, buhh I ended up being capitally wrong, on accessing reality. I applaud your authenticity, unequivocalness and good naturedness, and I never aimed to opportunistically leverage on your distinct altruism, sir NemoDatQuod. My reaching out to you, is driven by true need. In order to establish clarity and ensure preciseness, I will merge the write-up I earlier made on here, in their entirety. Good evening to you, sir NemoDatQuod. how've you been doing? trust family is doing great?? trust work is going well?? I express my profound gratitude for the altruism you showed the other time sir. Thank you so much! After the unique inputs you made the other time, subsequently, I made it known that, the duration that remains in the course of therapy ranges from 5 - 6 months. And after this, physiotherapy sessions would follow. For months,I tried to actualize my aim by going around to gather the needed inputs, buhh when it seemed nothing concrete was forthcoming, I reluctantly reached out to ex'colleagues from secondary school. And surprisingly, by God's Grace, the inputs that were needed for the completion of the therapy and the physiotherapy sessions that would follow, were gotten. The proofs of what were made-known above, have been uploaded. Do scroll to the top of this thread sir, they will be seen. The inputs I have on ground, are meant to actualize specific aims, so I'm unable to tamper with them in any way. Please, sir NemoDatQuod, could you consider making an input so I can have something at hand to hold onto from now till next February or March? From now, till the time I recuperate, there would be a necessity to get basic things for myself regularly, and I can't put hand to what's on ground, else, what they're meant for could be jeopardized. Could you please vouchsafe to make this fulfilment sir? I present this humbly. I'm terribly sorry if it seems I'm being bothersome sir NemoDatQuod. The antispam bot dealt with me for a while. For God's Sake sir, please, do find it within you to oblige me 🙏🏽. Everything I've made-known so far, has been the truth. I earnestly appeal to you sir NemoDatQuod, to please extend the Grace you expect to receive from God, to your fellow man sir. • I am ready to prove my identity to the core. • I'm willing to prove beyond reasonable doubt that - I was a student of Wesley. • Sir, I will prove that everything Victoria wrote in the report she made to the Wesley Alumni group, about her visit to me together with Tosin, are valid to the core. • Should you ask of it sir, I am ready to prove that Victoria and Tosin are ex'students of Wesley just like I am, infact, I will make it possible for you to reach them independently, to verify what were made-known in the report. I would go this far, to make it seen that I'm authentic with my claims to the core, and to obliterate the impression of chicanery. |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 4:59pm On Nov 13, 2025*. Modified: 1:14pm On Nov 14, 2025 |
TheBlueDiamond:To be direct sir, just like it has been revealed in the report, the one hundred and fifty thousand naira that remains after the money for 5 months worth of the drugs has been deducted, is specifically and mainly meant for physiotherapy sessions. Even with this, there is a recommended drug I ought to be taking along with the main one, which is either aceclofenac or Diclofenac potassium, and getting either of these would eat-up a significant proportion of the money at a capacity. I truly hope you will discern what I'm trying to point out here sir. So, I can't attempt to use the money for reasons other than what it is originally intended for. Attempting to do it, would be tantamount to me not knowing what I'm doing, sir NemoDatQuod. I was able to obtain this level of support from these people because I was a demigod to them when it comes to academics, back then during secondary school days. I taught mathematics and further mathematics to most of them, and made good memories with them. My hope got rekindled when I saw your response. And for the umpteenth time sir, I won't hesitate to prove everything that were indicated in the report, to the core. I latch-onto Apostle Joshua Selman's recent prophetic words. It says: "Go Forward, Find Help..." I will be profoundly thankful if what I seek, is found through you, sir NemoDatQuod. |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by FriendsAndFans(m): 2:38pm On Nov 25, 2025 |
NemoDatQuod:I hope you haven't fallen for his theatrics. He's a very dishonest person |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 3:16pm On Nov 26, 2025*. Modified: 9:13am On Nov 27, 2025 |
FriendsAndFans:Stop hounding me please! You're guilty of libel with the lies you've been throwing around. I don't even know who you are. I've never had anything to do with you before. There are no theatrics anywhere. I have never shown dishonesty on here before. I am genuine, and everything I've made-known are authentic and can be proven to the core. Amman Adeiza Usman with the monickers FriendAndFans, DiskJockeyNaMum, Whiteiverson, is the villain of your story, not me! He was the one who attempted to scam you, so stop mistaking me for him just because an excellent soul chose to gave him more than he asked, the same day he helped me too. Just like I made it known previously, the person that cloned your account, goes by the official name Robert Adah Adah. His official monicker on here is Whiteiverson. I chose to dig deep, extracted these info, and make them known, so as to set things straight, since you've been dropping hefty lies on me. I am not the same person as Whiteiverson. So, quit scandalizing me on here. I have never been involved in scamming anyone on here before, and I don't plan on ever scamming anyone! Why will you even harbour the idea that Whiteiverson and I are the same person? Whiteiverson bets, I don't! Not trying to be prove to be morally superior to those who bet though. There is no similarity between Whiteiverson and I at all. Please, investigate thoroughly and see that - I profoundly share nothing with him. I use this medium to ask that - you present undeniable proofs and evidences that clearly shows that I am truly the same person as Whiteiverson. Also, please, show proofs that I was the dishonest person who cloned your account back in 2024. You can tender them if you have them. I am 100% sure, no, 200% certain that, you don't have tangible and tenable proofs to provide, because I don't know anything about what you've been accusing me of. I don't even know who you are! You just came out of nowhere, then, mysteriously started slandering my identity on here! What sort of grotesquerie is this?! Okay, I use this medium, to call Whiteiverson, to come prove his innocence and clear his name, even though the evidence gotten from search, paints him, as true culprit of what FriendsAndFans accused him of. Sir Nemo Dat Quod, this person aims to slander me, and heap hefty lies on me, in a desperate attempt to sabotage me from possibly getting any input from you. His assertions are malevolent and utterly false sir. His claims are unfounded and should be pooh-poohed! Incase his mendacious, malevolent and slandering assertions have made you doubt my authenticity, sir Nemo Dat Quod, please for God's Sake, give me the grace and chance to prove all I've made-known to the core. |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by MoreThanGold: 3:07pm On Dec 01, 2025*. Modified: 3:37pm On Dec 01, 2025 |
FriendsAndFans:But why are you trying to block the guy from getting what he needs? I have read everything he explained and most of them kind of tally with his claims. Sorry, wetin you dey gain from denying him the help he needs? And small thing now, you too go dey shout say our leaders are bad, this government is very cruel to the people. But you nko? No be heartlessness you too dey show so?? Why you dey speak bad of him to someone who has the potential to help him?? no be wickedness be dat?? Omo some people get dark heart for dis life oo hmm! |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by ThePureDiamond(m): 11:52pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
@MoreThanGold The thing still shocks and sounds unbelievable to me. When he started with the slandering, I thought he was either joking or catching cruise. Imagine my monicker being pasted by him all over nairaland for something I don't even have any idea about. This guy doesn't even have any proof of what he's claiming. A single proof, he hasn't been able to provide. My brother, I have decided to abandon the blue diamond monicker oh, for the sake of my mental health. The guy don too slander am. I'm just here wondering what he intends to gain from the lies. I don't even know who he is; I have never had cause to have anything to do with him ever since I started using nairaland. He even came to this page deliberately, and attempts to block what I seek. Well, God would handle him. |
| Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by MoreThanGold: 8:40am On Dec 08, 2025 |
ThePureDiamond:See, one thing wey I believe be sey God no go allow an innocent person to die in the trap of the wicked. Chill brotherman. |
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