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Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Konjiboii: 5:25pm On Nov 12, 2025
D size is never big enough to this set of women we have this days, sex that was once sacred can be gotten for cheap and the economy isn’t making it easy at all for anyone both male and female. My advice is for you to focus on other ways to pleasure women without soo much dependence on D. Most women don’t get satisfaction from chuking but stimulation. Most times they allow you to keep chuking just so you can burst.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by joseph1832(m): 5:27pm On Nov 12, 2025
budaatum:
If you googled the image in my post that you quoted you'd find, To indicate how well endowed he is, the social media star flung her forearm onto the table, so size obviously mattered to her, but size is not the thing that matters the most to many people.

I'm certain you've read many times on Nairaland that the size of your wallet matters more to many, and some of us prefer you have a brain and can use it.
So, to you, size doesn't matter? 🤔
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 5:39pm On Nov 12, 2025
Luckystarsssz:
Na wa for nairaland mods and bot ooo them ban me because I show my small D.

I cannbet my balls yourdick is 100% bigger than mine, and I've very low testosterone before.

I meet someone months ago for where I go flex less than 10 minutes I don cum sef, i dey vex go drink beer I see the guy we discuss.

The guy get this ajebo vibe we begin talking woman matter because them just dey call am like every 30 minutes

Long story short he told me to do testosterone test which turn out to be 3.7 and how to finger

Here's my testimony

Now my testosterone is 6.2 now sef now I don dey fear to carry small girls wey no fit withstand me.

What he showed me was local herbs (I prepared it myself).for less than 12k. I have been on this mixture for 4 months.

Everything has changed for me. Erection on command lol

I'll show you my dick sieve make you too see as e small. The mod remove and ban me.

Another thing you've to learn how to breathe when having sef if not you go dey pour akamu quick.

here's what I have learned about this small kini.

If you want to enjoy sex and make a woman happy please boost your testosterone level.

Know how to finger/give head to a woman.

Small kini no mean say man go suffer.

One ijaw ashawo girl for quarter dey call me ozigizaga (small motor big engine.lol.
I’m glad you commented.

My testosterone is 3.8, very close to yours. Was it the herbs that boosted it? If yes, kindly let me know the components please.
Though, I have spontaneous erections.

Hope say you no dey give ashawo head oo😹

Bro, my own na like 12 years old boy o. Well, you fit drop your whatsapp number make we relate?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 5:40pm On Nov 12, 2025
Luckystarsssz:
Oga first increase your testosterone sex requires strength and training.
You sabi give head? You sabi finger woman?
If you no sabi any of the three you don't last with you D you don't know how to finger or give head woman go run from you oo talking from experience with many women of easy virtue.

The Koko be say boost your testosterone na me dey yarn you.
Small motor big engine ozigizaga
How I go boost am?

Me wey never dey with woman before, how I go sabi give head and finger?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Memberclub(m): 5:46pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
All these advices I am getting is helping me get out of my head.

What I mean by OT is just how to act in situations.
Does he bring his size up in conversations? Do these women bring the issue up? If they do, how does he respond to it?
Something like that.
No. He never brings it up in conversation.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by ukaface(f): 6:02pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
Oya advice me as a woman.
Better leave your p.enis alone.
You no create yourself, so why stress over something you don’t even have control over? You’re definitely not the first man with that kind of worry, so calm down and do normal.

Low testosterone can affect your mood, energy, confidence, and even performance ,it’s not your fault, it’s just a hormonal thing that can be managed. Sometimes it’s stress, poor sleep, or lifestyle causing it. You can fix it with the right treatment and healthy habits , eat well, rest well, exercise, reduce alcohol, and avoid smoking.

As for size, no let that one disturb your peace. Once a man don pass puberty, nothing can really change the size permanently. What matters more is your confidence and how you handle your partner.

Just focus on being healthy and confident. Work on your mindset, your body, and your energy.

But the kind advice I dey see for this thread sha😂
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by otherway: 6:03pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
The thickness is what is the issue. It’s just 4.5inches thick.
4.5 is not bad at all.

Remember that two small fingers joined together can make any lady moan yet the two are not up to 4.5inch thick.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by otherway: 6:05pm On Nov 12, 2025
Mk
ukaface:
Better leave your p.enis alone.
You no create yourself, so why stress over something you don’t even have control over? You’re definitely not the first man with that kind of worry, so calm down and do normal.

Low testosterone can affect your mood, energy, confidence, and even performance ,it’s not your fault, it’s just a hormonal thing that can be managed. Sometimes it’s stress, poor sleep, or lifestyle causing it. You can fix it with the right treatment and healthy habits , eat well, rest well, exercise, reduce alcohol, and avoid smoking.

As for size, no let that one disturb your peace. Once a man don pass puberty, nothing can really change the size permanently. What matters more is your confidence and how you handle your partner.

Just focus on being healthy and confident. Work on your mindset, your body, and your energy.

But the kind advice I dey see for this thread sha😂
Tell him to be a good head master and he is good.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigDawsNet: 6:15pm On Nov 12, 2025
MetalJigsaw:
So you're saying I'm large even though I see my size as average🤔
Wats your size?

Yeah you can see yourself as small but down dere you are large
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigDawsNet: 6:20pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I attended an all-boys secondary school for 6 years, lived in a male hostel in Uni for 6 years, seen countless men urinating by the roadside, seen bulges through clothes; Never have I seen a D as little as mine.
All those average sizes of 5-5.5 inches are for oyinbo men.

I appreciate your contribution.
Bro there is not like oyinbo dicck size here.. it’s the same measurement for all countries.. tho blacks have more sizes than whites generally


I’m suspecting you are a grower.. because when you are not erect it feels really small.. but focus on the erect part and use a tape rule to measure and come back here…

We are going to tell u if u small or not…
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigDawsNet: 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
Yes I am a grower but still small when erect.

I am 5 inches in length when erect and 4.5 inches in girth when erect.
I am 3 inches in length when flaccid. I don’t remember my flaccid girth.
Okay I have to read through the comments so I finally got your sizes

5inches is perfectly okay.. just make sure you are hard enough when sex starts!!

Aviod ladies that are alrdy exposed to large dicks because Dey may demand for more

4.5 inches in gritty us within the average.. you good to go bro..

Flaccid is for only you bro.. no one cares abt that… girls only want to see your erect…

Finally I want you to have more sex… that will definitely help boost ur confidence
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by MetalJigsaw(m): 6:32pm On Nov 12, 2025
BigDawsNet:
Wats your size?

Yeah you can see yourself as small but down dere you are large
7.5
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigDawsNet: 6:43pm On Nov 12, 2025
MetalJigsaw:
7.5
That’s larger
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by budaatum: 7:12pm On Nov 12, 2025
joseph1832:
So, to you, size doesn't matter? 🤔
Size does matter to many and to me.
A small d with a huge mind I love any day.
A huge d and a small mind can be for others.

In a philosophical sense, anyway. Since that's the only scenario where d size might matter to me as I'm hardly ever interested in the content of a person pants.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by MetalJigsaw(m): 7:32pm On Nov 12, 2025
BigDawsNet:
That’s larger
oh, thanks..
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by iammolise(m): 7:35pm On Nov 12, 2025
Nazgul:
You wrote all this and failed to tell us the main thing which is your Deek size in inches. Reveal that information and we'll know if you're small or average. And whether or not you should be worried.

Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case.
Before a guy would come on a forum and say his Dick is small don't you think it's obviously embarrassingly small, he said this has been brooding over it for years, it's not a case of normal size, before he chose to come here to seek views he couldn't tell anyone around him for fear of confidenciality.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by folake4u: 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
He suggested a virgin because she might be easier to satisfy since she hasn’t received anyone before, let alone a big one.
It’s not about esteem but the ability to satisfy.
Lol and I wonder why you the Op is coming to his defense.

Anyways, nice story. You're coming up well.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by FreeIgboho: 8:22pm On Nov 12, 2025
Rindo69:
What do you want to carry big D to do? You do not need more than 3 to 4 inches to satisfy. Don't let what you cannot change lead youto depression. Women will not remember the size of the D if you satisfy them in other ways. Learn other ways ...research but if you want to waste money, go and be buying cream
You people keep mentioning length.
LINSAR, it is the GIRTH that matters NOT the length which is almost meaningless!
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Branco6(m): 8:29pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
The T is normal range. It just happens to be on the lower end of the normal range.

My size isn't the normal size because I see men around and mine is way smaller.

I will build myself, thank you.
💯
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by papiSNEH(m): 8:34pm On Nov 12, 2025
Iweakbro:
You have comprehension problems. He is dealing with issue of confidence with the opposite gender. Money does not take away insecurities. Is your mentality this poor?
b'cos he don't have confidence to approach banny so he shouldn't make money? i see you with high mentality.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by merits(m): 9:05pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by merits(m): 9:07pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Go to any motel and 4Uk ashawo her reaction towards your d will let you know what the future has for you.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 9:14pm On Nov 12, 2025
ukaface:
Better leave your p.enis alone.
You no create yourself, so why stress over something you don’t even have control over? You’re definitely not the first man with that kind of worry, so calm down and do normal.

Low testosterone can affect your mood, energy, confidence, and even performance ,it’s not your fault, it’s just a hormonal thing that can be managed. Sometimes it’s stress, poor sleep, or lifestyle causing it. You can fix it with the right treatment and healthy habits , eat well, rest well, exercise, reduce alcohol, and avoid smoking.

As for size, no let that one disturb your peace. Once a man don pass puberty, nothing can really change the size permanently. What matters more is your confidence and how you handle your partner.

Just focus on being healthy and confident. Work on your mindset, your body, and your energy.

But the kind advice I dey see for this thread sha😂
Thank you!
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 9:22pm On Nov 12, 2025
folake4u:
Lol and I wonder why you the Op is coming to his defense.

Anyways, nice story. You're coming up well.
This your comment no follow at all. I replied you because I felt you misunderstood him, and also to get your perspective as a woman.

But it’s not your fault. If God didn’t create me that way, I wouldn’t be here washing my dirty linen in public.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 9:26pm On Nov 12, 2025
BigDawsNet:
Okay I have to read through the comments so I finally got your sizes

5inches is perfectly okay.. just make sure you are hard enough when sex starts!!

Aviod ladies that are alrdy exposed to large dicks because Dey may demand for more

4.5 inches in gritty us within the average.. you good to go bro..

Flaccid is for only you bro.. no one cares abt that… girls only want to see your erect…

Finally I want you to have more sex… that will definitely help boost ur confidence
Will try to make a move.

Should I inform the lady before hand or let her find out?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigDawsNet: 10:05pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
Will try to make a move.

Should I inform the lady before hand or let her find out?
Avoid underage
Aviod hookers
Connect with mature nice clean girls

Longterm relationships? Speak with your gf before the sex date! Probably few days to the sex date.. just tell her you have some worries with your sexual life.. don’t say “sexual problem “ it’s never a problem bro..

I’m sure the lady would be willing to listen and she won’t be having extreme expectations from the sex in terms of you having horse dickk..

If you dealing with a one night stand.. no need to discuss anything.. just make sure you are bold enough and be focused.. enjoy ur sex and leave…

Try register for gym bro.. it’s important


In all.. don’t stress urself bro.. you are within the average range and you will be fine
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by joseph1832(m): 10:52pm On Nov 12, 2025
budaatum:
Size does matter to many and to me.
A small d with a huge mind I love any day.
A huge d and a small mind can be for others.

In a philosophical sense, anyway. Since that's the only scenario where d size might matter to me as I'm hardly ever interested in the content of a person pants.
how small are we talking about?

I know for sure how women fantatise about huge dicks, then when faced with a huge dick, they complain and lament about the dick tearing or even expanding their vagina walls.

Not to talk of being hammered continuously for minutes after minutes, then the lamentations come... Yet this same women taunt men about being 1 minute man and having small dicks.

So, the questions goes, as regards the D, what do women want?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by folake4u: 10:52pm On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
This your comment no follow at all. I replied you because I felt you misunderstood him, and also to get your perspective as a woman.

But it’s not your fault. If God didn’t create me that way, I wouldn’t be here washing my dirty linen in public.
The reason I stated the low self esteem issue is because in 2022, you also created a thread talking about your inability to swim due to your manhood size.
https://www.nairaland.com/7135557/cant-swim-because-size-manhood

In 2025, you're still talking about it.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Iweakbro: 11:24pm On Nov 12, 2025
papiSNEH:
b'cos he don't have confidence to approach banny so he shouldn't make money? i see you with high mentality.
Making money won’t solve the insecurities with his d. if you have made money, you’ll understand what I’m saying.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:27pm On Nov 12, 2025
folake4u:
The reason I stated the low self esteem issue is because in 2022, you also created a thread talking about your inability to swim due to your manhood size.
https://www.nairaland.com/7135557/cant-swim-because-size-manhood

In 2025, you're still talking about it.
Because it’s still a problem in 2025!

In 2022, I was in school and broke. I had no intention to date a woman. Now I have a job and considering dating, hence the topic coming up again.

Low self esteem might be present, but last time I checked, high self esteem doesn’t turn a small D into a sizeable one!
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:28pm On Nov 12, 2025
joseph1832:
how small are we talking about?

I know for sure how women fantatise about huge dicks, then when faced with a huge dick, they complain and lament about the dick tearing or even expanding their vagina walls.

Not to talk of being hammered continuously for minutes after minutes, then the lamentations come... Yet this same women taunt men about being 1 minute man and having small dicks.

So, the questions goes, as regards the D, what do women want?
Erect size: 5 inches length, 4.5 inches girth.
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