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Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Bellotelli: 6:07am On Nov 19, 2025
Ok.. what about a scenario when you earn 50m p.a and the guy earns 30m p.a, would you still consider the man a broke ass?
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Nobody: 7:08am On Nov 19, 2025
Ok
Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Kobojunkie: 7:09am On Nov 19, 2025
Bellotelli:
Ok.. what about a scenario when you earn 50m p.a and the guy earns 30m p.a, would you still consider the man a broke ass?
She clearly says she wants a man that makes more than she does. You fail math class, abi wetin? undecided
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Bellotelli: 8:33am On Nov 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
She clearly says she wants a man that makes more than she does. You fail math class, abi wetin? undecided
Ok minion.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by NwaliE01: 9:56am On Nov 19, 2025
Don't respect your father too as soon as you earn more than him.

Nonsense!!
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by dragunov: 3:33pm On Nov 19, 2025
Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
Attention seeker.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Akanoaaa(m): 3:34pm On Nov 19, 2025
And what make you think a reach and sensible man with settled with someone like you?
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by 12345baba(m): 3:34pm On Nov 19, 2025
Potential ritual victim talking
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Montana23: 3:35pm On Nov 19, 2025
How much do you even have Werey…my mama get money pass my papa yet she Dey kneel down every morning ..who you be ..my own is as humans we have no brain and am sure if at least one person dies in every household everyday..we won’t talk about worldly things..we will be worried about who will die next ..not who is earning than who..tell me who don carry ordinary pant or tooth pick for grave yard..
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by IEJames(m): 3:37pm On Nov 19, 2025
Your Business OP
You just made your choice... and to be frank, it is totally up to you.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by themanderon: 3:37pm On Nov 19, 2025
Her type usually ends up in the hands of ritualists and yahoo boys. She will be ok when reality beckons.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Emeskhalifa(m): 3:38pm On Nov 19, 2025
Nice2023:
Aunty be calming down.

U are right and also very wrong.

I and my wife were bankers when we got married. Her salary was more than mine even till date and even when I left the bank to join a federal job.

But my side income brings in 40 to 50million per annum. If I had wanted to keep this a secret my wife wouldn't know.

So,salary isn't everything aunty. Love first and family goal is key to marriage and not ur skin and those things u just mentioned there.

ironically,I don't collect my wife's salary and in fact,I encourage her to save and invest towards retirement.
Your wife knew about your other business that brings 50m per year before marriage?
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by abidem4real: 3:40pm On Nov 19, 2025
Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
We don't need your explanation about your dos and don'ts. It's your life and your choice. Wetin I know be shey sooner or later, your eyes go clear. If a rich man dating a broke lady maltreats her or disrespect her, the fish brain generation would call him all sorts of bad names
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by michoim(m): 3:41pm On Nov 19, 2025
Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
Then wait for the families you mentioned to marry from...
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by mysticwarrior(m): 3:44pm On Nov 19, 2025
A naive child is talking.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Amarachieze(m): 3:45pm On Nov 19, 2025
This is a trash; you have your life choices to make. Why sounding troubled, quarrelsome and uncomfortable over a matter that is very personal. As you make your bed so shall you lie on it
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Wickedtruths: 3:45pm On Nov 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I still have underwear from about 10 years ago myself. 🥱🥱🥱
You dey wear tattered throwback pants.

You will regret this comment.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Nationsdaddy: 3:45pm On Nov 19, 2025
Respect is not in your dna. Even if ur husband is richer n later you have a upper than him financially you will then start disrespecting him. Respect no dey ur dna
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by bobbiiee: 3:47pm On Nov 19, 2025
Will you respect Y*hoo B*ys or those who plan to use you for ungodly purpose?
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by seanery: 3:48pm On Nov 19, 2025
Any of your brothers get money pass their wife ??
Just asking.

OLOSHI
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by SmartPolician: 3:52pm On Nov 19, 2025
Women want to have equal opportunities so they can earn as much as men do or even more. Yet, they still use money as basis for determining whether to respect a man or not.

This generation has to take the credit for having the highest number of dumb women. Please take your flowers 🌹
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Yankiss(m): 3:52pm On Nov 19, 2025
Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
Karma is real. You are the type that end up buying broke guys young enough to be your sons and being mistreated by them. Nonsense. grin grin grin
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Anatolia: 3:52pm On Nov 19, 2025
With this kind of mentality, no reasonable man should marry you. Relationships with you is parasitic in nature. You are entitled to your opinion but to be broadcasting it shows you lack the decorum needed in a wife to be.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by israelmao(m): 3:56pm On Nov 19, 2025
Go for Bello Turji or Evans he is far richer than you.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by ARISHEM: 3:58pm On Nov 19, 2025
O Lori buruku woman. angry
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Allsmilez999: 4:00pm On Nov 19, 2025
Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
Nigerian sapahead women.

when you ask them why they need a rich man, the only answer they have is skincare and clothes.

"Can you afford my skin care, can't you see i am looking fresh?"

You go cell cigar for old age no worry.
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by lawani(m): 4:00pm On Nov 19, 2025
If money is your problem don't marry a broke person. Marry to make life easier for yourself.
However money is not supposed to be the reason you respect anyone
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Amarachibaby(f): 4:01pm On Nov 19, 2025
Good day wonderful people of nairaland pls> am in of need a job I reside in Enugu any job 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by Breaker001: 4:01pm On Nov 19, 2025
The mumu- general of Nigeria has spoken. Who are we to argue with her huh
In the voice of Chief Zebrudaya: "Nonsense and ingredient" 😎

Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by bentenny(m): 4:02pm On Nov 19, 2025
Goodlady:
What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
Don't you have money to do the highlighted?
Well thats all i need i need to know from an equally broke lady!
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