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In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.
Cc nlfpmod seun

Whenever this post hits the front page, expect KoboJ to expantiate and elaborate on this matter with vigour!!!

bende7t:
Whenever this post hits the front page, expect KoboJ to expantiate and elaborate on this matter with vigour!!!

Lol Kobo will be here whether it reaches front page or not

She has always done that to my many posts.

The kobo is here already

Nice 👍 one from you

What I don't understand about this body count issue is, is it the number of unprotected sex or is it the number of all sex wether protected and unprotected?
Please answer

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.
Cc nlfpmod seun

Pattern matters, yes.


But let’s keep the same energy both ways:

A man who has slept with 50+ women while “waiting for the right one” is showing the exact same lack of discipline, impulse control, and accountability he’s accusing women of.


Same pattern, different gender.

If “easy access” is a red flag in her, serial cheating and “body count hunting” is a red flag in him.

The real metric isn’t body count or even pattern alone; it’s growth.


Has the person recognised their old pattern, owned it, and changed?


Or are they still repeating it while pointing fingers?

A repentant 50-body-count person who’s now disciplined and loyal is safer than a “low-count” person still stuck in pride and excuses.

Judge patterns, yes.

But judge ur own too.


Fair is fair. 💯

A repentant 50-body-count person who’s now disciplined and loyal is safer than a “low-count” person still stuck in pride and excuses.

You might be right in some aspects but this theory here is flawed.

Reasons:

— A repentant 50 body count lady is quite different from that of the man. A man can have sex with 20 women without being emotionally connected. He can sleep with them without remembering their names but only the feelings. Meanwhile if a lady sleeps with more than 10 men, she’ll be emotionally connected to at least 3 or 4 of them. The issue now arise when there’s need for true partnership. Since she’s connected to more than one, she’ll always want to relive it. Remembering Charles performance and how caring Richard was. If the man doesn’t portray true leadership, she’ll cheat. A woman that has her heart divided into 4 different men that can turn her on, do you think it will be very easy to stick to one?

— ‘Habits are easy to form but hard to break’ You don’t just develop discipline out of the blue, it’s something you’ve been trained for long. A woman that has 50+ Body counts, how many years do you think she’s spent accruing this counts? Sometimes it might take all her adolescent age and it will take probably divine intervention before she can truly change and not relapse. This applies to both male and female.

— Male inexperience is not advisable when it comes to sexual dynamics. That’s the truth and nature. Because we do the work. A lady can just lie and enjoy sex but if a man doesn’t master the skills, there’s no textbook or video that can help. A man learns through experience. If you watch porn or seen one, the only sex skill that really involves a lady is the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl which a lot of ladies still don’t have experience (but they enjoy sex) meanwhile all the thrusting is done by men.

Sex to a man is about leading and if you give the steering to the lady all the time. She’s bound to look for a good driver.

infogenius:
Pattern matters, yes.


But let’s keep the same energy both ways:

A man who has slept with 50+ women while “waiting for the right one” is showing the exact same lack of discipline, impulse control, and accountability he’s accusing women of.


Same pattern, different gender.

If “easy access” is a red flag in her, serial cheating and “body count hunting” is a red flag in him.

The real metric isn’t body count or even pattern alone; it’s growth.


Has the person recognised their old pattern, owned it, and changed?


Or are they still repeating it while pointing fingers?

A repentant 50-body-count person who’s now disciplined and loyal is safer than a “low-count” person still stuck in pride and excuses.

Judge patterns, yes.

But judge ur own too.


Fair is fair. 💯

It's simple. Consider it like car mileage.
Less it has been driven. More value.
Not driven. Brand new!

While I agree with the theory on body count and pattern count.

There is a factor that is often ignored.... The need for survival.

It is becoming increasingly important to ladies in this terrific economic that having multiple partners means multiple streams of income.

One guy cannot guarantee a full stomach, bone straight on the head and skimpy outfits on the body.

I daresay that more that 90% of women walking on the street are into coded runs and hook-up.

So while these body count and pattern count theory persists, women are not known to earn their money through grit and sweat. They are mostly known to get their money for their clitocurrency.

Add that factor to your metric then make it make sense

I

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.
Cc nlfpmod seun

20 farmers could cultivate a farmland once. Similarly, 1 farmer could cultivate one farmland 100 times. Neither of them is food, but if you're to pick a side..?

A 19yo girl counted how she's had 35 boyfriends since her primary school days up till 300 level in the university. But somehow she's still a virgin.

Lol

wildcatter23:


While I agree with the theory on body count and pattern count.

There is a factor that is often ignored.... The need for survival.

It is becoming increasingly important to ladies in this terrific economic that having multiple partners means multiple streams of income.

One guy cannot guarantee a full stomach, bone straight on the head and skimpy outfits on the body.

I daresay that more that 90% of women walking on the street are into coded runs and hook-up.

So while these body count and pattern count theory persists, women are not known to earn their money through grit and sweat. They are mostly known to get their money for their clitocurrency.

Add that factor to your metric then make it make sense

I disagree. Everyone has to survive both male and female and the ladies are the ones advocating for equality. With the world favoring ladies, a beautiful lady doesn’t need to sleep with men, to be able to gain from them. Just a little pulling of strings and she has the man wrapped around her finger.

No one has monopoly of hardwork and some jobs that were mainly occupied by men are now infiltrated by women. All sectors in the world are accepting ladies. So why does she needs a man to provide for her when are fellow ladies making more That doesn’t justify laziness. If she knew she would need a man then I don’t think there’s any point in her acquiring a degree or fighting for equality.

The lie sold to us is that women are the weaker gender but we have lots of top positions occupied by women in World Trade, Banking sectors and even entrepreneurs. Even though there’s a chance they got there through power play, theres still a chance their body counts are still lesser than the average girl on the street. It will shock you to know majority of the ladies that have higher body counts are those on the street than those in higher positions. The problem is not hardwork but more of laziness and greed.

Look into their eyes. High body-count women have a flat, dead look.

If the eyes are truly a window to the soul, you don't want to connect energetically with that.

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.
Cc nlfpmod seun

Anyone lacking the ability to discuss issues without resorting to insults, deserves a block.

bende7t:
Whenever this post hits the front page, expect KoboJ to expantiate and elaborate on this matter with vigour!!!

SpencerForbes:
You might be right in some aspects but this theory here is flawed.

Reasons:

— A repentant 50 body count lady is quite different from that of the man. A man can have sex with 20 women without being emotionally connected. He can sleep with them without remembering their names but only the feelings. Meanwhile if a lady sleeps with more than 10 men, she’ll be emotionally connected to at least 3 or 4 of them. The issue now arise when there’s need for true partnership. Since she’s connected to more than one, she’ll always want to relive it. Remembering Charles performance and how caring Richard was. If the man doesn’t portray true leadership, she’ll cheat. A woman that has her heart divided into 4 different men that can turn her on, do you think it will be very easy to stick to one?

— ‘Habits are easy to form but hard to break’ You don’t just develop discipline out of the blue, it’s something you’ve been trained for long. A woman that has 50+ Body counts, how many years do you think she’s spent accruing this counts? Sometimes it might take all her adolescent age and it will take probably divine intervention before she can truly change and not relapse. This applies to both male and female.

— Male inexperience is not advisable when it comes to sexual dynamics. That’s the truth and nature. Because we do the work. A lady can just lie and enjoy sex but if a man doesn’t master the skills, there’s no textbook or video that can help. A man learns through experience. If you watch porn or seen one, the only sex skill that really involves a lady is the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl which a lot of ladies still don’t have experience (but they enjoy sex) meanwhile all the thrusting is done by men.

Sex to a man is about leading and if you give the steering to the lady all the time. She’s bound to look for a good driver.

Bro, with all respect, ur argument still dey one side:
1 “Women bond emotionally, men don’t”

Science nor Bible nor life experience support that one.

Oxytocin (the “bonding hormone”) releases in both men and women during sex.

Plenty men catch feelings, stalk exes, cry for months, or even kill over one woman.

Men just hide am better because society calls am weakness.
Emotional damage no get gender.

2 “A woman with high count go always compare”
 Same way a man wey don sleep with 50 women go compare John wife’s waist movement with Chioma, her head game with Sandra, and her cooking with Blessing.


Comparison na human being problem, not vagina problem.

3 “Men need experience to lead in bed”

True say practice helps performance, but skill ≠ body count.


One man wey study him wife well for 10 years go perform pass playboy wey don taste 100 women but never cared to learn any of them.


Real bedroom leadership na attentiveness, not mileage.

4 “Repentant high-count woman hard to change”
 If we use that logic, repentant high-count man (or former womaniser, Yahoo boy, cultist, or cheat) can never change too.


But every Sunday church full of testimonies of ex-wicked men wey turn good husbands.

Grace nor dey discriminate.

Bottom line:

Sin na sin, growth na growth.
 A former runs girl wey don truly repent and submit to one man is better than a “low-count” girl wey never taste many men but still get pride, bitterness, or secret malice for heart.

Judge the fruit u are seeing today, not the root wey don die.


A changed person is a changed person—male or female.

Anything else na just ego defending double standard.


Let’s keep that same energy across board. 💯

SpencerForbes:
I disagree. Everyone has to survive both male and female and the ladies are the ones advocating for equality. With the world favoring ladies, a beautiful lady doesn’t need to sleep with men, to be able to gain from them. Just a little pulling of strings and she has the man wrapped around her finger.

No one has monopoly of hardwork and some jobs that were mainly occupied by men are now infiltrated by women. All sectors in the world are accepting ladies. So why does she needs a man to provide for her when are fellow ladies making more That doesn’t justify laziness. If she knew she would need a man then I don’t think there’s any point in her acquiring a degree or fighting for equality.

The lie sold to us is that women are the weaker gender but we have lots of top positions occupied by women in World Trade, Banking sectors and even entrepreneurs. Even though there’s a chance they got there through power play, theres still a chance their body counts are still lesser than the average girl on the street. It will shock you to know majority of the ladies that have higher body counts are those on the street than those in higher positions. The problem is not hardwork but more of laziness and greed.

This is your opinion. And I see your point. And that's fine. But I would like you to indulge and to look at what's on the street.

These are things I have seen and experienced in workplaces, in the fields, in tertiary institutions and even secondary schools that cannot be swept aside based on just an opinion.

I am not talking about one random beautiful girl. Or some intelligent random girl gifted at pulling money out of some guys pocket.

I am talking about everyday ladies who have to feed with no source of income or skills to earn a living. These kind of ladies are been dumped on the street on the daily.

I am not talking about feminist ladies who hold their own.

Granted, you mentioned laziness and greed, which is what it is.

But that doesn't change the fact, that ladies these days even married ones compromise to enhance their lifestyle.

That's the point.

infogenius:
Bro, with all respect, ur argument still dey one side:
1 “Women bond emotionally, men don’t”

Science nor Bible nor life experience support that one.

Oxytocin (the “bonding hormone”) releases in both men and women during sex.

Plenty men catch feelings, stalk exes, cry for months, or even kill over one woman.

Men just hide am better because society calls am weakness.
Emotional damage no get gender.

2 “A woman with high count go always compare”
 Same way a man wey don sleep with 50 women go compare John wife’s waist movement with Chioma, her head game with Sandra, and her cooking with Blessing.


Comparison na human being problem, not vagina problem.

3 “Men need experience to lead in bed”

True say practice helps performance, but skill ≠ body count.


One man wey study him wife well for 10 years go perform pass playboy wey don taste 100 women but never cared to learn any of them.


Real bedroom leadership na attentiveness, not mileage.

4 “Repentant high-count woman hard to change”
 If we use that logic, repentant high-count man (or former womaniser, Yahoo boy, cultist, or cheat) can never change too.


But every Sunday church full of testimonies of ex-wicked men wey turn good husbands.

Grace nor dey discriminate.

Bottom line:

Sin na sin, growth na growth.
 A former runs girl wey don truly repent and submit to one man is better than a “low-count” girl wey never taste many men but still get pride, bitterness, or secret malice for heart.

Judge the fruit u are seeing today, not the root wey don die.


A changed person is a changed person—male or female.

Anything else na just ego defending double standard.


Let’s keep that same energy across board. 💯

Nice points 👍 we learn everyday and I love how you debate without insults or sentiments.

dollypi:
Anyone lacking the ability to discuss issues without resorting to insults, deserves a block.

Block me because I said a member of the house will counter OPs post. How is that an insult Abi you be the BF?

Another manipulation. Men, Dont fall for this

A girl with a high body count is a real red flag

It shows lack of conviction, direction and focus

It means she lacks discipline and home training…. She doesn’t value herself as a woman

So as a responsible man, I make sure I chop enough of these girls and when it comes to marriage, I will find a responsible girl with very low body count , the one that values her body.

Some girls body count came from their failed relationships they thought was going to work and they were truly in love … I can’t fault them for that, even at that it should be within 2 to 3 or 4 at most.

But a girl that have slept with multiple men, cheaply, sleeping with every crush and every guy that manages to sweet talk her… is a no no no!!!
They will say past don’t matter… it matters!!
And when I catch you, I will nak you too and leave you !! Walahi Talahi

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.
Cc nlfpmod seun

it doesn't matter the circumstances or reason behind the body count.

A woman is damaged all the same once the body count is high.

Why do you think they give rape a capital punishment

I like this theory but does it also apply to men

I have seen men who were players during their time and when they had a girl child, they became so paranoid because of yesterday's sins. Should men also sleep about with different partners until they are ready to settle down?

I am currently resolving a case where the guy used to sleep with girls until he chose a Virgin girl to marry. Now, he still cannot stop his oloshoism outside and giving all types of excuses to sleep out. He has made the wife to consider cheating because the emotional connection is tested anytime he steps out and she preserved her own body for marriage. He cannot control himself and his d. The thing is demonic and psychological. I would say to both men and women, people don't change easily. Sex and the lack of it is a resolve of people's discipline. You don't need to be married to be disciplined. How well do you respect your body?

It's not a consistent inability to say no. Its a chronic addiction to random humps.

Such women need therapy and spiritual healness. If you marry them you're only signing up for trouble.

It's like a company trying to turn a freelancer into a 9-5 staff. Lol. He won't stay beyond 18 months at best.

No doubt, high body count is evidence of a Big Red Flag of promiscuity and high percentage of paternity fraud

dollypi:
Look into their eyes. High body-count women have a flat, dead look.

If the eyes are truly a window to the soul, you don't want to connect energetically with that.

..
Fvck,this man is too aware..
Any lady that her eyes sparkles is untouched..
I can know a lady that's gone😹.
The eyes never lie

SixSeven:
I like this theory but does it also apply to men

I have seen men who were players during their time and when they had a girl child, they became so paranoid because of yesterday's sins. Should men also sleep about with different partners until they are ready to settle down?

I am currently resolving a case where the guy used to sleep with girls until he chose a Virgin girl to marry. Now, he still cannot stop his oloshoism outside and giving all types of excuses to sleep out. He has made the wife to consider cheating because the emotional connection is tested anytime he steps out and she preserved her own body for marriage. He cannot control himself and his d. The thing is demonic and psychological. I would say to both men and women, people don't change easily. Sex and the lack of it is a resolve of people's discipline. You don't need to be married to be disciplined. How well do you respect your body?

It also applies to men. But this thread is about women. Let's stick to the topic. You are free to create a thread about men

Funny!

The beginning says: Body count isn't a red flag!

The end says: Oh yes! It definitely is!!!