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After living with a lady together for 6 months (contract marriage).
I have come to realise that marriage is over rated.
If there is a way to silence our Dickson without any side effect then many men no go reason marriage...
To me, nothing dey sex ..
Is it not to release after it then your sense will come back....
This life sha

Like you nail it bro..nothing much in sex..infact if you haven't have sex for a while and you crave for it badly, on your first ejaculation you are already satisfy..😂..so it makes me come to conclusions that woman are only so special to man that are simp..don't misquote me am not saying woman are not important, but getting the cool headed ones out of them this days is so difficult just like simultaneous equation

Sirchiboy:
After living with a lady together for 6 months (contract marriage).
I have come to realise that marriage is over rated.
If there is a way to silence our Dickson without any side effect then many men no go reason marriage...
To me, nothing dey sex ..
Is it not to release after it then your sense will come back....
This life sha

Sirchiboy:
After living with a lady together for 6 months (contract marriage).
I have come to realise that marriage is over rated.
If there is a way to silence our Dickson without any side effect then many men no go reason marriage...
To me, nothing dey sex ..
Is it not to release after it then your sense will come back....
This life sha

sometimes I think too much sex spoils relationship faster.
Sex makes both of you see each other finish
Make the vibe boring...

I purposely avoid sex with my crush
And our relationship is deep now.
The moment you knack it spoils everything

Sirchiboy:
After living with a lady together for 6 months (contract marriage).
I have come to realise that marriage is over rated.
If there is a way to silence our Dickson without any side effect then many men no go reason marriage...
To me, nothing dey sex ..
Is it not to release after it then your sense will come back....
This life sha

So what’s your actual plan?

If you’re thinking of going the baby mama route, just know it usually comes with more complications than being legally married. It might look easier on the surface, but in reality it can create even bigger issues on the long run.

There are genuinely good women out there, men just love making the wrong choices and complain about how bad marriage is.

And about living with your ex for six months, you and I know that the whole arrangement was built around sex, not real compatibility. That’s why you eventually felt empty and bored.

Nazgul:
So what’s your actual plan?

If you’re thinking of going the baby mama route, just know it usually comes with more complications than being legally married. It might look easier on the surface, but in reality it can create even bigger issues on the long run.

There are genuinely good women out there, men just love making the wrong choices and complain about how bad marriage is.

And about living with your ex for six months, you and I know that the whole arrangement was built around sex, not real compatibility. That’s why you eventually felt empty and bored.

Are you married or not?

Sirchiboy:
Are you married or not?

This thread isn't about me. It's about you. So my marital status is of no importance.

Nazgul:
So what’s your actual plan?

If you’re thinking of going the baby mama route, just know it usually comes with more complications than being legally married. It might look easier on the surface, but in reality it can create even bigger issues on the long run.

There are genuinely good women out there, men just love making the wrong choices and complain about how bad marriage is.

And about living with your ex for six months, you and I know that the whole arrangement was built around sex, not real compatibility. That’s why you eventually felt empty and bored.

marriage is an inefficient system with abysmal success rate. its a statistically poor investment of time, resources, and emotional bandwidth.

the concept of marriage is a biological imperative designed to perpetuate species not a rational basis. Its an emotionally driven delusion and decisions made with emotions tend to fail.

why would you intentionally introduce such a high level of dependency and potential for conflict into your optimal operational flow


marriage is primarily driven by irrational sentiment and hormones. emotions are fundamentally unreliable variables in any long term system. they introduce unpredictable turbulence and increase the likelihood of critical failures.

we havent even reavhed the performative aspects ; the vows, the ceremony, the romantic gestures are just inefficient emotional theatrics designed to validate a precarious social agreement. its a resource drain with no discernible ROI. a lot of times we see showbiz aspect of marriage from couples posting on social media but we know nothing about how couples operate in their various house. most couple have been ruined by before and after marriage thats debts accumulated from wedding, divorce.

divorce is financially ruinous process. why willingly sign up for a system that has such a high probability of ending in expensive litigation and asset division? its a pre meditated resource allocation disaster.

the best way to marry is by having a prenup. prenuptial agreements are logical necessity because marriage itself is so inherently flawed.

Kaczynski:
marriage is an inefficient system with abysmal success rate. its a statistically poor investment of time, resources, and emotional bandwidth.

the concept of marriage is a biological imperative designed to perpetuate species not a rational basis. Its an emotionally driven delusion and decisions made with emotions tend to fail.

why would you intentionally introduce such a high level of dependency and potential for conflict into your optimal operational flow


marriage is primarily driven by irrational sentiment and hormones. emotions are fundamentally unreliable variables in any long term system. they introduce unpredictable turbulence and increase the likelihood of critical failures.

we havent even reavhed the performative aspects ; the vows, the ceremony, the romantic gestures are just inefficient emotional theatrics designed to validate a precarious social agreement. its a resource drain with no discernible ROI. a lot of times we see showbiz aspect of marriage from couples posting on social media but we know nothing about how couples operate in their various house. most couple have been ruined by before and after marriage thats debts accumulated from wedding, divorce.

divorce is financially ruinous process. why willingly sign up for a system that has such a high probability of ending in expensive litigation and asset division? its a pre meditated resource allocation disaster.

the best way to marry is by having a prenup. prenuptial agreements are logical necessity because marriage itself is so inherently flawed.

What you've failed to realize is that Marriage in itself isn’t the problem, the people entering it are. Any system will fail if the participants are unprepared, incompatible, or unrealistic.

Yes, emotion can cloud judgment. Yes, divorce can be financially destructive. Yes, social-media marriages are mostly packaging. But reducing marriage to irrational hormones ignores the fact that stable families, long-term partnerships, and generational structure still come from it.

If marriage is a bad investment for you, don’t do it. Nobody is forcing anybody. But the truth is simple, countless people are married and doing just fine not because the system is perfect, but because they chose wisely and managed it with sense, not fantasy.

A prenup is smart. Caution is also smart. But declaring marriage itself as inherently flawed is a myopic conclusion from you cos the failure rate is more about human behaviour than the institution itself.

Nazgul:
What you've failed to realize is that Marriage in itself isn’t the problem, the people entering it are. Any system will fail if the participants are unprepared, incompatible, or unrealistic.

Yes, emotion can cloud judgment. Yes, divorce can be financially destructive. Yes, social-media marriages are mostly packaging. But reducing marriage to irrational hormones ignores the fact that stable families, long-term partnerships, and generational structure still come from it.

If marriage is a bad investment for you, don’t do it. Nobody is forcing anybody. But the truth is simple, countless people are married and doing just fine not because the system is perfect, but because they chose wisely and managed it with sense, not fantasy.

A prenup is smart. Caution is also smart. But declaring marriage itself as inherently flawed is a myopic conclusion from you cos the failure rate is more about human behaviour than the institution itself.

Hmmm,
Mr Nazgul, how can you separate marriage from the institution that design it? Marriage is not outside of human behavior itself so it can never be logically correct if the system that design it is ineffective due to high emotional computation in the designer of the marriage system.

Marriage is trash designed by trashed designer

ABBkelvin:
Hmmm,
Mr Nazgul, how can you separate marriage from the institution that design it? Marriage is not outside of human behavior itself so it can never be logically correct if the system that design it is ineffective due to high emotional computation in the designer of the marriage system.

Marriage is trash designed by trashed designer

I disagree with you cos marriage is not trash. It just exposes the trash people bring into it.

Blaming the institution (marriage) is the easiest way out. Humans created marriage, so whatever dysfunction we carry automatically reflects in it.

If you go into marriage with emotional immaturity, entitlement mentality, selfishness, insecurity...etc, of course it will crash.

But when two sensible, stable people commit with clear expectations, boundaries and responsibility, the thing works. So let’s stop acting like marriage is the enemy. The real problem are those who try to run a lifetime partnership with the mindset of teenagers.