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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by JagaLove: 12:29am On Dec 11, 2025
If Dem near her now she go dey form one tough cookie
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 3:13am On Dec 11, 2025
Fiscus105:
When men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
How old are you?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 4:49am On Dec 11, 2025
Frustrating how when it's your duty to feed us?

If we die from hunger, who's gonna look after you and your homes?
Emeskhalifa:
Can't you ladies just make your own money for crying out loud??

It is really frustrating.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Testimony1988(m): 5:46am On Dec 11, 2025
Maybe he has someone in mind
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by gbemishile: 6:35am On Dec 11, 2025
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'

Seriously, If a girl tells you she doesn't care about your money, that's a HUGE red flag! You need to RUN ! Like, 98 times out of 100, she's actually going to end up 'billing' you way more than any other girl.
See you,what is two days later.notice her narration.they were in the MALL and he just PAID for his groceries and left.you think if he toasted her right there,she won't be expecting he paid for her own stuff too
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by KullestKid101(m): 6:36am On Dec 11, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg and Ur 3rd legs raised inside Ur trousers, yet you have so many reasons not to approach.

I'm ashamed of u.
Why do you think anytuje a guy stares at a lady his 3rd keg rises. That's poor thinking, not all guys are prostitutes. Some just admire body shapes, hairstyles, dress etc. Also Why would I approach another lady when I already have a loyal one somewhere.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by KullestKid101(m): 6:40am On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Frustrating how when it's your duty to feed us?

If we die from hunger, who's gonna look after you and your homes?
It's a man's duty to feed you, wetin do your hands and your head? Woman are getting lady by the second on this side of the world. Person wey never marry you o. A few decades from now getting a loyal is going to be very difficult for a large number of ladies.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by bigcasava1(m): 6:41am On Dec 11, 2025
She is still carrying our forefathers mentality, in UK, US, Germany and other advanced countries, women no longer wait for men to woo them.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op): 7:04am On Dec 11, 2025
KullestKid101:
Why do you think anytuje a guy stares at a lady his 3rd keg rises. That's poor thinking, not all guys are prostitutes. Some just admire body shapes, hairstyles, dress etc. Also Why would I approach another lady when I already have a loyal one somewhere.
U have a loyal girl, yet you are staring hip, boobs,curve .

You too should try to loyal the way your girl loyal to you, in other to clean up society.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Emeskhalifa(m): 7:15am On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Frustrating how when it's your duty to feed us?

If we die from hunger, who's gonna look after you and your homes?
This is gaslighting 101
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by alizma: 7:27am On Dec 11, 2025
Just mistakenly say hi and wait for list of needs that will follow the same day, they don't even pretend anymore. Same day you start talking to someone, you already tell him your rent is due, your gas is giving you sign that it will soon finished, your data has finished, in fact you don't even know what to eat tomorrow.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 7:54am On Dec 11, 2025
If you can't perform your duties as a man, then do yourself a favour and help yourself by staying away from women.

In your home, who was the main provider? Your mother or father?
KullestKid101:
It's a man's duty to feed you, wetin do your hands and your head? Woman are getting lady by the second on this side of the world. Person wey never marry you o. A few decades from now getting a loyal is going to be very difficult for a large number of ladies.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Silentgroper(m): 7:58am On Dec 11, 2025
Fiscus105:
If you are not sex starved, women in brothels would have closed business.


Here is what hypocrite wrote in the past
Wetin this one dey talk ...



Staring and getting a boner is a new level of pervertness and can only be due to high libido or extreme sex deprivement ...


Staring and getting a boner is the bone of contention here not dumass talk like women in brothels and any of that BS..


😕😕😕😕
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Christlike01: 8:13am On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
It's only fair that I learn a thing or two since nairaland is the only social media platform I'm active on and I prefer it that way.

I'd rather be active on a foreign platform than a local one because I don't want to find myself beefing with my own people... I recently tried TikTok and I didn't like the toxicity there, it was slowly turning me into this toxic being I didn't recognise, so I deregistered my account.
It’s only natural for you to start assimilating since you spend a good amount of time fraternizing with us (Nigerians) here. It’s all good.

Lol, so you’d rather find yourself beefing with Nigerians than with fellow South Africans, right? I’ve read some of your posts and comments on this platform. I particularly love a thread you made some time ago where you showcased the different ethnic groups that make up South Africa — it was great. I think you’re naturally a cool person, unlike some of your countrymen on this platform who, it seems, have the sole objective of coming here to poke at or engage Nigerians in needless superiority contests. They are not in any way different from some of the Nigerians they are always too quick to call names.

Just continue being yourself, my lovely South African lady. It’s really nice having you here.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by TrainPark: 9:20am On Dec 11, 2025
Because Obidi minions don full ground!

The moment you say Hello to a Nigerian girl, YOU OWE HER MONEY, and you become a broke guy when you don't immediately turn a fool that pays ALL THEIR BILLS!

Just focus on your goals and build your life.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by highchief1: 9:29am On Dec 11, 2025
Fiscus105:
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.




Source
na u go tost na u go enter billing.boys are tired abeg
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by BATified2023: 1:47pm On Dec 11, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg, boobs, hips, curves and Ur 3rd legs raising inside ur trousers, yet, you have so many reasons not to approach her.

Why can't you look and remove your eyes immediately?

I'm ashamed of u.
your comment doesn't make any sense
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by whippersnapper(m): 4:06pm On Dec 11, 2025
owobokiri:
Na lie..
Most times when a guy look lustfully at a gal, he will go for her if the chance presents itself..
Which one is looking and drooling at a gal because she looks like someone you know?
Then it means you'll likely be the next king Solomon. Everyday you'll get to see a woman who's more curvy and beautiful than the trouble in your house
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by owobokiri(m): 7:30pm On Dec 11, 2025
whippersnapper:
Then it means you'll likely be the next king Solomon. Everyday you'll get to see a woman who's more curvy and beautiful than the trouble in your house
A fairly good assessment of Mr Owobokiri, I must confess ..
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nyascobar1414: 6:43pm On Dec 12, 2025
SixSeven:
“Take me back to when men were men.”

Girl, he’s probably just another guy trained by life to play it safe and not make a move unless he’s 100% sure he won’t get embarrassed.
Or he was just shy. Happens.

But here’s the truth. You can’t control his conditioning, only your own actions. You liked him too. You could’ve said hi.

Dating today is basically two people staring at each other, waiting for courage to show up.

Coincidentally, I was browsing earlier today and saw that more women are asking men to be men. Girls, this is the result of 'equality'. Men don't date men, they date women.
...
You see too much bro😹.
But you'll end up not fitting in anywhere ✌️
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:46pm On Dec 12, 2025
maasoap:
Nothing wrong if she, herself initiated the conversation. Nothing is wrong with guys' confidence these days generally, that one just turned out to be typical shy guy who lacks confidence
Which confidence? Is it every lady you admire that you approach? Does having a girlfriend stop you from admiring a beautiful woman? So because you starred at her you should approach her whether ou are dating or not? What I'm saying is that that one as you referred him isn't actually because h is shy it can actually be that he is dating and just wanted to admire and move on everyone can't be like you who must approach every woman you admire.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by maasoap(m): 11:34am On Dec 13, 2025
ExudeLoveToAll:
Which confidence? Is it every lady you admire that you approach? Does having a girlfriend stop you from admiring a beautiful woman? So because you starred at her you should approach her whether ou are dating or not? What I'm saying is that that one as you referred him isn't actually because he is shy it can actually be that he is dating and just wanted to admire and move on everyone can't be like you who must approach every woman you admire.
Because, there are no shy guys out there, lol.
You think the lady who posted the encounter didn't know what she saw? How old are you, really? Nice try but you didn't get it
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2025
maasoap:
Because, there are no shy guys out there, lol.
You think the lady who posted the encounter didn't know what she saw? How old are you, really? Nice try but you didn't get it
If she knew he was shy why didn't she go after him since she isn't shy grin? She isn't shy online but shy offline to communicate with the dude, haven't you admitted a lady while you are dating? Won't you give up shy vibes because you didn't approach? It happens every time not because someone is shy, you asserted that he is shy which I'm saying that may not be the case
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by KobolanderSegun: 7:59pm On Dec 19, 2025
Fiscus105:
Wen men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
Women must learn to break the ice by saying " " Na WA ... Why is this guy starring at me ? " to their friends. That will make him say " Because you are very beautiful " . Then he will start the toasting.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by KullestKid101(m): 8:46pm On Dec 25, 2025
Samantha125:
If you can't perform your duties as a man, then do yourself a favour and help yourself by staying away from women.

In your home, who was the main provider? Your mother or father?
Thank God you said "my home" plus marriage is a joint business with the main being the highest provider,. I do not dispute that fact. I'll take full responsibility once I'm ready to settle. Not with someone im not married to.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by KullestKid101(m): 8:51pm On Dec 25, 2025
Fiscus105:
U have a loyal girl, yet you are staring hip, boobs,curve .

You too should try to loyal the way your girl loyal to you, in other to clean up society.
The way you replied to this comment shows you are a HYPOCRITE.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by pansophist(m): 11:38pm On Dec 25, 2025
-My gas have finish.
-My house rent is about to expire.
-My birthday is next week.
-My brother gained admission.
-I don’t feel fine.
-Anything for me ?
-Please sub for me.
-Please I need your help urgently
-Order uber for me
- where are we going this weekend ?

Etc etc. That’s why
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Starz825(m): 9:17am On Dec 26, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg, boobs, hips, curves and Ur 3rd legs raising inside ur trousers, yet, you have so many reasons not to approach her.

Why can't you look and remove your eyes immediately?

I'm ashamed of u.
No be like that.. well you dey joke sha


There is this young lady at my work place....she has this amazing smile with a very white teeth set...

so anytime wey i see am for walk way...i dey always stop to tease her about it...say smile for me .....all those kind thing...in fact i even had a very short conversation with her about where she is from and all....but recently i come notice he be like she dey take those gestures as tho i get interest in her....but me nothing deep....
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