₦airaland Forum

Nnamdipapa:
If I have $10b in the account, i still wouldnt pay for her food. Just a matter of principle and I love strong strong independent women

Kobojunkie:
It is Ok not to pay for her food. She took that to mean that he was not interested. So, the problem only arose when he called her afterwards.🤣🤣🤣🤣

Nnamdipapa:
I don't see the problem as all she had to do was decline his call. I get wrong-number calls all the time. Being interested should not mean assuming the role of parents for a full-grown adult.

Namaster:
GREEDY FHOOL!

Someone she just met THAT day.
NEVER even talked for up to an hour.
But she immediately assumed he should bear the BURDEN of feeding her.

All because he EXPRESSED interest in her.

In the mind of the average Nigerian lady, ordinary "hello" from a man is sufficient grounds for BILLING.

That's why I LAUGHED about the post on FP yesterday where a girl was beetching about a handsome guy that was staring at her inside a SHOPPING MALL without saying "Hi".

Now, this one said "Hi".
But he didn't say it with MONEY.

This level of ENTITLEMENT is why Shiloh is such a profitable hit year after YEAR.

MANY of them will D.I.E in SHILOH!

A man says Hi and you automatically expected him to SPONSOR your lunch.

MADNESS!

missjekyll:
It does sound somehow,doesnt it? At least buy her a fanta just to show willing.

I would have done the same thing in Nigeria

Nnamdipapa:
✓ I don't see the problem as all she had to do was decline his call. I get wrong-number calls all the time. Being interested should not mean assuming the role of parents for a full-grown adult.

NiRfreak:
✓ Na this attitude from the start dey make woman dey disrespect and bill una.
✓ Any lady who behaved like this lady becos a guy dint buy her thing on first date can never amount to anything good in relationship. I can stake my all.

lilsmart:
✓ But honestly, many Nigerian girls have turned buy me food into a national anthem, and their bellies are now singing bass with most bigger than nyash!!!
✓ From endless free meals, their eating habits have flown away, and anything edible becomes a target, resulting in bellies that shout
I collect breakfast, lunch, and dinner from any willing sponsor!
✓ Say No to Big Bellies

missjekyll:
It does sound somehow,doesnt it? At least buy her a fanta just to show willing.
I would have done the same thing in Nigeria

lilsmart:
✓ free food don turn many girls for Nigeria to belle ministry. Dem dey pursue free food like say na olympic sport, now must girls belle don big pass nyash

Kobojunkie:
Say no to poverty, abeg! A woman has a right to require that any man interested in her should at least pay for her meal. If you no fit, then walk on by! Stop painting them black just because you no fit. There are men out there who fit and those are the ones the ladies are more interested in, not you.

Kobojunkie:
1. No women should offer her time and attention for cheap or free to any man. 🥱🥱

2. If you see food chop, you no go chop? 🥱🥱🥱

3. Say no to poverty, abeg! 🥱🥱🥱

lilsmart:
✓ You dey yarn dust, my guy! This talk no even make sense except say the woman wan transfer her responsibilities from her papa account straight to boyfriend wallet.
✓ any man wey want you must pay for your food.
✓ Just like Esau sell him birthright for one plate of stew ((pottage), na so she don sell her respect for one plate of restaurant food[/b].
✓ Now, the guy fit talk to her anyhow because from day one, she already show say her own right na for inside soup. too much (pottage) they worry BELLE

lilsmart:
if your time and attention dey only for sale for restaurant counter, then na you don declare yourself bankruptcy for character.

Kobojunkie:
1. Her papa ke? girl does not sound like someone who still depends on her papa same as the man does not sound like he depends on his papa, so why bring papa into this? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Any woman can make such a requirement of any man interested in her. If you don't like it, you simply move on to find yourself a woman who won't have those demands. It is that simple. 🥱🥱

3. Stop spewing religious bullsheet here, abeg! That actually makes you come off even more unreasonable. 🥱

4. That is nonsense! Paying for a woman's meal does not then meal you can walk all over her after. What sort of ringworm reasoning is this? 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Women have a right and reason to bill men for their attention and energy. It is simple as that.🥱🥱

2. You are always free to find yourself only those ladies who are cheaper to engage with. That is how any market works. That don't make the costlier ones bad; just means they are those you cannot afford. 🥱🤐🤐

Kobojunkie:
Lol... you mean the guy called the girl after taking her number and not paying for even her meal in this hardtime Nigeria? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
It is Ok not to pay for her food. She took that to mean that he was not interested. So, the problem only arose when he called her afterwards.🤣🤣🤣🤣

missjekyll:
It does sound somehow,doesnt it? At least buy her a fanta just to show willing.

I would have done the same thing in Nigeria

bmd1010:
"I am not regretting what I sent. I went to the guy's page and saw a lot of people bashing me. I told him to bring the video down, and he hasn't replied me.

Most of my friends sent the video saying that Ijeoma is this not your voice?

I am going to address this. I met this guy in a restaurant where I went to get food. He approached me, said he liked me and asked for my name and I told him it's Ijeoma and stuff.

He said he wants to be more than friends with me and asked for my number. As of them we hadn't gotten food. We were both entering the restaurant then. After giving him the contact, he ordered for his food and I ordered for my food."

Then it was now time to pay for the food. The guy was in same spot with me where I ordered.

This guy never offered to pay for my food, this is someone who found me attractive. He just pretended as if he didn't even know me."

– The young lady behind the viral voice note has spoken out after criticising a man who collected her number at a restaurant but failed to pay for her food..


https://sayflexxyblog.com.ng/young-nigeria-lady-ijeoma-speaks-out-after-man-who-took-her-number-refuses-to-pay-for-food/

Kobojunkie:
Yet most of these women never go hungry but at least they are able to avoid poverty men altogether. 🥱🥱🥱

lilsmart:
1. But na her papa go collect bride price
2. Last last, na her action for posting am online show say she couldn't handleo rejection and cant move on because the guy nobuy her food. I can bet that the said guy go don forget about meeting the girl.
3. You call Genesis 25:29-34 that describes how Esau, traded his birthright religious bullsheet lol I leave you for God
4. Na ringworm reasoning be this? Abeg, if person no get value for herself to even remember her mama talk say no chop for stranger, but instead dey tie her own dignity to whether person pay for amala or not, then wetin you expect?
5. Home training fly away, now she dey demand respect from the same stranger wey she dey beg for food from. Abi Na lie.