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This is a typical Nigerian girls character
They will treat u nonchalantly, devalue and mistreat you as if you don't matter, when u are fully with them
Then start crying when you leave them
No difference between Nigerian ladies and Nigerian politicians.
God punish them

Diamond098454:
maybe the pastor promise to marry her

Promises can be broken nah

saphiere:
God punissh u more and more. u didn't see where he fforced her out of her marriage? u didnt see where he was circulating her nuddes? |God puniish u sons of Adam

Your present life condition is an evidence that God punishes.

Meanwhile, I am not emotional. I look at the issues. She got what exactly she deserved. Greed, Greed, Greed. Once I notice it in anyone, be it male or female, then they got exactly what they deserve. Was she not previously married?

essentialone:
Guys before you criticize Pastor Okafor: Did you marry all the ladies you sexed?

Pastor wey dey commit fornication..

mozona:
Pastor wey dey commit fornication..

Every pastor is a normal human being. Nothing special about them. How did you guys even grow up at all?

essentialone:
I didnt get it. Resend.

my cousin called me yesterday in the afternoon that her husband will be in ph that yesterday evening.

She said I should go to Airport by 7pm ( yesterday) and pick him up, that she don't want him to stay in hotel hmmmm she said her husband should sleep in my house.

Your response came too late

That yesterday i needed some advice from you on how to handle it .
Well, he's already here in my house.

Is it forbidden for a Pastor to visit a public toilet Pastor don chop and clean mouth but what lies ahead we are awaiting....
" fear of Naija Pastor's is d beginning of..."

Arabk25:
Promises can be broken nah

yes. You are 💯 percent right.

Diamond098454:
maybe the pastor promise to marry her

so what?

Diamond098454:
my cousin called me yesterday in the afternoon that her husband will be in ph that yesterday evening.

She said I should go to Airport by 7pm ( yesterday) and pick him up, that she don't want him to stay in hotel hmmmm she said her husband should sleep in my house.

Your response came too late

That yesterday i needed some advice from you on how to handle it .
Well, he's already here in my house.

Same your cousin in Abuja?

Pastor Chris Okafor did his wedding yesterday. End of Discussion.

essentialone:
A wise man once said, if God only intended sex for Marriage only, he would have given humans genitals only on their wedding day.

Again, you miss the point.

There is something in life called self control, and it can only be exercised by controlling oneself in the face of temptation be it man or woman. If you can do that till your wedding night, chances are that your marriage would go easy because you now have mastered an important habit, and no useless one kobo girl go come and wreck am

Also, if your comment was right , every married man and woman won't be commiting adultery at all at all. As you know, that is not true.

Finally, better not treat people as animals. We are not wild animals that do things anyhow.

His new wife that is finer than Doris Gala

nairalanda1:
Again, you miss the point.

There is something in life called self control, and it can only be exercised by controlling oneself in the face of temptation be it man or woman. If you can do that till your wedding night, chances are that your marriage would go easy because you now have mastered an important habit, and no useless one kobo girl go come and wreck am

Also, if your comment was right , every married man and woman won't be commiting adultery at all at all. As you know, that is not true.

Finally, better not treat people as animals. We are not wild animals that do things anyhow.

You are an Idealist. I am a Realist. On that basis, we may argue from now till next year without agreeing.

Pastor Chris Okafor wedding IV.

The wedding was done yesterday.

No more House and GWagon for Doris Gala.

essentialone:
Every pastor is a normal human being. Nothing special about them. How did you guys even grow up at all?

Teacher na normal human being...that is why they can prey on the ten year old girls in their class
Accountant na normal human being...that is why they can steal money from their company and hide it from their bosses
Even self, our leaders na normal human being, so let us excuse their stealing and bad leadership.


The bible is clear about how a pastor should live. If they no fit do am, make dey....RESIGN. If una no fit do this christianity of a thing...you can LEAVE THE FAITH. It is not by force to be pastor. Or to be a christian self. NO one go judge you.

patrickcollins:
It's only in Africa is a must to marry someone, they had something together but didn't work out, she only wants to cash out or intimidate the young man. Marriage is not by forced both of them had fun and it's over.

you are right. Dragging the man in a manner like this doesn't make sense

essentialone:
You are an Idealist. I am a Realist. On that basis, we may argue from now till next year without agreeing.

lol...i no be this idealist you dey speak about. Just someone who in my line of work has had to clean up the mess that comes after sexual immorality.

Again, both the man and the woman have messed up. If they cannot do this christian thing, make them leave am , E no be by force. (I even know people that have left christianity self...even one whose papa na conc christian speaker. Heaven did not fall).

Fraud meets Awawo

nairalanda1:
Teacher na normal human being...that is why they can prey on the ten year old girls in their class
Accountant na normal human being...that is why they can steal money from their company and hide it from their bosses
Even self, our leaders na normal human being, so let us excuse their stealing and bad leadership.


The bible is clear about how a pastor should live. If they no fit do am, make dey....RESIGN. If una no fit do this christianity of a thing...you can LEAVE THE FAITH. It is not by force to be pastor. Or to be a christian self. NO one go judge you.

And if he does not resign. What can you or anybody do about it? Nothing. That is why I focus on Reality. Avoid what you can avoid. And don't complain later. For example my girlfriend's cousin sister wants my girlfriend to accommodate her own husband in her house. That's being naive. Of course, nothing will happen, because she is decent and intentional. But what if something happens, who is to be blamed? The Cousin!

Now you see why I say I am a Realist?

essentialone:
Same your cousin in Abuja?

yes. It wasn't easy for me at Airport last night

essentialone:
And if he does not resign. What can you or anybody do about it? Nothing. That is why I focus on Reality. Avoid what you can avoid. And don't complain later. For example my girlfriend's cousin sister wants my girlfriend to accommodate her own husband in her house. That's being naive. Of course, nothing will happen, because she is decent and intentional. But what if something happens, who is to be blamed? The Cousin!

Now you see why I say I am a Realist?

Reality also says the christian faith got standards for its members, and if they no fit meet up, na sinners. At least christianity also offers something called repentance and asking for forgiveness...so that one does not sin again.(I even knew one guy whose body count before he became a christian was high. But after he became a christian, no more sleeping around, no more running after women, even when he got engaged, he no sleep with madam before marriage. E no easy, but he asked for god help.)

It is because many of you see the easy side of sexual immorality that you think it is okay.

Again, it is NOT BY FORCE TO BE CHRISTIAN.

nairalanda1:
lol...i no be this idealist you dey speak about. Just someone who in my line of work has had to clean up the mess that comes after sexual immorality.

Again, both the man and the woman have messed up. If they cannot do this christian thing, make them leave am , E no be by force. (I even know people that have left christianity self...even one whose papa na conc christian speaker. Heaven did not fall).

You are an Idealist. It means you focus on an Ideal way humans supposed to behave and supposed not to behave. Pastors supposed to be good. Christians supposed to be good. All of these are Idealist Sentiments.

I am a Realist. I see everyone as naturally bad but that can become good by personal effort. I don't care if you are Pope, Rev Father, Bishop, Pastor, President, Governor, even Monk. So long as you are a human being, I believe everyone of us is naturally bad. But overtime, based on your actions and attitudes, I can now say, okay this particular Pastor or Governor or Priest is a good PERSON..... Not good Pastor. But good Person. If you still don't understand, then go back to school.

AllBlack:
so what?

so what..... Is that all you can say? He should fulfill his promise

Diamond098454:
yes. It wasn't easy for me at Airport last night

Oh so sorry dear. Just don't give him any green light if you don't want him to do. Because, in the words of Angel in Selina movie, EVERY MAN, IS THAT KIND OF MAN.

Hahahahhahaha

What is wise about this? Stop misleading people.

essentialone:
A wise man once said, if God only intended sex for Marriage only, he would have given humans genitals only on their wedding day.

essentialone:
You are an Idealist. It means you focus on an Ideal way humans supposed to behave and supposed not to behave. Pastors supposed to be good. Christians supposed to be good. All of these are Idealist Sentiments.

I am a Realist. I see everyone as naturally bad but that can become good by personal effort. I don't care if you are Pope, Rev Father, Bishop, Pastor, President, Governor, even Monk. So long as you are a human being, I believe everyone of us is naturally bad. But overtime, based on your actions and attitudes, I can now say, okay this particular Pastor or Governor or Priest is a good PERSON..... Not good Pastor. But good Person. If you still don't understand, then go back to school.

NO one can become good by personal effort, only by leaning on God and asking for HIS power daily can anyone live a life worthy of Jesus.

Again, realism also says if you no fit do chirstian, you can be yourself and leave christian.

Na excuse of evil because of red pill? Just like the femminists too.

Abeg, chirsitianity na religion of choice. Choose God, or choose your human emotions.

I no dey argue this matter anymore. Enjoy your life, but don't call it christian. Too many non-chirstians regard us as hypocrites.

essentialone:
Oh so sorry dear. Just don't give him any green light if you don't want him to do. Because, in the words of Angel in Selina movie, EVERY MAN, IS THAT KIND OF MAN.

Hahahahhahaha

hahaha hahaha I showed him his room upstairs take him around the house should incase he needs anything . Make food available for him

My sis said i should give him samo and vegetable soup I make sure his comfortable

I didn't sleep in my house

nairalanda1:
Reality also says the christian faith got standards for its members, and if they no fit meet up, na sinners. At least christianity also offers something called repentance and asking for forgiveness...so that one does not sin again.(I even knew one guy whose body count before he became a christian was high. But after he became a christian, no more sleeping around, no more running after women, even when he got engaged, he no sleep with madam before marriage. E no easy, but he asked for god help.)

It is because many of you see the easy side of sexual immorality that you think it is okay.

Again, it is NOT BY FORCE TO BE CHRISTIAN.

This guy or lady is still speaking in terms of what supposed to be. In morality, I believe in Choice vs Consequences. Position is irrelevant to me. I have said this so many times. I see all as equal in terms of morality possibilities. Every has sexual urges including Pope. Everyone should have self control not just the Pastors. So if Pastor Chris is supposed to have self control, then Actress Doris Ogala is not supposed to have same, because she is not a Pastor? When I call someone a Pastor, I am referring to your title. I do not presume you to be of any higher moral standard at all just because you are a pastor. If you choose to be good, it is not because you are a Pastor, but because you have chosen to be good. Because there are also some other people who are not pastors but who are still good. And there are some who are pastors who are not good.

Stupid question. So you can't see your pastors as role models for living a righteous life, every olosho in town is their customer

Diamond098454:
yes. It wasn't easy for me at Airport last night

You know I will always ask for permission and forgiveness from you before I hit the nail on the head. Can I say something you may not like?