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37-year-old woman has shared how she took in a man she brought from Africa to live abroad, only for him to later abandon her.

According to the lady, after she noticed age was not on her side , she came back home to find a man and met a guy who had same marriage goals as she did.

She financed his journey abroad, housed and fed him for months while he was jobless .

She started noticing hin talking to her neigbor on the street and confronted him about it .

One day she got the shocker of her life when she was told the Neigbor was pregnant for her boyfriend and they were in love .

WATCH HER VIDEO HERE

https://www.hostelite.ng/i-brought-him-abroad-and-funded-his-life-he-fell-in-love-with-my-neighbor/

According to her, the Neigbor offered to compensate her but she rejected it all, and left karma to judge them both

If I was this lady, I would have taken the offer by the neighbour, returning all the money I spent bringing the man double folds. Make I know say I no lose on two sides. I can’t lose my man and lose the money

bmd1010:
37-year-old woman has shared how she took in a man she brought from Africa to live abroad, only for him to later abandon her.
According to the lady, after she noticed age was not on her side , she came back home to find a man and met a guy who had same marriage goals as she did.
She financed his journey abroad, housed and fed him for months while he was jobless .
She started noticing hin talking to her neigbor on the street and confronted him about it .
One day she got the shocker of her life when she was told the Neigbor was pregnant for her boyfriend and they were in love .
According to her, the Neigbor offered to compensate her but she rejected it all, and left karma to judge them both

What this and many other stories reveal is that African mothers continue to fail their daughters by refusing to teach them to pursue self-love over validation of men and society.

P.S. From what I learned, the lady in the picture is, in fact, not the woman whose story it is.

Life is short. Make sure you spend as much time as possible on the internet arguing with strangers.

Kobojunkie:
What this and many other stories reveal is that African mothers continue to fail their daughters by refusing to teach them to pursue self-love over validation of men and society.

P.S. From what I learned, the lady in the picture is, in fact, not the woman whose story it is.

Cock and bull story

A man funded her too, at some point in her life. I, however, condemn all shades of wickedness.

If naso God dey judge... that means someone sef don curse her at some point 🤔...maybe na karma🥱

Goals change. He wanted marriage while back home. When he entered the developed world and realized that everything required funding, including children, his priorities shifted. She should’ve married him in Africa and remained there.

bmd1010:
37-year-old woman has shared how she took in a man she brought from Africa to live abroad, only for him to later abandon her.

According to the lady, after she noticed age was not on her side , she came back home to find a man and met a guy who had same marriage goals as she did.

She financed his journey abroad, housed and fed him for months while he was jobless .

She started noticing hin talking to her neigbor on the street and confronted him about it .

One day she got the shocker of her life when she was told the Neigbor was pregnant for her boyfriend and they were in love .

WATCH HER VIDEO HERE

https://www.hostelite.ng/i-brought-him-abroad-and-funded-his-life-he-fell-in-love-with-my-neighbor/

According to her, the Neigbor offered to compensate her but she rejected it all, and left karma to judge them both

When would this make it to Nollywood movie?

Brotherhood is soooo proud of him.... let them also feel what they have been doing to men over the years without any remorse ....men don sharp up now

This is very sad, but it's a rare story; Nigerian men hardly do this. It was only rampant in the 80s, 90s and early 2000s when Nigerian men were marrying old white women for papers to stay in the foreign countries they lived and most Nigerian men back then that later left or divorced or abandoned their marriage to white women did it back then out of fear that the white/foreign women won't follow them back to Nigeria when they retire and decide to relocate back to Nigeria permanently at probably old age.


Another reason they were also marrying a second secret wife in Nigeria was also out of fear that their foreign wives won't allow their mixed race children to follow them back to Nigeria when they retire at old age. So to avert such issue that happened to many Nigerian men that married foreign ladies in the 80s, 90s, 2000s, Nigerian men abroad after marrying foreign women abroad started getting a secret Nigerian wife back in Nigeria as backup family in case their foreign wife decides not to allow their kids relocate back to Nigeria with them at old age.


But things are changing fast now with social media, many Nigerian men are now happy to flaunt their foreign wives as their foreign wives are now more interested in learning Nigerian culture and even willing to relocate back to Nigeria with their Nigerian husbands at any time the man wishes.



So this lady should check well, she must have missed it somewhere.


Maybe she went for a far younger and cunning boy, that's a red flag. If you are above 40yrs as a lady living abroad, if you want to marry a guy based in Nigeria, don't go for the so young guys, go for guys that are close to your age, or those around 30plus, he must be up to 35yrs.


At that age, he must have developed enough sense and empathy and he must have failed in several areas in life such that he would be so appreciative of you lifting him up from his past failures as a man. But when you go for a guy below 30yrs that still believes that he will become the next Elon Musk and will attract Kim Kardashian and Beyonce and the hottest young girls once he gets money, the moment you upgrade him, he will start to look for girls of his age because he will be feeling incomplet with you.


But if you go for mature guys that have tried their best in life and failed financially and failed to attract a lady to marry due to their economic situation, trust me, such man will never leave you, he will always remember how you lifted him up and will do everything not to disappoint you. Highest, he might cheat once in a while as a man he is; all sexually active men cheat or have the potential to cheat so don't let any man deceive you

Amotolongbo:
If I was this lady, I would have taken the offer by the neighbour, returning all the money I spent bringing the man double folds. Make I know say I no lose on two sides. I can’t lose my man and lose the money

Are you an ibo woman?

If you have feelings for someone close to your wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or your sister or brother and you know that food will bring trouble if you eat it please maintain your stand resist that food

Not every food is meant to be consumed

Some of this spec food hmmmmmm you gat to be careful before you hurt an innocent soul

Amotolongbo:
If I was this lady, I would have taken the offer by the neighbour, returning all the money I spent bringing the man double folds. Make I know say I no lose on two sides. I can’t lose my man and lose the money

I really buy into this.. I will equally do same

bmd1010:
37-year-old woman has shared how she took in a man she brought from Africa to live abroad, only for him to later abandon her.

According to the lady, after she noticed age was not on her side , she came back home to find a man and met a guy who had same marriage goals as she did.

She financed his journey abroad, housed and fed him for months while he was jobless .

She started noticing hin talking to her neigbor on the street and confronted him about it .

One day she got the shocker of her life when she was told the Neigbor was pregnant for her boyfriend and they were in love .

WATCH HER VIDEO HERE

https://www.hostelite.ng/i-brought-him-abroad-and-funded-his-life-he-fell-in-love-with-my-neighbor/

According to her, the Neigbor offered to compensate her but she rejected it all, and left karma to judge them both

Of course you forgot to tell us the part where you treated him like crap, made him feel he was nothing, humiliated him in front of your friends and family and eventually drove the man into the arms of your neighbour who treats him a lot better than you ever did.

Nigerian women are the world's experts at one sided "truths".

Madam, carry go and move on, there are kúkú lots of men here in Nigeria that you can come and collect and slowly strip of their decency. There are also lots of neighbours over there that will take them off your hands and treat them much better.

Nor bi today.

Food that he's not supposed to eat he went and eat it.