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Dtruthspeaker:
I don't think so. The lady was smart to not fan the fire but I don't think he was threatened..

He was arrested and asked to bring proof of his claim be he had non.Same dude that claimed he owns a solar biz but on arresting him,they found out he was just a “boy “

Suspicion has started before marriage. It's better d guy quit for his own good and peace of mind.
Any woman that makes men her best friends will never have a successful marriage.

SpencerForbes:
Exactly. You don't just drop allegations like that and then try to flip the script once people start asking questions. It’s pretty clear there’s a lot more going on behind the scenes than what we’re being told.

The only threat that was issued was for him to bring proof of his claims but he had non.Everything was just for clout and Elon’s pay

That guy is insane.. Something is definitely wrong with him.

SpencerForbes:
People are just naturally wicked. Why would you joke with such an allegation?

But it wasn’t only the guy na, did the others also apologize because I recall they were more than 3 guys that claimed they knew the woman.

Or she clearly blackmailed the guy. I smell bribe or blackmail from either party.

stop saying nonsense

it almost like when a woman falsly accuse a man of rape, other women that want attention also claim he raped them when he has never had any interaction with them.

SpencerForbes:
When you talk about 'underground actions,' have you considered that he might have been blackmailed or threatened? As a Nigerian, you surely know how common it is for witnesses to be intimidated to keep the truth hidden.

We might joke about stuff like this in private, but seeing it go public like this especially online is rare. Why her, specifically? There are countless pre-wedding photos all over Nairaland and social media every day, yet nobody makes these kinds of claims about those couples. Do you really think men are just moving senselessly?

Even the Bible says a matter is established by two or more witnesses. When three different men can pinpoint the exact locations and hotel names, calling it a coincidence feels like a reach. The fact that she’s stayed quiet while he’s desperate to debunk it tells a story of its own. We’re not that ignorant.

so you mean that every account that has post a prewedding pic, he knows the woman

What he said could be true but that's not his business. Make the groom wey nor do investigation carry he cross.

Sometime ago I saw one OS who was previously hustling in a brothel my cousin was managing with a guy I suspected to be her husband because they were both putting on rings. She was even carrying a baby.

She wasn't comfortable at first when she saw me and was pretending as if she didn't recognize me. Maybe she realized pretence won't help her and she greeted me, I answered casually and continued with my shopping.

Na she know wetin she wan tell her man how she take know me.......I can never interfere in such things.

So na the deal wey una seal at the end be this?

Smh.

BigYash:
Shut up. Someone won't just come out to make such statements,if it wasn't true. But what I don't know is why was it his business. Since the man who wants to marry her, couldn't investigate her well,then let him suffer for his stupidity. I will never pay bride price for public sperm bank or sperm gubleer.

The guy needed to apologize, because of witch hunt. Cux after all,what's his gain trying to save the moomoo groom

The lady that accused Rude Boi still dey inside jail..

motymop:
stop saying nonsense

it almost like when a woman comet o falsly accuse a man of rape, other women that want attention also claim he raped them when he has never had any interaction with them.

It’s highly unlikely for a woman you’ve never met to just randomly target you with an accusation. There had to be a point where your paths crossed. Even then, how often do you actually see men making up stories like this? As men, we’re generally too proud and ego-driven to lie about something so degrading. You can’t really compare the way men and women approach these situations.

Even in the West, a man wouldn't just wake up and post an accusation like that for no reason. He might vent to his friends in private, but for him to take it public, it’s usually because he has something to back it up.

I guess his receipts won’t hold up in court. The husband didn’t appreciate that and called his bluff. Some men of nowadays lack honour. He is basically telling the world that he mixes with prostitutes. He is no better than her since he is found in her company. Zero shame.

Hand done touch him blockos he run come confess

BigYash:
Shut up. Someone won't just come out to make such statements,if it wasn't true.

So, if I posted on twitter/X that you slept with your girlfriend and side chick's mothers, it must be true!

Okay...

motymop:
so you mean that every account that has post a prewedding pic, he knows the woman

You’re contradicting yourself. What are the odds of me getting your exact address right by accident? It’s highly unlikely. If I claimed I saw you in Abuja, wouldn't you at least call me out and prove you were in Abakaliki? If you can't even account for where you were, it’s safe to assume I actually saw you.

The lady went completely quiet instead of debunking it. Even after posting her pre wedding photos, she hasn't released a single statement. Even someone like Nkechi Blessing wasn't that silent. If I started spreading lies about you online, wouldn't you try to clear your name? Her silence speaks volumes.

nairalanda1:
So, if I posted on twitter/X that you slept with your girlfriend and side chick's mothers, it must be true!

Okay...

Atleast he’ll try to debunk it or someone like me will just call you a loser and clear the air. But if I decide to keep silent on something that grievous. Then it says a lot.

Threedoorsdown:
I remember when twitter was the so called " intellectual" app. Now all you have are banger boys and girls that would do and say anything to chase clout and engagement just to earn elons payment on the platform.

Only those at the receiving end of vile trolling can truly understand the damage it does emotionally and mentally.

That's the way of the internent

Initially the intellectuals dominate any social media type site, then the thing becomes popular, then EVERYONE comes and enters the site..and bingo.

justianoo:
The only threat that was issued was for him to bring proof of his claims but he had non.Everything was just for clout and Elon’s pay

Probably. But if that was the only case, I don’t think he’ll apologize publicly. Things went on underground.

Quick to offend, slow to repent.

Maybe they served him a notice to pull down that nonsense comment while shoimg him a copy of the amended Cyber bullying act.

He would have done 2ys in prison which would have seen to a civil suit been hit after he finished his sentence.

What concerns you with the sex life of someonelse?

SpencerForbes:
Atleast he’ll try to debunk it or someone like me will just call you a loser and clear the air. But if I decide to keep silent on something that grievous. Then it says a lot.

IN other words, when a man makes false allegations against a woman, allegations he cannot prove, then he must be telling the truth.

Damm, thanks.

Ol'boy, better be careful. The idea you have that all young women sleep around is begining to influence your thinking.

We all complain when men are falsely accused, so why should we not complain when it's women too?

Albertone:
The dude got arrested by her boyfriend. He didn’t have proof so he had to apologize.

Except I missed that, there was no post stating he got arrested and I doubted he’ll get arrested without public knowledge. I’m very sure the woman would have been the first to carry her camera if that was the case.

nairalanda1:
IN other words, when a man makes false allegations against a woman, allegations he cannot prove, then he must be telling the truth.

Damm, thanks.

Ol'boy, better be careful. The idea you have that all young women sleep around is begining to influence your thinking.

We all complain when men are falsely accused, so why should we not complain when it's women too?

Who brought any nonsense idea here. I asked a simple question which you couldn’t answer. I’ll ask another one. What’s the probability of a random person on nairaland guessing your actual location and places you’ve been to without actually seeing you?

Winterhaven:
I've got no sympathy for her. Anyone that comes online to seek validation from strangers, deserve whatever they get from these strangers.

Na una type rude boy dey teach better lesson. Must you chook mouth into everything?

SpencerForbes:
Who brought any nonsense idea here. I asked a simple question which you couldn’t answer. I’ll ask another one. What’s the probability of a random person on nairaland guessing your actual location and places you’ve been to without actually seeing you?

Until you meet person like rude boy or saynotocultism that is ready to fish you out, that time you will learn that talk is not cheap.

SpencerForbes:
Who brought any nonsense idea here. I asked a simple question which you couldn’t answer. I’ll ask another one. What’s the probability of a random person on nairaland guessing your actual location and places you’ve been to without actually seeing you?

You don;t have to hate women, you know.

SpencerForbes:
Exactly. You don't just drop allegations like that and then try to flip the script once people start asking questions. It’s pretty clear there’s a lot more going on behind the scenes than what we’re being told.

They showed him a copy of the cyberbullying bill which would have landed him at least 2ys in jail.

Making such defamatory statements about someone's personal life isn't free speech especially when it is meant to bring ridicule and disrepute to someone's character and personal and public image.

No bribe was given here. They only showed the idiotes the law he was breaking and claiming he was ready to go to court.

Even if the allegations are true, the manner of disclosure by the idiotes can be argued in court was to bring ridicule, shame and disrepute upon the lady's personal and public image by slut shaming her.

Who made the idiotes judge over anybody's personal past life?

erniok2:
Until you meet person like rude boy or saynotocultism that is ready to fish you out, that time you will learn that talk is not cheap.

When Rude Boy was accused, he took action immediately and had the woman arrested, which we all witnessed. He shut the rumors down online right away, and public opinion was on his side.

Did this woman do anything similar? Not at all. There was no debunking and no follow-up from her side—then, suddenly, the man just confesses. Does that really add up to you?

DomPerignon:
They showed him a copy of the cyberbullying bill which would have landed him at least 2ys in jail.

Making such defamatory statements about someone's personal life isn't free speech especially when it is meant to bring ridicule and disrepute to someone's character and personal and public image.

No bribe was given here. They only showed the idiotes the law he was breaking and claiming he was ready to go to court.

Even if the allegations are true, the manner of disclosure by the idiotes can be argued in court was to bring ridicule, shame and disrepute upon the lady's personal and public image by slut shaming her.

Who made the idiotes judge over anybody's personal past life?

That’s true. I think you explain it better.

NotOfThisWorld:
Why did he say that then, knowing fully well he's lying? Some of these Naija men should be banned from internet. The way they talk anyhow and say anything to and about anybody they don't know is alarming. I won't be surprised if he has an account on Nairaland as well. He's the poster boy for Nairaland males.

I actually followed the case on Twitter, the man always say this about any lady that post her pictures or marriage, you know Twitter pays a lot so many guys there have turned to banger boys chasing viral posts and posts like this usually get a lot of traction and views.

The dude actually miscalculated and the girl and fiance found his identity and sue him and it was later found out he was actually living a big lie, claiming to be very rich on Twitter but he is not in real life and he is even married and he repairs Solar and he claim to own his own company.

Anyway those women he trolled are all suing him and he is begging and has been apologizing in Twitter since.
Those guys that likes calling woman names and lies on them will eventually meet their waterloo

Orlandoo:
Money don exchange hands.

What is money don change hand. Matter dey court

writetopoka:
Ibsisect she might have called, pleaded and promised to pay with more snacking, that made this wan to withdraw his statement.

Bingo

The real bingo is someone believing the story of a double mouth guy.
Ekuke

SpencerForbes:
People are just naturally wicked. Why would you joke with such an allegation?

But it wasn’t only the guy na, did the others also apologize because I recall they were more than 3 guys that claimed they knew the woman.

Or she clearly blackmailed the guy. I smell bribe or blackmail from either party.

He went so direct and his comment trended the most

BigYash:
Shut up. Someone won't just come out to make such statements,if it wasn't true. But what I don't know is why was it his business. Since the man who wants to marry her, couldn't investigate her well,then let him suffer for his stupidity. I will never pay bride price for public sperm bank or sperm gubleer.

The guy needed to apologize, because of witch hunt. Cux after all,what's his gain trying to save the moomoo groom

You're wrong, alot of idiot on that X app