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Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

Your advice will go a long way

kpankpangolo:
Proof?

adamkkk:
am surprised that people are believing this poor scripted made up tori

She is now in the Rord Jesus Christa so she is now a new creatures according to pastor Emeka 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Old things (kpekus) have become new

Marry who you feel will make you happy...


Be a good wife and mother to your children. Without thinking of what people say.


If you feel she is the best quality and standard to what you want and would add meaningful value to your life then go ahead!

Ekeletu:
Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

why are U seeking for advice Wen both of U are into the same act and business. Guy marry her U both energy are the same.

The devil I know is better than saint I don't know. Nigeria Women will endure anything just to get married. After marriage, you will be hearing, at least you know my history, I do hookup, I like clubbing, I can't stop because I married.

There are time for everything.

A time to hook up
A time to hook down..

I heard a lot of stories of men settling down with ashewo. Sone have happy ending and some bitter endings.

Update us how its ends for you.

Who you wan leave am for Abeg? Marry your partner so another man don’t start crying. Atleast you’ll understand her better. HML😊

Safe journey bro...

Bon voyage

if she can bring stability to the structure of your kingdom then wife her.

In a nutshell, all women can cook and clean but not all are respectful, intelligent and disciplined.

Life is all about choice, men will respect your choice.

brain54:
Marry who you feel will make you happy...


Be a good wife and mother to your children. Without thinking of what people say.


If you feel she is the best quality and standard to what you want and would add meaningful value to your life then go ahead!

Follow your mind.

Someone will,maybe not you….

Wetin really concern me seff…








But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

Ekeletu:
Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

Bros, I’ll keep it real and straight with u.

U met her through hookup, u pimped her to other men, she featured in ur adult content, did orgy, threesomes, girl-on-girl, smokes… and now u want to turn her into wife next year because she says she’ll stop everything?

Here’s the hard truth:
1 She fits ur “spec” sexually because u’ve seen (and sold) the extreme version. That excitement is not the same as wife material. Wife material brings peace, respect, and stability, not a past that will haunt both of u.

2 People can change, yes. But real change takes time, not “last month I stopped.” Marriage is not the magic that fixes deep habits.
If smoking and hookup were her lifestyle for years, the test is not one month—it’s years of consistency.

3 Imagine ur family finds out (and they will—one day, one video or one ex go leak am). Imagine ur kids grow up and someone shows them mummy’s past. Imagine u wake up one day and the old memories start to eat u.

4 U’re having double mind for a reason. Listen to that voice. It’s not weakness; it’s wisdom speaking.

My advice:
 Don’t marry her out of pity, guilt, or “she’s my spec.”
If u truly love her, give it 1–2 more years.

Let her prove the change outside marriage. Build something clean. If she stays consistent, then consider it.

But rushing into marriage now? That one na recipe for regret.
 U deserve peace, not constant doubt.


Choose wisely, king.

Ur future self go thank u. 🙏

Perfect match

Marry her

infogenius:
Bros, I’ll keep it real and straight with u.

U met her through hookup, u pimped her to other men, she featured in ur adult content, did orgy, threesomes, girl-on-girl, smokes… and now u want to turn her into wife next year because she says she’ll stop everything?

Here’s the hard truth:
1 She fits ur “spec” sexually because u’ve seen (and sold) the extreme version. That excitement is not the same as wife material. Wife material brings peace, respect, and stability, not a past that will haunt both of u.

2 People can change, yes. But real change takes time, not “last month I stopped.” Marriage is not the magic that fixes deep habits.
If smoking and hookup were her lifestyle for years, the test is not one month—it’s years of consistency.

3 Imagine ur family finds out (and they will—one day, one video or one ex go leak am). Imagine ur kids grow up and someone shows them mummy’s past. Imagine u wake up one day and the old memories start to eat u.

4 U’re having double mind for a reason. Listen to that voice. It’s not weakness; it’s wisdom speaking.

My advice:
 Don’t marry her out of pity, guilt, or “she’s my spec.”
If u truly love her, give it 1–2 more years.

Let her prove the change outside marriage. Build something clean. If she stays consistent, then consider it.

But rushing into marriage now? That one na recipe for regret.
 U deserve peace, not constant doubt.


Choose wisely, king.

Ur future self go thank u. 🙏

hmmmmmm hmmmmmm

infogenius:
Bros, I’ll keep it real and straight with u.

U met her through hookup, u pimped her to other men, she featured in ur adult content, did orgy, threesomes, girl-on-girl, smokes… and now u want to turn her into wife next year because she says she’ll stop everything?

Here’s the hard truth:
1 She fits ur “spec” sexually because u’ve seen (and sold) the extreme version. That excitement is not the same as wife material. Wife material brings peace, respect, and stability, not a past that will haunt both of u.

2 People can change, yes. But real change takes time, not “last month I stopped.” Marriage is not the magic that fixes deep habits.
If smoking and hookup were her lifestyle for years, the test is not one month—it’s years of consistency.

3 Imagine ur family finds out (and they will—one day, one video or one ex go leak am). Imagine ur kids grow up and someone shows them mummy’s past. Imagine u wake up one day and the old memories start to eat u.

4 U’re having double mind for a reason. Listen to that voice. It’s not weakness; it’s wisdom speaking.

My advice:
 Don’t marry her out of pity, guilt, or “she’s my spec.”
If u truly love her, give it 1–2 more years.

Let her prove the change outside marriage. Build something clean. If she stays consistent, then consider it.

But rushing into marriage now? That one na recipe for regret.
 U deserve peace, not constant doubt.


Choose wisely, king.

Ur future self go thank u. 🙏

What do you think of “King pimple?”

Would you be happy with him marrying your sister?

Op is a perfect frequency match for his spec and that’s what he deserves. What amazing woman who gives peace and 1k yard wife material deserves “King pimple?”

You are very dangerous!

HawkTuahGirl:
The devil I know is better than saint I don't know. Nigeria Women will endure anything just to get married. After marriage, you will be hearing, at least you know my history, I do hookup, I like clubbing, I can't stop because I married.

There are time for everything.

A time to hook up
A time to hook down..

I heard a lot of stories of men settling down with ashewo. Sone have happy ending and some bitter endings.

Update us how its ends for you.

Even if we start this life over again some people nor go still get sense.

am surprised that people are believing this poor scripted made up tori

Bahamas95:
Even if we start this life over again some people nor go still get sense.

You are very right bro. They have permanent residency in it

Proof?

Ekeletu:
Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

brain54:
Marry who you feel will make you happy...


Be a good wife and mother to your children. Without thinking of what people say.


If you feel she is the best quality and standard to what you want and would add meaningful value to your life then go ahead!

may God bless you.

see how everybody serious dey give advise to person wey dey cruise

Ekeletu:
Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

Humans can change from bad to good and from good to bad.

There's room for change for everyone if it's from the heart

You are planning on getting married and you are still seeking advice from us(Nairaland)? Love is blind and them no dey advice person wey dey inlove.

Ekeletu:
Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

Aye eyin mekeji to baje. Shift go front

Bahamas95:
Even if we start this life over again some people nor go still get sense.

Wisdom is the best gift a man get from God freely but depends on the capacity of the person to activate it to intelligence.
Sense nor common

Respect

Just Do It. YOLO!

Their type no go ever cheat after all which d wey she never see

It will shock you she will get married before the good ones.

What ever was sown. There's time to reap.... It's your time perhaps.... They look good at clubs... But in marriage let us know how good

Ekeletu:
Let me make it brief.
There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup.
I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents.

She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.

Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup.

We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind.

She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.

Any advice?

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