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TossTos:
➜This is one of the trap that always catch men .. Emotions ..
➜ Op really want to know what he'll do not lose the relationship..
➜ bro , reduce the volume of your emotions and be decisive for once . Watch how your life transform .. Everyman needs to lower the frequency of their Emotions, this people are using it to get us .. have you discovered yourself or you still dey emotionally, dey do things ?

Your emotions are not a trap but traffic lights indicating the current state of your mind and ultimately your physical health. If you disregard them, you put yourself in danger.

2. OP has no choice in whether he will lose or not lose the relationship, as a woman or man can up and up and decide to walk out of a relationship at any time.

3. This is seriously bad advice for a man and also for a woman.

Emmy000seun:
But he said they have been into relationship for 3yrs now!!.so why is she now seeing him broke?.if the girl is not benefiting from him she won't have stay that long...so it tells you how woman see man as use and dump ..in the sense that once they see highest bidder, they don't mind what happens next and dey forget your previous effort...🤷..I appreciate both side of relationship don't get me out of context, but I support reciprocity, treat your partner d way u want to b treated...📌💯

Boss man abeg

Guy man, let her be. Better your life before chasing women up and down. Who gf help sef. Anyways, this is another day to remind y'all that love, relationships and marriage are all SCAM 💯

Emmy000seun:
But he said they have been into relationship for 3yrs now!!.so why is she now seeing him broke?.if the girl is not benefiting from him she won't have stay that long...so it tells you how woman see man as use and dump ..in the sense that once they see highest bidder, they don't mind what happens next and dey forget your previous effort...🤷..I appreciate both side of relationship don't get me out of context, but I support reciprocity, treat your partner d way u want to b treated...📌💯

Boss man no be sooo oo
At a point in time one person fit don give you unexpected help before but no p Sha
Everywhere good

Hear what this one is saying... You are dumped already and you are thinking of dumping her.

You're a very SIMP-LE man

You will get the answer from your fellow simple guys

Tenrack:
you dey lag? Link me up with a couple na

Yes. But I'm on holiday

Bro..not responding to you on time doesn't mean am avoiding you, am kind of busy and getting home I need to enter d kitchen too,..I pray I remember your handle tho!! I will b funding my accessible account before d new year celebration, I already settle up budgeted expenses..but surely I will add something for you before d celebration.. shalom..

247VAWULENCE:
Boss man no be sooo oo
At a point in time one person fit don give you unexpected help before but no p Sha
Everywhere good

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Since you have been sat ng her what have u gained me man....na mumu u be if u give her that money

Are you a simp?

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman cannot demand better than her own mother got from her father, is what you are insisting on?🥱🥱🥱

She should demand what her father or brother or uncles can afford to give her.
No put another man picking for high jump

PureSperm:
Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag

Correct yourself at the first bolded = the relationship that you built.

At the second bolded, it is a greenlight 😔, infact, find way by all means to get that money, even if it means taking a loan or selling any of your properties 😂

YourGFsnatcher:
Yes. But I'm on holiday

Okay. Cool. When do you get back kind sir

Bro please am begging every man don't ever build ur career with a woman. An never beg a woman to stay in ur life please this is a mistake have made in my pass years.but now am thanking God for my life.now I don't send any women.

sexy74:
She should demand what her father or brother or uncles can afford to give her.
No put another man picking for high jump

please leave women alone since you don't think they have right to set their own price. Go marry your fellow man and be on your way. 🥱🥱🥱

I

Kobojunkie:
She no get yet many of you come here to talk of how your gals clean up your homes, cook for you and even do your laundry when she comes over. And you don't see ho such a girl is already given a broke man too much of her time and energy for free? If the man had to hire someone to do all of that for himself, do you know how how much that would cost him? 🥱🥱🥱

The gal is better off hiring her services off to someone who will pay her than giving it away for free to someone who will still believe she has adds no value to his life. 🥱🥱🥱

No vex, you dey use this brain cross road?

Sunisonflex39:
✓ No vex, you dey use this brain cross road?

If say you use yours cross road, you go understand say no woman should offer her energy and labor for free to anyone including you. 🥱🥱🥱

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

use it as a wake up call to work harder and do away with such a person or she might be using it to ginger you to be honest some guys need such

Sunisonflex39:
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No vex, you dey use this brain cross road?

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Dont read the posts of someone who hates his own mother.

Fhowe:
use it as a wake up call to work harder and do away with such a person or she might be using it to ginger you to be honest some guys need such

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"If you dont give me money for hair and clothes I will break up with you" - is enough reason to dump such a person.

Since you believe both of you have suffered for the relationship go and borrow the money from the loan app , borrow from family and friends .

Emmy000seun:
Bro..not responding to you on time doesn't mean am avoiding you, am kind of busy and getting home I need to enter d kitchen too,..I pray I remember your handle tho!! I will b funding my accessible account before d new year celebration, I already settle up budgeted expenses..but surely I will add something for you before d celebration.. shalom..

God bless you brother
I pray you and your love ones don't end this year on a sad note
I will keep reminding you boss

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

At this stage of your life, you’re dating yourself, dating a liability and a grownup like you without her money or understanding of your present situation. If you don’t dump her, you are on your own. But trust me, you will wail later than this if you don’t do the needful.

Tenrack:
Okay. Cool. When do you get back kind sir

Second week of January boss

She has someone in the pipeline already waiting to take over from where you will stop.

YourGFsnatcher:
Second week of January boss

no wam. I go remind you. God keep us alive.

Run o

Kobojunkie:
please leave women alone since you don't think they have right to set their own price. Go marry your fellow man and be on your way. 🥱🥱🥱

Sympathiser, which price will she set that she cannot herself afford.
See no bill person watin your family no fit afford.
If the person says no, tell your people if e easy, dem go give you .

Let her bill her fellow woman if your anology is that he should Mary his fellow man

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Na una know where una dey see leeches women wey no get sense.

You want to do fine girl and you don't have your own money? Hmmn!
Pray hard that she can be true to her words and end the relationship this year. Your problems are half solved if she leaves, then you can start afresh in the New Year.

Everything I am cooking for the family this festive period is from my pocket and I'm delightful doing it. My hubby and I are in agreement to use his money for something else.

On top of that, I pack provisions and condiments for a few people in the neighborhood as Christmas something, I didn't trouble my husband for that cause he no send me. Na me send myself.

I can't imagine standing on any man's neck for money for hairdo or Aṣọ Ọdún, Ah! I don't have any plans for the salon this time, I'll just comb my hair, then I pick any cloth to wear to church tomorrow. Chikena!

Bros, pray o make misfortune comot for your life fast-fast!

sexy74:
➜Sympathiser, which price will she set that she cannot herself afford. See no bill person watin your family no fit afford. If the person says no, tell your people if e easy, dem go give you . Let her bill her fellow woman if your anology is that he should Mary his fellow man

. As expected, more nonsense talk! Abeg, make I go celebrate my Xmas in gladness! 🥱🥱🥱