190_@:

OP Seek no further

your future husband 190 is here to save you from your distress  

Orikinla:

I laugh 3 times .
But it is not funny to women o.

Many single men are on strike.

well God has it in the scriptures

Look well 190 - for what you seek is right in front of you

I looked into the future and it wasnt very clear - I looked and looked and i saw nnemdi21

and God said GO!! she is the one meant for you

OP - Here i am

I would kiss you 24/7 & Bring breakfast for you in bed

nnemdi21:

i think i am desperate mostly because of the fact dt i hvnt found any suitor that meets my criteria. of course family pressure nd friends getting married adds to it. thnks evry1 for your honest response.

Ma'am, take a deep breath and some fresh air too. . .

Responsible and true Christian Men abound in Canada (and, indeed, world over). . .

All u need do is to be less desperate, be open-minded, search wella and wait patiently.

However, a plethora of condition/criteria and a paucity of same in reciprocity will be, to put it mildly, selfish.

Ma'am, give Dudes some 'fair deals' and Good Luck in your quest for. . . . .!

nnemdi21:

even though i dont voice it out loud, within my heart i have this desperation to find a husband.
i dont know why i feel this way. atimes i feel i am weird to feel this desperate,
i just want some1 to tell me this is absolutely normal

While majority may frown and scorn at your seeming desperation, you are absolutely normal! Lemme say, desperately Normal! No two human is wired the same, if you doubt me, ask around and see if you share fingerprints with anyone els in this world! We are that unique! You feel this way because you are human, and it's a human desire to start a family. Add to that, you also value the institution called marriage! You are very positive!

for the major part of my life, i have been focused on school, now i am almost rounding up, i beginning to feel this pressure to be married.

i am still very young but i feel so mature inside. i have had a few bfs in my life but now i want something more serious. i want commitment, i want love, i want a family.
my family is constantly reminding me of my single status and how they would love to have a son inlaw
it might sound a bit strange but 75% of my friends are married.
sometimes i feel so jealous. my youngest friend just turned 20 and is married as-well and heavily pregnant.
coming from a typical igbo family, marrying young is something the family is excited about

i have been in Canada for a couple of years and finding a husband here has not exactly been easy. or should i say finding a man that meets my criteria is very hard.
its hard to find true christian men, men that are comfortable and serious with life, family oriented men and men that would love me no matter the situation. the western culture has clouded our believe so much that no one ever really marries for the sake of love.

It's hard because no man is perfect! You CANT have it all in a man! Forget the hype. Forget the movies! Forget the dreams! The perfect man simply does NOT exist! If you find a man that has 6 out of 10 qualities your future husband must have, pls, go for him, and try to help him work out the other 4! Love the imperfect man perfectly! Western Culture clouded our beliefs? What our? Would you jump off the bridge simply because i asked you to? The western culture DOESNT make decisions for you. . . It influences your decisions, so with that added influence, you may be cajoled to base the premise of your decisions on their culture! Dont be what? Dont be fooled by anyone! Do what's right and leave the rest! Who the hell says No one marries for the sake of love? You want to believe that? Cos the west said so? Yeah, right! The west also said i am free to marry animals! The west is what? The west isssssss DUMB! Be yourself. . . that's a step! Once you are your self, you floooow, and then. . . the next step!

i love "LOVE", i breath love, i think love is so beautiful and i would never want to settle
but with the pressure from family and most of my friends being married i feel the urge to want to settle down.
i'm just 23 years old, is this feeling normal?
i feel so mature inside and sometimes i feel the need to hang out with people who are not within my age group.

i am not a desperate girl, i know my worth and i know some day the right man would come.
so how do i quench this feeling?
is there anyone out there in my shoes?

Maturity comes with the ability to make wise decisions when needed! At first, those decisions may seem to be to your detriment, but in the long run? It always works out fine! Yes there are loads of people in your shoes! But they are also seeking for answers! I'd really suggest you continue mingling with people that are not within your age group! not because you feel mature to do so, or that it is the new cool, but because in the realistic sense of it, you tend to gain more knowledge from them! Especially the married ones! Ask them questions. Ask how they have managed to stick together as married couples. Trust me, your database of knowledge and information is sure to increase! Armed with such knowledge, you would clearly see desperation & pressures for what they really are: Distractions!
The right man would come. But what are you doing to make yourself the right woman for him? Love is not a one way street! it's double lane! And there's a kind of symbiosis attached to love! Improve your self, work on your flaws, keep advancing and keep making your advancement manifest! There is really no hurry in life! Everything is really vanity, and so is marriage too! Not saying it's not important, but dont let it be you main aim or goal, especially @ 23 years of age, and with the constant barrage of pressures from friends and relatives!

Dont allow desperation and pressures to be cloud your sense of reasoning! Do everything in the appointed time, put desires in the appointed place, and sit back, relax, put on your 3D glasses, and watch everything fall into place!. . .

190_@:

OP

seek no further

190 is here for u

My contact is in my profile - GOD told me you are the woman ive been searching for

190_@:

well God has it in the scriptures

Look well 190 - for what you seek is right in front of you

I looked into the future and it wasnt very clear - I looked and looked and i saw nnemdi21

and God said GO!! she is the one meant for you

OP - Here i am

I would kiss you 24/7 & Bring breakfast for you in bed

bekay911:

and d bible says : for 190 goes to n fro looking for who to devour.
Beware of d false prophets who come preaching in ma na,e for dey r wouf wouf in sheep clothings

Responsible and true Christian Men abound in Canada (and, indeed, world over). . .

Jenifa_:

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