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KobolanderSegun:
What is wrong with you ? You knacked her so you must pay. You promised her. God is watching you. If you cheat a woman God will cheat you also. Me I never knack and cheat, the only time you can cheat a babe is if you don't promise her anything and knack her then it's up to you to determine how much the knack meant to you.

Women asking for money is not prostitution but common sense. If you asked me to sweep your room i will charge you for the stress involved. Sex for alot of women is Stressful, you need to destress them.

Even you that are in transportation business you know if a friend of yours asked you to drive him to a place one kilometer away you will make sure you get money for that journey or he buys you soft drink, gala, Pure water, biscuits so that you can focus on the road, then you will make sure he buys fuel for you also. It's the same thing with women you have to make it worth their while.

I understand all what you said. But why is it that it’s only one side of the story you guys are reading.
You guys ignore the part where I said, she was on daily 2k from me for 3months and still refused us getting down. And when eventually she promised to, she disappointed in the highest way possible. Do you know I lost upto 20k that day. Hotel room 10k, things I bought over 10k.
No apologies for that.
Lastly about the sex, between a man and a woman. Who’s really stressing out during sex?
Have you heard of the quotes “E sweet you and e sweet me, who go pay each other”

Kobojunkie:
Nobody is the reading type! Also, I asked that you ask her to come here (a faceless forum) to share her thoughts on what happened that night, meaning you should tell her about Nairaland and perhaps suggest it as a free counseling resource, just as you are using it here. Please do invite her to maybe read this here post of yours as well.

2. About the two of you, I think your situationship should quickly end. I mean, if you are already plotting revenge, that clearly shows you don't care at all about her. 🥱🥱

P.S. Action speaks louder than words... even in today's world. 🥱🥱🥱

You again with bullets on a simple gold digging matter 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

ResearchHedge22:
This is very wrong. What are you revenging here? Fulfill your promise. A promise is a promise. Afterall, she offered you a service. Whether she's a prostitute or not, that shouldn't be your business. You wanted to get down with her, and you promised her 10k, so kindly fulfill your promise.

It seems you guys are reading only one part of the story and ignoring the rest. This is not a one off meeting. Didn’t you read the part I said she was receiving 2k daily from me for 3months. Not to forget other times I give her extra cash to get her personal things.
Thru out that period she didn’t allow me get down with her. And she promised by herself to do it on the 31st only to give me the biggest disappointment of that year.
.
So why is my own now being singled out without touching on what she did previously.

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

2000 daily x 365 days = 730,000.
500(every 2 days) x 365 ÷ 2 = 91,250
730,000 + 91,250 = 821,250

Haaahaaaa.... I laf in Swahili... If that young lady UnCloth herself at midnight and swear for you this New Year by then you will start suspecting your innocent village people not knowing your the cause of your problems.

I have one assignment for you:
Pls find out the meaning of "EKWUEME" in IGBO language.

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

give her the money and block her asap

Kalulu44:
I understand all what you said. But why is it that it’s only one side of the story you guys are reading.
You guys ignore the part where I said, she was on daily 2k from me for 3months and still refused us getting down. And when eventually she promised to, she disappointed in the highest way possible. Do you know I lost upto 20k that day. Hotel room 10k, things I bought over 10k.
No apologies for that.
Lastly about the sex, between a man and a woman. Who’s really stressing out during sex?
Have you heard of the quotes “E sweet you and e sweet me, who go pay each other”

As most people have said, you be mumu man. When you were giving her 2k per day, was there any agreement between the both of you? You acted like a simp and that's it. This other one is a business transaction and you have to pay up. It's crazy that you work in a public space as a bus driver and you are willing to play with your life because of common 10k. Some of una no actually dey reason. There's no point looking for issues because of that petty amount, it's not worth it. Get some kind wahala wey worth the stress, this one no follow at all.

If you like no follow advice, na you sabi.

deebrain:
Sir. First of all, Happy New Year.

Second, I feel giving you 12 strokes of cane. Correct 12 strokes! I am not happy.

Third. Kindly pay her the agreed for the service rendered. You have no right to, after the aforementioned transaction, renegade on your commitment. Before 12 noon today, the money for service rendered, should have been transferred to the account of the aforementioned service provider, or else....

Hahahaha, shebi na cane you wan flog me. Me na Cord I go knack you.
Back to the matter. Why are you guys reading only one part of my story and Igbo the rest. This is not a one off meeting. This was someone that received 2k daily from me for 3 months without allowing me get down.
Only to use her mouth and promise to do it on the 31st. And then she disappointed in the highest way possible.
I’m not talking of extra cashes of sometimes 5k or 10k to buy one or two things.
.
On that day she disappointed, I spent above 20k both for hotel room and other things. Dem tell you say I no get house, she suggested hotel. So why is nobody talking about her failure to fulfill her promise but talking about only my own.

Anonymouskid:
Give her then cut her off

Ok

Aayemojuba:
Bobo it is time to let her go off you,she thought she's smart by sending her friend to call you,this time that same friend will call u to canvass u in order for them to get that your free money,they are oloshos

Well said

lol.

Na just one day sex you wan take revenge? Na wa for you oo

Give her the 10k jor

And keep enjoying her till you are tired but STOP that 2k daily + data nonsense

Just don't get emotionally attached since she has showed that she is just for the kesh.

jamesversion:
You had sex with her and you are reneging on giving her the money promised for sex.

Amd you are a bus driver. See you see accident.

Hahahaha, I retired from driving and gave someone my bus since early last year. But even at that, if I was still driving, nothing go happen.
Why are you all bent on my about to be unfulfilled promise but forgetting her own.
This was someone that collected 2k daily from me for 3months. Not to talk of some extra cash here and there to buy things for herself.
I have my own house but she suggested us getting down at a hotel. It cost me over 20k both for the hotel room and other things I have bought.
But she failed to show up and never apologized nor gave reasons why she didn’t show up.
.
You guys didn’t blame her for all this, but heaping blame on me. But I still have until 12 noon today to fulfill my promise or not

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Sorry to say.

But you are not that smart man...
You have all the answers you are looking for in front of you...
Meanwhile...you put a girl on 2k daily from your 10k daily...damn...thats even more than 10% tithe churches collect...
Who made the rule that you must fund a girls lifestyle?? Esp one that clearly sees you as a mugu...
Give her the 10k and stop that 2k daily and data nonsense before you do frog jumps wella.

Okoroemekah:
stand by your words and give her the money but tell her you are no longer interested. A girl that loves a man will never stress you and thank your lucky stars the girl later came back alive or else you could have been in police trouble.let her go it is not worth the effort for a woman that don't like you.

Thank you, but do you agree she disappointed me too.
As for having a relationship with her, that ship has since sail on since that day. I just wanted to taste her cookies once and for all

Kobojunkie:
Whatever you decide is your prerogative. However, can you please ask this gal to feel free to come on to Nairaland to talk about what really happened to her on the day in question?🥱🥱

She didn't tell her own supposed side-boyfriend.

And you think she will tell Nairalanders?

ChybuzzDD:
And you think it was necessary??
Only inferiority complex made you think so

Alright sir, that’s for you. For me I wanted to make her feel safe that I will send the money

Dtruthspeaker:
Ah! Guy, dem don too turn us mummy because we like to do good.

I Dey tell you. And na me dem don do pass

Kalulu44:
It seems you guys are reading only one part of the story and ignoring the rest. This is not a one off meeting. Didn’t you read the part I said she was receiving 2k daily from me for 3months. Not to forget other times I give her extra cash to get her personal things.
Thru out that period she didn’t allow me get down with her. And she promised by herself to do it on the 31st only to give me the biggest disappointment of that year.
.
So why is my own now being singled out without touching on what she did previously.

No one is refuting the fact. Whatever might have transpired, she has her reasons. However, you promised her 10k and she gave you what you have always wanted, so fulfill your part. If you had not promised her, it would have been a different case.

Kalulu44:
I understand all what you said. But why is it that it’s only one side of the story you guys are reading.
You guys ignore the part where I said, she was on daily 2k from me for 3months and still refused us getting down. And when eventually she promised to, she disappointed in the highest way possible. Do you know I lost upto 20k that day. Hotel room 10k, things I bought over 10k.
No apologies for that.
Lastly about the sex, between a man and a woman. Who’s really stressing out during sex?
Have you heard of the quotes “E sweet you and e sweet me, who go pay each other”

Bros please forgive me o.... Bros I am very sorry the post was rather long so I forgot your kindness to her.

You are a very good man and a kind hearted man to give a babe 2k a day without knacking her is True Love. I don do am before back in the day.... E no pay me ooooo......

She did not apologize for Not showing up.
I think you are WAY TOO GOOD for the Babe.
I have been in your shoes before, in love and treating the Babe well.
What I would advice is reduce your feelings for the Babe.

From what you have said I think she is using you. If a woman can receive N2,000 a day for sometime and not apologize for a no show then she is not appreciative.

If I was in your shoes I'd reduce the money I give her by 75 percent from N2,000. I'd give her just N500 and watch her response.

I think you should give her the money you promised her for the sex and then drastically reduce it from thereafter.

In my bachelor days when I want to dump a girl who is not appreciative I will simply tell her " I am Broke " knowing she will dump me, when I am the one who wants to dump her.

Then I go shopping buying Chivita , Soft Drinks, Friedrice,Shawarma, Chocolate and newspapers and throw a one man party, celebrate my freedom. Then I watch television for the first time in a long time, I enjoy myself celebrate the money I'm no longer giving her.

Once again Thumbs up to you for wondering why she did not apologize when she did not show.

Maybe she was planning to kidnap herself and you will pay ransom to herself before she frees herself. Omo Nigeria Don Spoil...... Shine Your Eyes.

Tenrack:
what if na Yoruba? Cause I dated a Yoruba that acted exactly like this.

the babe that also acted like this was a yoruba girl too.

This way of life is spiritually dangerous. When a person dies, he is restored to the love he freely chose while alive.

Your own words show that your ruling love is not ordered affection but promiscuous desire mixed with money and manipulation.

Those who live from such loves are not forced into hell, they choose it freely, because heaven does not agree with what they love.

If this pattern continues unchanged, it will only lead you downward, not upward.

CHANGE. CHANGE.
Because after death, a person cannot change the love that has become his life.

There is something always common in Nigeria from time to time.
Extreme Idiots with small Money. And come comfort. Irritating stuff

Send her money joor.

Kalulu44:
I Dey tell you. And na me dem don do pass

All of be you oo. Guys telling you to give her have brain clot

ResearchHedge22:
No one is refuting the fact. Whatever might have transpired, she has her reasons. However, you promised her 10k and she gave you what you have always wanted, so fulfill your part. If you had not promised her, it would have been a different case.

You don't need to promise to have a contract. Did you not see that she gave him now that he had dried her? She was only trying to gain triple double times. So he has already paid for what he got for if he didn't she would never had opened up

omoredia:
the babe that also acted like this was a yoruba girl too.

lmao. My own be say we dey "date" she is a single mom. She collected transport thrice. And each time na different lambs. Even lied that she did heart surgery 😭😂 another time it was her grandma eye surgery. Lol be like Yoruba babes nai dey do this nonsense. Well, I don learn Sha. Na me go dey find love. Girls wey don die on the inside.