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Please help me, I am confused and my heart is heavy 💔

My husband’s business collapsed in January this year. Since then, there are times he asks me to give him a little time so he can sort out everything we need in the house. Even when he doesn’t have money at the moment, he always comes through. He has always been a responsible man.

This is the same man who trained me through school. After our marriage, he opened a big shop for me and never once asked me to contribute to household bills. He carried everything alone without complaint.

Recently, I told my elder sister that I wanted to support my husband’s business with ₦8 million. She reacted angrily, asking how I could give my husband such money when our only brother—who just returned from Malaysia—needed money to start a business. Meanwhile, my father had already invested in my brother twice before, and he wasted both opportunities.

Out of pressure and confusion, I ended up giving my brother the ₦8 million last month.

I honestly don’t know how my husband found out.

Four days ago, he woke me up in the middle of the night and asked if I was the one who gave my brother money. I was shocked and denied it. Yesterday evening, I found him crying alone in our bedroom. When I asked what was wrong, he looked at me and asked, “Who am I to you?”
I said, “You’re my husband.”
He replied that he felt like a total stranger to me—that I watched him struggle and did nothing.

I broke down and started crying. He left the house.

Since then, I haven’t seen him. He’s not picking my calls. This morning I went to his shop—it was locked. I later spoke to his close friend, who told me my husband called him last night crying but hung up before explaining anything.

I am completely lost right now. I never meant to hurt the man who has done everything for me.
Please… what should I do? I need sincere advice. 🙏💔

You re good writer
Fiction ✨

Let me assume that this story is real.

Sirchiboy:
I am completely lost right now. I never meant to hurt the man who has done everything for me.
Please… what should I do? I need sincere advice. 🙏💔

Give him ₦8m. That's enough.

Headline has the wrong third person personal pronoun.

Is the man female?

The woman is the husband of the man

Husband and brother. Siblings are okay to help, but a husband is a Long time Life partner to you. Nawao

Husband and brother. Siblings are okay to help, but a husband is a Long time Life partner to you. I hate it when a wife starts acting with advice gotten from outside nuclear family. Person like me will give you serious warning before putting Ring in your hand. My hard time should be your hard time, my good days should be your flourishing days.

If na true,you go settle down dey write an wella.


Creative writing.

You try.

This op and his clickbait threads again 😏

Sirchiboy:
Please help me, I am confused and my heart is heavy 💔

My husband’s business collapsed in January this year. Since then, there are times he asks me to give him a little time so he can sort out everything we need in the house. Even when he doesn’t have money at the moment, he always comes through. He has always been a responsible man.

This is the same man who trained me through school. After our marriage, he opened a big shop for me and never once asked me to contribute to household bills. He carried everything alone without complaint.

Recently, I told my elder sister that I wanted to support my husband’s business with ₦8 million. She reacted angrily, asking how I could give my husband such money when our only brother—who just returned from Malaysia—needed money to start a business. Meanwhile, my father had already invested in my brother twice before, and he wasted both opportunities.

Out of pressure and confusion, I ended up giving my brother the ₦8 million last month.

I honestly don’t know how my husband found out.

Four days ago, he woke me up in the middle of the night and asked if I was the one who gave my brother money. I was shocked and denied it. Yesterday evening, I found him crying alone in our bedroom. When I asked what was wrong, he looked at me and asked, “Who am I to you?”
I said, “You’re my husband.”
He replied that he felt like a total stranger to me—that I watched him struggle and did nothing.

I broke down and started crying. He left the house.

Since then, I haven’t seen him. He’s not picking my calls. This morning I went to his shop—it was locked. I later spoke to his close friend, who told me my husband called him last night crying but hung up before explaining anything.

I am completely lost right now. I never meant to hurt the man who has done everything for me.
Please… what should I do? I need sincere advice. 🙏💔

Madam I pray he forgives you, that will be difficult to manage on his part.

Your brother ris your brother agreed.
Your sister destroyed your home while hers is intact.

Why did she not give her brother who is also yours money.

You would have divided the money equally and given them.

I pray your husband forgives you,which is almost impossible .

Sirchiboy:
Please help me, I am confused and my heart is heavy 💔

My husband’s business collapsed in January this year. Since then, there are times he asks me to give him a little time so he can sort out everything we need in the house. Even when he doesn’t have money at the moment, he always comes through. He has always been a responsible man.

This is the same man who trained me through school. After our marriage, he opened a big shop for me and never once asked me to contribute to household bills. He carried everything alone without complaint.

Recently, I told my elder sister that I wanted to support my husband’s business with ₦8 million. She reacted angrily, asking how I could give my husband such money when our only brother—who just returned from Malaysia—needed money to start a business. Meanwhile, my father had already invested in my brother twice before, and he wasted both opportunities.

Out of pressure and confusion, I ended up giving my brother the ₦8 million last month.

I honestly don’t know how my husband found out.

Four days ago, he woke me up in the middle of the night and asked if I was the one who gave my brother money. I was shocked and denied it. Yesterday evening, I found him crying alone in our bedroom. When I asked what was wrong, he looked at me and asked, “Who am I to you?”
I said, “You’re my husband.”
He replied that he felt like a total stranger to me—that I watched him struggle and did nothing.

I broke down and started crying. He left the house.

Since then, I haven’t seen him. He’s not picking my calls. This morning I went to his shop—it was locked. I later spoke to his close friend, who told me my husband called him last night crying but hung up before explaining anything.

I am completely lost right now. I never meant to hurt the man who has done everything for me.
Please… what should I do? I need sincere advice. 🙏💔

Ur are wicked iswear is Ur husband not Ur everything??kai Ur wicked to Ur own house Ur brother is not Ur future Ur husband is

SeeWahala:
This op and his clickbait threads again 😏

Which day , me and you go fight on boxing day

Another episode on things that never happened.

Mumu woman. U for give ur husband 5, broda 3. Or give them both 4/4 gaskia.