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Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 9:12pm On Jan 12
Some men are chicken 🐔 they use all their bodies to scatter their wives struggle so dat they will remain under dem,, I thought my was wicked until my friend of old told me her own
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Kobojunkie: 9:33pm On Jan 12
dollytino4real:
Some men are chicken 🐔 they use all their bodies to scatter their wives struggle so dat they will remain under dem,, I thought my was wicked until my friend of old told me her own
Why is your friend still choosing to remain married to her enemy? Una dey do competition? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Demetrix: 11:44pm On Jan 12
Stop surrounding yourself with toxic and good for nothing men.
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Double0h7(f): 12:05am On Jan 13
Demetrix:
Stop surrounding yourself with toxic and good for nothing men.
That’s her husband you’re talking about 😒
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Helpout12345: 12:09am On Jan 13
dollytino4real:
Some men are chicken 🐔 they use all their bodies to scatter their wives struggle so dat they will remain under dem,, I thought my was wicked until my friend of old told me her own
No 2 relationship or marriages are the same, because people in the relationships are unique people as well.

And no one is perfect. All relationships or marriages have their unique issues or problems. You stay if you can manage yours and DON'T ever compare other people relationships to yours.
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 8:54am On Jan 13
Kobojunkie:
Why is your friend still choosing to remain married to her enemy? Una dey do competition? 🥱🥱🥱
not everyone likes separation dat is y we try to stay
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 8:55am On Jan 13
Demetrix:
Stop surrounding yourself with toxic and good for nothing men.
do u know where good men is? because dey are not from my tribe o
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by SeeWahala: 10:11am On Jan 13
dollytino4real:
not everyone likes separation dat is y we try to stay
You don't like to 'separate' because you'd be single and ashamed but prefer to 'DIE' in your marriage and be buried a hero abi? undecided

Okay 😏
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 11:30am On Jan 13
SeeWahala:
You don't like to 'separate' because you'd be single and ashamed but prefer to 'DIE' in your marriage and be buried a hero abi? undecided

Okay 😏
not hero matter just because of children
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by SeeWahala: 11:49am On Jan 13
dollytino4real:
not hero matter just because of children
Better start talking to your relatives or pals and seek help to start a business or get employment to manage and take care of those kids now that you're still drawing breath into your lungs undecided

Then leave the marriage with your life intact.
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Samantha125(f): 12:15pm On Jan 13
So you'd rather raise your children in a miserable home with both parents than a peaceful one with you guys living separately?

Children always sense the negative energy at home and it might not be good for their mental health... You're only doing this for yourself because you're afraid that your honour and dignity will be tainted if you leave, it has nothing to do with the children... Do you think your husband would consider the same children if he were to decide that he's fed up with you?
dollytino4real:
not hero matter just because of children
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 12:28pm On Jan 13
Samantha125:
So you'd rather raise your children in a miserable home with both parents than a peaceful one with you guys living separately?

Children always sense the negative energy at home and it might not be good for their mental health... You're only doing this for yourself because you're afraid that your honour and dignity will be tainted if you leave, it has nothing to do with the children... Do you think your husband would consider the same children if he were to decide that he's fed up with you?
some men really don't care about another person feelings but their own peace of mind
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 12:31pm On Jan 13
SeeWahala:
Better start talking to your relatives or pals and seek help to start a business or get employment to manage and take care of those kids now that you're still drawing breath into your lungs undecided

Then leave the marriage with your life intact.
i am selling fuel ⛽ along the road now. Do u know he will pour the fuel in his bus and tell me wen i com i will pay u, i don't want to teach dat is y i want to do small small business but follow
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 12:34pm On Jan 13
Double0h7:
That’s her husband you’re talking about 😒
my friend own he is a landlord with their children attending good schools o, he tod my friend he can not do anything good 4 her. Dat she should and get it herself, he is a Uniport senior staff but his wife is only ssce holder
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Double0h7(f): 12:39pm On Jan 13
dollytino4real:
my friend own he is a landlord with their children attending good schools o, he tod my friend he can not do anything good 4 her. Dat she should and get it herself, he is a Uniport senior staff but his wife is only ssce holder
Why doesn’t she get it herself? She has a man who took 💯 % of family responsibility. She could either enjoy her free time or invest in herself. I thought you said her situation is worse than yourshuh Her husband is 💯 times better than yours; according to your stories.
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Samantha125(f): 1:29pm On Jan 13
So you'd rather compromise your own peace of mind for someone who doesn't care about your feelings?

Well, good luck.
dollytino4real:
some men really don't care about another person feelings but their own peace of mind
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 1:38pm On Jan 13
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Samantha125:
So you'd rather compromise your own peace of mind for someone who doesn't care about your feelings?

Well, good luck.
thanks . Wat is the way forward
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 1:40pm On Jan 13
Double0h7:
Why doesn’t she get it herself? She has a man who took 💯 % of family responsibility. She could either enjoy her free time or invest in herself. I thought you said her situation is worse than yourshuh Her husband is 💯 times better than yours; according to your stories.
yes she is investing but husband assistance makes woman business grow faster and bigger
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Samantha125(f): 2:04pm On Jan 13
I think you already know, but I can't tell you what to do with your marriage, for the ball is in your court.
dollytino4real:
Ithanks . Wat is the way forward
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Kobojunkie: 2:16pm On Jan 13
dollytino4real:
not everyone likes separation dat is y we try to stay
So, to such people, if is better to be literally married to your enemy than to live alone,vahi? Then congratulations remain in order... to you and your friend.👍👍
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 3:02pm On Jan 13
Kobojunkie:
So, to such people, if is better to be literally married to your enemy than to live alone,vahi? Then congratulations remain in order... to you and your friend.👍👍
thanks
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Lastpharoah33: 11:45am On Feb 15
dollytino4real:
i am selling fuel ⛽ along the road now. Do u know he will pour the fuel in his bus and tell me wen i com i will pay u, i don't want to teach dat is y i want to do small small business but follow
Keep it up,

May God favor you and lighten your burden.

I'm proud of ladies putting in the work.
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Horllar1990(m): 11:56am On Feb 15
I don't even know what to say
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by Jman06(m): 1:30pm On Feb 15
dollytino4real:
do u know where good men is? because dey are not from my tribe o
I'm sure there are many good men in your tribe or other tribes around you. You're the one who chose to marry a man who is giving you hell!

Wise ladies are able to decipher good men who would give them peace in marriage but the unwise and confused ones focus on ephemeral things and then end up with the bad guys only for them to turn around and start complaining after the marriage.
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 3:12pm On Feb 15
Jman06:
I'm sure there are many good men in your tribe or other tribes around you. You're the one who chose to marry a man who is giving you hell!

Wise ladies are able to decipher good men who would give them peace in marriage but the unwise and confused ones focus on ephemeral things and then end up with the bad guys only for them to turn around and start complaining after the marriage.
really, i just re-read wat i typed pls are meant from my tribe urhobo men these days are good
Re: Men!men !men !! Why??? by dollytino4real(op): 3:14pm On Feb 15
Lastpharoah33:
Keep it up,

May God favor you and lighten your burden.

I'm proud of ladies putting in the work.
thanks for dat prayer of lightening the burden
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