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gassbee:
if u cant keep yourself to be a virgin, then u dont deserve to marry virgin. That is how life works

When someone is "paying groom price" then the person can question purity/virginity.....so stop saying bs.

If we can't marry a virgin where is our guarantee that she's not a harlot? We should rely on blind faith?
My friend get out.

Mattswaggz:
When someone is "paying groom price" then the person can question purity/virginity.....so stop saying bs.

u think because u pay brideprice, it now gives u r right to demand for a virgin, if u insist the lady must keep herself to be a virgin why cant u also give urself to be a virgin, u go around fukkin babes and u do not want her to also flex herself, dont u think u r being hypocritical here

gassbee:
u think because u pay brideprice, it now gives u r right to demand for a virgin, if u insist the lady must keep herself to be a virgin why cant u also give urself to be a virgin, u go around fukkin babes and u do not want her to also flex herself, dont u think u r being hypocritical here

No.... provided I am paying then I should scrutinize what I am paying for.

marshmonii:
Some of us prefer baby mamas

someone asked me to find him a baby mama with good character for marriage. Till date , I still wonder why?

KobolanderSegun:
The way men are going they will soon be looking to marry women who are richer than themselves so that those women can take of them like the little children they are

Omoh we no come this life com suffer oo ..


We need pampering too ..


So who. Cares

ultraviolet27:
will you allow them stay put till marriage? you blackmail,coerce,and, cajole them for sex during relationship after messing them up you now want virgins those you left behind who will marry them ?it's even better if you are a virgin yourself and you want to marry a virgin but if you aren't the hypocrisy of nigerian men though!!

Lol at coerce, cajole and blackmail ..


Were they done at gun point.. women no dey manipulate man too??

As long as there wasn't a serious threat to your life, those females still made those choices to spread that legs ..


Yes it's their choice is afterall..

Fearyourcreator:
Your head no correct. Virgin should marry virgin, broke should marry broke too.

You can't decide for others.

GravityDefier:
You can't decide for others.

Thief dey your eye. Follow your level

KobolanderSegun:
Me I am Laughing..... In 2026 men are still prioritizing Female Virginity as a yardstick for marriage ? In 2026 !!!

What about Female Intelligence, Female Wisdom, Female Comportment, Female Financial Literacy ? They are not even looking to see whether she can cook. But No she must be a Virgin.

I cannot speak for everyone but no wonder Africa is so backward when you place so much energy on a state God created but you will not look for attributes that come with self development.

I think the Virginity is more than a body or sexual state. It on it's own define purity which connots wisdom, she is wise to understand that her body should be for the man she would be spending the rest of her life with. In it, also is Intelligent, she's not in different bed which makes sexual satisfaction difficult when she eventually has it... Comportment ? How's that a criteria ? Do you think one who has kept her body, soul and mind for one would struggle to bond with

Nefort:
Are you a virgin yourself?

I am the Most Blessed Virgin Azuka