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Oboy, that's the biggest mistake you will ever make especially if she is from a poor family.
She will spend your hard earned money and later this girl from poor family will never take you serious.
One thing I learnt about dating a student from poor family is that they are wasteful with money and want you to give them life that their own parents cant dream of giving them...
Even if you support them to setup a business , they will cripple that business and still expect you to foot their bills every time . ..
Omo these set of girls will draw you back in life and if care is not taken you will start from zero

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Never did.
Never would.
Didn't have to.

The problem isn't dating the student. The problem is that most Nigerian men like to monetise relationships. .. and most Nigerian ladies started to feel entitled to it.


You meet a girl and the first thing is using ₦50k out of your total ₦70k to go and impress her. On top of that, she chop extra ₦25k and you had to hide and call your roommate to lend you ₦10k extra to offset the bill and see transport to come back. You still foolishly gave her the remaining ₦5k and followed apiam way on foot back home.

And the girl wey never really chop better food for almost a month, and who borrowed palazzo trousers is feeling inward happiness she's eaten at least. To girls like this, relationship is like submitting CVs. They need it for financial gain and you need it because you feel tatata is the prize? Prize wey both of una enjoy but na you dey borrow dey spend? 😆

Call it broke, I agree. At least, I'm broke and not stewpeed.

Until una learn to stop monetizing your emotions or interest, you'll continue interchanging dating a Nigerian girl with being stuck with overspending like it's NeoLife Scheme...in both, you lose.


Before Facebook monetisation, there was you. 😆😆😆

Have you tried visiting the zoo? The amusement park for a walk?

Everything na fried rice and chicken for una. You don't even know when to eat. You just want to empty your pocket. After that, you carry am go shopping. You upgrade her phone from Infinix rubber band pro to iPhone 16. You upgrade All Back to Human hair. You upgrade finger nails to claws and you somehow feel if she sees another fool who will upgrade her two legs for four legs say she go stay? 😆😆

You go cry like wolf 😆😆😆😆

I'm not saying you are a foolish person but make sure the most foolish person in the whole world doesn't die.


Una no sabi anything nah.

If you want tatata, stop using relationship format where you spend unnecessarily before you reach the goalpost. Go straight to the point and say it.

It's not a must to have a girl in your life by the way. Focus on your future and they'll come naturally.

If na relationship, stop chyking foolishly and let it happen with fondness, likeness and attraction.

If na marriage, go for it. Eh hen, na only marriage I approve spending. Make your wife beautiful!

Until then, zuzuwe.

chatinent:
Never did.
Never would.
Didn't have to.

The problem isn't dating the student. The problem is that most Nigerian men like to monetise relationships. .. and most Nigerian ladies started to feel entitled to it.


You meet a girl and the first thing is using ₦50k out of your total ₦70k to go and impress her. On top of that, she chop extra ₦25k and you had to hide and call your roommate to lend you ₦10k extra to offset the bill and see transport to come back. You still foolishly gave her the remaining ₦5k and followed apiam way on foot back home.

And the girl wey never really chop better food for almost a month, and who borrowed palazzo trousers is feeling inward happiness she's eaten at least. To girls like this, relationship is like submitting CVs. They need it for financial gain and you need it because you feel tatata is the prize? Prize wey both of una enjoy but na you dey borrow dey spend? 😆

Call it broke, I agree. At least, I'm broke and not stewpeed.

Until una learn to stop monetizing your emotions or interest, you'll continue interchanging dating a Nigerian girl with being stuck with NeoLife Scheme...in both, you lose.


Have you tried visiting the zoo? The amusement park for a walk?

Everything na fried rice and chicken for una. You don't even know when to eat. You just want to empty your pocket. After that, you carry am go shopping. You upgrade her phone from Infinix rubber band pro or iPhone 16. You upgrade All Back to Human hair. You upgrade finger nails to claws and you someone feel if she sees another fool who will upgrade her two legs for four legs say she go stay? 😆😆

I'm not saying you are a foolish person but make sure the most foolish person in the whole world doesn't die.


Una no sabi anything nah.

If you want tatata, stop using relationship format where you spend unnecessarily before you reach the goalpost. Go straight to the point and say it.

It's not a must to have a girl in your life by the way. Focus on your future and they'll come naturally.

If na relationship, stop chyking foolishly and let it happen with fondness, likeness and attraction.

If na marriage, go for it. Eh hen, na only marriage I approve spending. Make your wife beautiful!

Until then, zuzuwe.

Lol...

Come b like u dey talk from experience boss.

ma-na sensi full ur head abuloooo...

King2305:
Lol...

Come b like u dey talk from experience boss.

ma-na sensi full ur head abuloooo...

I'm a very good looking dude. I also get brain. Being broke aren't illegal nwanne.

My story long abeg!!!
When it gets to FP, I will share my story

As a man with goals and future, don't ever be in a relationship with a student. It is a wasteful effort. I don't pity men that fall victim of such.

I DESTEST SIMPS AND FOOLISH BEINGS.

Abeg share it, let's stop hiding our experience as men, share it so the upcoming one's will learn. Our gender is endangered right now

Lalami3232:
My story long abeg!!!
When it gets to FP, I will share my story

Only a foolish man upgrades a woman's lifestyle. Female Students are for fun and lashing.

Women fall in love with men who put themselves first. They fall in love and get addicted to men who toy and play with their emotions and feelings. This simply means you must learn to make a woman cry, hurt, heartbroken, jealous etc. these sparks her emotions. Women don't fall in love with your sacrifices! The earlier you understand this the better for you.

So my husband was a simp and foolish for dating me while I was still in varsity?😒😒😒

MufasaLion:
As a man with goals and future, don't ever be in a relationship with a student. It is a wasteful effort. I don't pity men that fall victim of such.

I DESTEST SIMPS AND FOOLISH BEINGS.

Samantha125:
So my husband was a simp and foolish for dating me while I was still in varsity?😒😒😒

Apparently, yes. He was lucky enough that you were either faithful, honest and committed or you were lucky enough to haven't been caught if you ever did shit behind him.

Majority of the ladies that are still enrolled in undergraduate courses go into a relationship with someone way out of their league or someone financially capable is mostly because of money to fund their lifestyle.

My parents were financially capable of taking care of me...😒😒😒

MufasaLion:
Apparently, yes. He was lucky enough that you were either faithful, honest and committed or you were lucky enough to haven't been caught if you ever did shit behind him.

Majority of the ladies that are still enrolled in undergraduate courses go into a relationship with someone way out of their league or someone financially capable is mostly because of money to fund their lifestyle.

Samantha125:
My parents were financially capable of taking care of me...😒😒😒

As I said, he was lucky and I believe it was beyond luck. He was intentional. He left broke girls and came for you. He was smart. The best of women are those that will never rely on you for money at any stage in the relationship. A man's responsibility is not to sponsor his woman's education or lifestyle except they're married and she's worth it.

A woman that have supportive parents will always want the best for her man and would never drain his little finances.

Drain his little finances? What if he's loaded?😅😅😅

MufasaLion:
As I said, he was lucky and I believe it was beyond luck. He was intentional. He left broke girls and came for you. He was smart. The best of women are those that will never rely on you for money at any stage in the relationship. A man's responsibility is not to sponsor his woman's education or lifestyle except they're married and she's worth it.

A woman that have supportive parents will always want the best for her man and would never drain his little finances.

Samantha125:
Drain his little finances? What if he's loaded?😅😅😅

No woman is entitled to a man's money as long as they're not married. Even if you're dating Elon Musk, he's not entitled to cater for your needs most especially the basic needs. Anyone that can't cater for his/her basic needs have no business with a relationship.

But you'd still go ahead and cater for us willingly without us asking...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

A typical Nigerian man goes around enticing women with money in order to gain their love and attention.

MufasaLion:
No woman is entitled to a man's money as long as they're not married. Even if you're dating Elon Musk, he's not entitled to cater for your needs most especially the basic needs. Anyone that can't cater for his/her basic needs have no business with a relationship.

Samantha125:
But you'd still go ahead and cater for us willingly without us asking...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

A typical Nigerian man goes around enticing women with money in order to gain their love and attention.

How many Nigerian men have you personally had the opportunity to meet or experience dating for you to come to this conclusion?

Samantha125:
But you'd still go ahead and cater for us willingly without us asking...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

A typical Nigerian man goes around enticing women with money in order to gain their love and attention.

Shebi una don see wetin I talk?
More like saying a typical Nigerian man dey phoolish?

I don't need to meet them to know it, all those ladies who've dated you guys or are dating you guys only have one thing to say about you, that you're big spenders.

I've never heard them commending you guys on any other aspects except for your financial generosity.

rapcy:
How many Nigerian men have you personally had the opportunity to meet or experience dating for you to come to this conclusion?

Samantha125:
I don't need to meet them to know it, all those ladies who've dated you guys or are dating you guys only have one thing to say about you, that you're big spenders.

I've never heard them commending you guys on any other aspects except for your financial generosity.

So because i hear and read that SA men are violent and k*ll their girlfriends, i should automatically assume the average SA man is a murderer? You can't make assumptions based off few peoples opinion, it is wrong

I'm speaking based on what I've seen and heard, okay? I dare you to go and query every single lady beyond the borders of Nigeria that has either dated or currently dating a Nigerian man... They all share the same sentiments about you guys, and your brothers can't also seem to beat the allegations, they'd be all over social media boasting about it, chest beating about how they spend on their women...

And for your information, there isn't a country in Africa whereby the men don't murder their women, it's just that SA transparently publishes its statistics while other countries would prefer hiding or tampering with theirs, some don't even conduct any... Patriarchy still dominates many African countries just like it's still dominating in Asia.

rapcy:
So because i hear and read that SA men are violent and k*ll their girlfriends, i should automatically assume the average SA man is a murderer? You can't make assumptions based off few peoples opinion, it is wrong

Samantha125:
I'm speaking based on what I've seen and heard, okay? I dare you to go and query every single lady beyond the borders of Nigeria that has either dated or currently dating a Nigerian man... They all share the same sentiments about you guys, and your brothers can't also seem to beat the allegations, they'd be all over social media boasting about it, chest beating about how they spend on their women...

And for your information, there isn't a country in Africa whereby the men don't murder their women, it's just that SA transparently publishes its statistics while other countries would prefer hiding or tampering with theirs, some don't even conduct any... Patriarchy still dominates many African countries just like it's still dominating in Asia.

I get your point, but the number of SA men that are violent to their spouse are not upto 50% of the total number of men in SA, it is therefore wrong for me to assume every man in SA is a woman beater, i believe you agree with this? Why then do you think because some few people entice women with money it then equate to the total number of men in Naija being that way?

It's just crowd mentality, like if 20 people on social media say all the naija women they've been with and have encountered are beautiful, most people posting next will want to say thesame thing even if all the women they've seen are ugly. So you see, it's bad to generalize everyone into one concept just because few people tend to assume that concept as correct.

As long as your brothers also generalise when they speak, then who am I to argue? They're the ones you should be rebuking, not me.

In fact, send me an urgent 2k...😃😃😃

rapcy:
I get your point, but the number of SA men that are violent to their spouse are not upto 50% of the total number of men in SA, it is therefore wrong for me to assume every man in SA is a woman beater, i believe you agree with this? Why then do you think because some few people entice women with money it then equate to the total number of men in Naija being that way?

It's just crowd mentality, like if 20 people on social media say all the naija women they've been with and have encountered are beautiful, most people posting next will want to say thesame thing even if all the women they've seen are ugly. So you see, it's bad to generalize everyone into one concept just because few people tend to assume that concept as correct.

Samantha125:
As long as your brothers also generalise when they speak, then who am I to argue? They're the ones you should be rebuking, not me.

So you just agreed that what you were saying was not factual. In that case I'll urge you to stop generalising.

In fact, send me an urgent 2k...😃😃😃

leave me oo, the country is countrying

I'll only stop generalising once those ladies and your brothers do the same, hence I told you that you're rebuking the wrong person here... So far I haven't seen videos or heard you Nigerian men rebuking those ladies together with your brothers.

You guys are the hard workers of Africa, I'm sure you have 2k laying around somewhere in your house, feed your fellow African sister, in fact, I can smell Naira by just responding to your quote...

rapcy:
So you just agreed that what you were saying was not factual. In that case I'll urge you to stop generalising.


leave me oo, the country is countrying

Samantha125:
I'll only stop generalising once those ladies and your brothers do the same, hence I told you that you're rebuking the wrong person here... So far I haven't seen videos or heard you Nigerian men rebuking those ladies together with your brothers.

You guys are the hard workers of Africa, I'm sure you have 2k laying around somewhere in your house, feed your fellow African sister, in fact, I can smell Naira by just responding to your quote...

Samantha leave me ooo.

How's southy today, does it get cold by this time of the year like in Naija?

Trying to change the subject?😒😒😒

Anyways, it's summer, meaning it's blazing hot and rainy.

rapcy:
Samantha leave me ooo.

How's southy today, does it get cold by this time of the year like in Naija?