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My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 3:20pm On Jan 09
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either angry. But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me tongue.

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by JONSYN7154(m): 3:22pm On Jan 09
congratulations grin

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Kriss216: 3:39pm On Jan 09
undecided

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Red7: 3:55pm On Jan 09
Educate us, this time don't write a prose. We need you to answer this kweshion one by one like you're talking to an high school student.

List top five compromises you make to make your relationship with your high flyer lady work

List top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better


Do this by answering the questions in the best possible way and we'll have you both on CNN live with Larry King wink

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by bmdnamixer: 4:05pm On Jan 09
what is this one even writing self i got bored half way, all this Shakespeare wanna be

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by ValCon888: 5:08pm On Jan 09
Any relationship that is harder than further maths will drive you crazy.
Premium tears loading for OP.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 5:56pm On Jan 09
Red7:
Educate us, this time don't write a prose. We need you to answer this kweshion one by one like you're talking to an high school student.

List top five compromises you make to make your relationship with your high flyer lady work

List top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better


Do this by answering the questions in the best possible way and we'll have you both on CNN live with Larry King wink
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Wittyglam(f): 6:03pm On Jan 09
I'm happy you found your balance.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:53pm On Jan 09
ValCon888:
Any relationship that is harder than further maths will drive you crazy.
Premium tears loading for OP.
. I did further mathematics in high school, so I can handle this.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:53pm On Jan 09
Wittyglam:
I'm happy you found your balance.
. Thanks

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Red7: 7:21pm On Jan 09
sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.



Good. Here's your assignment. Copy the question I asked and the answers you provided and send it to her privately. wink You will see the magic it'll work out on your behalf




If only the mods could push this thread to front page so guys seeking to date high value ladies could learn a thing or two tips and add more ideas on how to compromise when dating a high value babe


Mods can you help?


L

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by bragamycin: 9:16pm On Jan 09
sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

If u have accepted the facts that U need more Romantic deeds, and vacation time for your relationship to be better , then you have not really compromised anything. U just stil dey use one eye study the relationship.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:38pm On Jan 09
Red7:




Good. Here's your assignment. Copy the question I asked and the answers you provided and send it to her privately. wink You will see the magic it'll work out on your behalf




If only the mods could push this thread to front page so guys seeking to date high value ladies could learn a thing or two tips and add more ideas on how to compromise when dating a high value babe


Mods can you help?


Lalasticlala

Dominique

Mynd44

Farano

She has seen the thread.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:16pm On Jan 10
Red7:




Good. Here's your assignment. Copy the question I asked and the answers you provided and send it to her privately. wink You will see the magic it'll work out on your behalf




If only the mods could push this thread to front page so guys seeking to date high value ladies could learn a thing or two tips and add more ideas on how to compromise when dating a high value babe


Mods can you help?


Lalasticlala

Dominique

Mynd44

Farano

we came up with the answers together. Thanks so much

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by bigpicture001: 12:36pm On Jan 10
sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacatio
n with me.

You will later complain..trust me u will..u are only carried away by her personalities. Later attension,submissiveness ,togetherness will catch up with u......I currently date a more super woman than all you just said...but everyone adjusted till we found a compromising balance from both of us....

Remember my moniker and hit me up when reality starts to creep in

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 10
sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either angry. But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me tongue.
I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.
When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.


She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more..understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.
As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. she knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.
Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

Sounds like a regular relationship to me

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by tobechi74: 12:50pm On Jan 10
Congratulations

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Red7: 1:06pm On Jan 10
DrFunmisticGlow:
we came up with the answers together. Thanks so much


Hahahahahahahahaha

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:25pm On Jan 10
bigpicture001:


You will later complain..trust me u will..u are only carried away by her personalities. Later attention, submissiveness, togetherness will catch up with u......I currently date a more superwoman than all you just said...but everyone adjusted till we found a compromising balance from both of us...

Remember my moniker and hit me up when reality starts to creep in
. I will not because I know how to holds my ends. Comprise is good anyway.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:27pm On Jan 10
pcguru1:


Sounds like a regular relationship to me
Trust me, it's not.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by bigpicture001: 1:28pm On Jan 10
DrFunmisticGlow:
we came up with the answers together. Thanks so much

Dr. Funmi do u value ur relationship...?

Cuz as it stands only the guy is fascinated by your profession nd doing too great to make it work..

Put in more effort. Or let him off u if ur not ready to put in energy to Mk it work

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jan 10
sirjamesjnr:
Trust me, it's not.

I don't think any man plans to settle with a slay queen, a high value woman should be the norms nau

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by jawalis(m): 1:45pm On Jan 10
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by Greystone(m): 1:48pm On Jan 10
"High-value woman"...

Yet your preek is suffering

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by powerhouse3(m): 2:05pm On Jan 10
sirjamesjnr....sound like a name my people (akwa ibom) could love to bear....


Any I doubt if AKWA ibom got SIMPle man,like op


Funministic queen is whom you hype like these to high heaven..... she's yet to use her uncouth mouth on you...

not wishing you bad here ,but when it's hit the brick ,be smart enough to lets us know where both of you got wrong..

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by powerhouse3(m): 2:18pm On Jan 10
jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.
wondering the song he will sang if he met dangote daughter or Alakija.dora akunyili.or mfon usoro ,the maritime woman in their prime....


she see you as a colleague in front of her colleague should tell you alot...but no you are blinded by lovey dovey....

alas ,so much for her high-class that you are the one still spending "Good money"to lodge in different hotel ,next time allows your high class woman do the spending to justify the hype


High-class.. what's if you now date those homely woman that work in government parastatal,...like immigration, custom...and prison service...

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by jawalis(m): 2:55pm On Jan 10
powerhouse3:
wondering the song he will sang if he met dangote daughter or Alakija.dora akunyili.or mfon usoro ,the maritime woman in their prime....


she see you as a colleague in front of her colleague should tell you alot...but no you are blinded by lovey dovey....

alas ,so much for her high-class that you are the money still spending ,Good money to lodge in different hotel ,next time allows your high class woman do the spending to justify the hype


High-class.. what's if you now date those homely woman that work in government parastatal,...like immigration, custom...and prison service...

Bless up bro. I feel you. Leave him and allow him perish in self acclaimed feeling. He’ll wake up

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:00pm On Jan 10
bigpicture001:


Dr. Funmi do u value ur relationship...?

Cuz as it stands only the guy is fascinated by your profession nd doing too great to make it work..

Put in more effort. Or let him off u if ur not ready to put in energy to Mk it work
you think I don't put in the work, we have both put in the work in this relationship. I really do value the relationship. But thanks for your input.

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Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:02pm On Jan 10
Wow!!!

You are allowed to have your opinion. But then your opinion is dusty. Good day.
powerhouse3:
wondering the song he will sang if he met dangote daughter or Alakija.dora akunyili.or mfon usoro ,the maritime woman in their prime....


she see you as a colleague in front of her colleague should tell you alot...but no you are blinded by lovey dovey....

alas ,so much for her high-class that you are the one still spending "Good money"to lodge in different hotel ,next time allows your high class woman do the spending to justify the hype


High-class.. what's if you now date those homely woman that work in government parastatal,...like immigration, custom...and prison service...

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