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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by thomas2024: 5:04pm On Jan 17

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Oga learn to control yourself

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by sirchim(m): 5:04pm On Jan 17

richiemcgold:
Over 20 prostitutes! 🤥🤥

And today is 17th

Jesu!

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by uyibaba: 5:04pm On Jan 17

Brodaly Talk to God privately pour your heart to him that you are overwhelmed he will rescue you don't lost hope you will be fine

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Kendo93: 5:05pm On Jan 17

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by pigmania: 5:05pm On Jan 17

richiemcgold:
Over 20 prostitutes! 🤥🤥

And today is 17th

Jesu!

Now imagine the body count of the women.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Icekid94(m): 5:07pm On Jan 17

1. Delete all their contacts.
2. Find a genuine love: You're going back to them because you're probably lonely and in need of love. Sex cannot make up for the absence of love.
3. Stop watching porn by all means and avoid anything that makes you desire sex. You may also need to unfollow some accounts on Social media.
3. Tackle the root problem. If you are doing it as a way to deal with a bigger issue e.g getting out of frustration or depression, try to tackle the underlying issue.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by SeriouslySense(m): 5:07pm On Jan 17

Is it only sex that gives you Joy, try distracting yourself with other things that give you Joy, the longer you stay away from prostitutes, the more resistance you will develop, then you will begin to dislike that lifestyle and reflect more wisely.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:07pm On Jan 17

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

Lmao. You think marriage is the cure for this kind of addiction

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by JimD(m): 5:07pm On Jan 17

Get out there more and try speaking normally to 1 girl a day in real life without any sexual motives. Look into personal grooming tools and personal grooming YouTube for black men. And just have that confidence that you're a desirable man. Delete all olosho numbers from your phone and do it right. Gradually, you'll reset. Then go on a 60 day semen retention break. You'll be brand new.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by thomas2024: 5:08pm On Jan 17

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

If he has a wife, he will still knack a “war”😂

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by femi4: 5:09pm On Jan 17

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Don't stop, cure for infection is cheap now

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by T0BY(m): 5:10pm On Jan 17

Nah everytime this your post dey appear on fp despite previous advice from people here? I no dey take you serious again.. more like catching cruise

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Hhh4444: 5:11pm On Jan 17

This should not be an issue. OS are best women to deal with.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by judewrites: 5:11pm On Jan 17

My brother you need serious spiritual counseling and help.

Sex outside marriage is very expensive and cost is your destiny! Forget how pleasurable it may feel, the cost price is your destiny.

Sadly sleeping carelessly with prostitutes marks you for disaster! Most of them are networked in either marine or witchcraft covens.

Most sacrifices aren't complete in the dark places without sex, because it involves cost, and the cost is DESTINY!

FLEE!!!

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by appliedscience(m): 5:11pm On Jan 17

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

Lol... The next post u will be reading will be from the wife.... '' I need help.. My hubby won kill me with sex"......
Then you will advise the wife to tell her hubby..... Sex is not food....
All am sayin is getting married will not solve it.... Ladies only pretend to like sex when u dey court dem.... Once u marry dem.... U go dey hear... Pls not tonight.... Pls.. I have headache.... Pls we need to talk abt this sex issue.... Is not food na... Smiles..

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Hoodrat(m): 5:12pm On Jan 17

Ecclesiasticus 9:3-9 Meet not with an harlot, lest thou fall into her snares.

4 Use not much the company of a woman that is a singer, lest thou be taken with her attempts.

5 Gaze not on a maid, that thou fall not by those things that are precious in her.

6 Give not thy soul unto harlots, that thou lose not thine inheritance.

7 Look not round about thee in the streets of the city, neither wander thou in the solitary place thereof.

8 Turn away thine eye from a beautiful woman, and look not upon another's beauty; for many have been deceived by the beauty of a woman; for herewith love is kindled as a fire.

9 Sit not at all with another man's wife, nor sit down with her in thine arms, and spend not thy money with her at the wine; lest thine heart incline unto her, and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by BreakingNews21: 5:12pm On Jan 17

Very rich content creator for NL. Not boring, good grammar, and nice pics of the menu as same as Op's thread on this topic a few months ago.😆

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Hoodrat(m): 5:13pm On Jan 17

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Ecclesiasticus 19:5 Whoso taketh pleasure in wickedness shall be condemned: but he that resisteth pleasures crowneth his life.

Ecclesiasticus 19:2 Wine and women will make men of understanding to fall away: and he that cleaveth to harlots will become impudent.

1 Corinthians 6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. 17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.8 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by b0rn2fuck(m): 5:15pm On Jan 17

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

I was like you before, right now, I haven't slept with a prostitute for 7 years, they are even disgusting, just get a partner and likely go into institutions of any where you will respect yourself, your appearance then you will realize they arent even worth it

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by shiggy: 5:16pm On Jan 17

Try changing your location if that doesn't work
Depo povera can nuke all your urges
Or find SSRIs that can blunt urges, good luck

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by always247: 5:16pm On Jan 17

mmadu4:
Bro I hope God delivers you .the spirit that comes with it eh it's just like a gambler

wetin do gamblers ?

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 17

God forbid, but if anything carry u enter prison the addiction go end effortlessly

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by samstandard: 5:18pm On Jan 17

I read this as well as the comment of other persons. They have all advised to the best of their ability. But there's something I noticed. You said you started this escapade when you were a teenager. That's the challenge there. It's a pattern, a stronghold or you can call it an habit.

And since it's an emotional habit, you need another emotional habit to counter or take it's place. Whenever you try to stop, you create a gap in that emotion, and it needs filling. Without finding another habit to fill it's place, there's a tendency that you may likely go back.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Tenses: 5:19pm On Jan 17

See the kia picture you come use. E belike say u won deliberate drag other innocent pipo to wetin you dey suffer.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Omoawoke(m): 5:20pm On Jan 17

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

We never reach 20 days for January, you don nak more than 20 ?

Lmao

If this story is true, how do you find peace?

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Hoodrat(m): 5:21pm On Jan 17

Tenses:
See the kia picture you come use. E belike say u won deliberate drag other innocent pipo to wetin you dey suffer.

Ecclesiasticus 26:29 A merchant shall hardly keep himself from doing wrong;

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Alliswell248: 5:21pm On Jan 17

Jesus remains the solution.
When you are truly tired.... you won't hesitate to give your life to Jesus.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Starz825(m): 5:22pm On Jan 17

appliedscience:
Lol... The next post u will be reading will be from the wife.... '' I need help.. My hubby won kill me with sex"......
Then you will advise the wife to tell her hubby..... Sex is not food....
All am sayin is getting married will not solve it.... Ladies only pretend to like sex when u dey court dem.... Once u marry dem.... U go dey hear... Pls not tonight.... Pls.. I have headache.... Pls we need to talk abt this sex issue.... Is not food na... Smiles..

...women will never understand the sexual biology of men.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by astonished: 5:24pm On Jan 17

Let me help you out.

If anyone tells you it's ordinary, pls ignore the person,

What you are going through is call spiritual konji, it's disease you will catch when you are patronizing brothel.

I was in your shoe before, your soul will not rest, until you patronize them & cum, and the circle continues, you won't be able to focus on anything tangible in life.

This is because most of those girls you sleep with are not ordinary, some of them has done juju in their p*say & any man that climb them must come back to patronize.

Others are jezebel spirits on their own that use man climbing them for their power.

Some spirit will be following you & control your mind, it's not small things.

But gen-z who read this won't understand

Solution:
You need very strong spiritual cleansing from pastor or spiritualist who have clean spiritual powers, not all these babalawo or alfa, pastor that do juju secretly.

After you have the cleansing successful, you will notice the urge will disappear & the thought will disappear, but you will still need to help yourself to stay away from them, by avoid watching porn & any other material that will arouse you.

Because surely, those spirits it's casting away from your body will be visiting you sometimes & you will need to fortify yourself to conquer them.

Try to get a girlfriend, get something that will get you too busy & lastly, give your life to Christ by fasting, going to church & go vigil.

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by 12345baba(m): 5:26pm On Jan 17

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

e no go stop am . After having kids he should use hot knife and seal his prick. 20 olosho this year already

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Kennitrust(m): 5:27pm On Jan 17

In Trump voice

Continue, help is coming!

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