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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by achimendy(m): 8:55pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
You need serious deliverance. Run to God to deliver you from that bad spirit. It's not ordinary bro, is not.

And don't think of Marriage because it will make it worse. You may even contact a deadly disease and give it to your wife.

Deliverance, Deliverance, Deliverance is all you need.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Nicoddemus(m): 8:59pm On Jan 17
Mi
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
One thing must kill a man my brother
RIP in advance angry
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by stainzville: 9:05pm On Jan 17
He really needs Jesus
tete7000:
You need Jesus, only him can turn your life around in a miraculous way.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Omookunnimi(m): 9:09pm On Jan 17
If you are in Lagos, go to prayer city, Lagos Ibadan express way for deliverance. Stay there for a month. God will deliver you.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by dododawa1: 9:11pm On Jan 17
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TWO things involved


Either


World is chasing you

or

You are chasing World
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Offpoint1: 9:12pm On Jan 17
verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.
😂 A man who slept with different women daily won't last a week in marriage before cheating on the wife.

He needs healing before marriage
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by verminnel(f): 9:16pm On Jan 17
Offpoint1:
😂 A man who slept with different women daily won't last a week in marriage before cheating on the wife.

He needs healing before marriage
how about marrying one of his clients?
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Offpoint1: 9:18pm On Jan 17
verminnel:
how about marrying one of his clients?
You don't cure alcohol with more alcohol.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by ttmacoy: 9:22pm On Jan 17
That will not help without solving the underlying issues. Getting married will work for a short while I til thee honeymoon period is over then he will start cheating with prostitutes.


verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Abee79(m): 9:38pm On Jan 17
Toluabigr8:
Change your location, where you can't have access to them
They are EVERYWHERE YOU GO, just like one network like that grin
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by tobore4u(m): 9:39pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
I find that as a huge challenge, never had one. This is just my life patronising prostitutes and call girls since I was younger..stress free, pay and go in
I don't even know what step to take if I decide to get one, I get tired easily with people.
Do you play sports betting?
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by DrAkpa(m): 9:44pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
How old are you? Tell me your age, then I can advise you better
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by DrAkpa(m): 9:46pm On Jan 17
eliwa47:
You need a powerful deliverance from a man God, you need prayers, it's not ordinary!
No, he doesn't need any deliverance. He is in a sexually active age, that's if he is below 30, and his hormones are raging. When he gets to 40, na body go tell am.
Stop this backwards mentality,pls
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by DrAkpa(m): 9:48pm On Jan 17
b0rn2fuck:
Ki I was like you before, right now, I haven't slept with a prostitute for 7 years, they are even disgusting, just get a partner and likely go into institutions of any where you will respect yourself, your appearance then you will realize they arent even worth it
But you sleep with other people's wives. That's the demon you are currently struggling with.
The OP is far better than you.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by b0rn2fuck(m): 9:55pm On Jan 17
DrAkpa:
But you sleep with other people's wives. That's the demon you are currently struggling with.
The OP is far better than you.
I stopped prostitute but other people wives come for me, the first married woman I ever slept with claimed she was single mother, I never knew her husband was far away in another state, she lied and she even tricked me into bed , she invited me and claimed she was sick, on getting there , na me trouser she aimed until we knack, I found out from external source that she was a married woman but her husband traveled and been away for 6 months , na their I carry the curse of married woman , I fought her after I found out but later we begin knack like normal things
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by WantsandMore: 9:56pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
Lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes and pride of life, all of this will pass away even as the word of God persist
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by georgeigbafen(m): 10:00pm On Jan 17
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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Insectkiller: 10:28pm On Jan 17
You can get out of this except God delivers you...

Many spirit you have bleep are calling you for more...

You are in soup..how is ur d**k? Hope it's still waking up?? U are in for this...all d marine spirit u have had fun with..will never let u move an inch...u are in for it..
Unless God delivers you

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by DrAkpa(m): 10:40pm On Jan 17
b0rn2fuck:
I stopped prostitute but other people wives come for me, the first married woman I ever slept with claimed she was single mother, I never knew her husband was far away in another state, she lied and she even tricked me into bed , she invited me and claimed she was sick, on getting there , na me trouser she aimed until we knack, I found out from external source that she was a married woman but her husband traveled and been away for 6 months , na their I carry the curse of married woman , I fought her after I found out but later we begin knack like normal things
You need delivery more than OP
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:09pm On Jan 17
Nothing is wrong with U, bro....

U're living a normal life...

U think u're tired of clamping on dem h$es because some people have been pressuring u to go get a partner...

But believe me, you go understand the freedom u dey enjoy now if u went the other way by succumbing to pressure...

U are not under any curse or spell, u are living a normal life...
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Atheistan: 11:16pm On Jan 17
There is nothing wrong in carrying olosho.
You just have to be moderate about it.

Dont try to stop entirely just first try to draw up a timetable for it and with time make the schedules lesser.

People calling you names some of those oloshos are their serious girlfriends.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by onome25(m): 11:27pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
IF U are truly to stop then I will tell U what to do just like some people here like U whom had found help in my contact.....it's 💯 perfect.....cheers .
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by KingsleyCEO: 12:06am On Jan 18
Just leave porn.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Twist4u:
FIRST, STOP WATCHING PORN.
I REPEAT, STOP WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY.

Secondly, Stop and channel that energy into something else, a wife, work, a profession or whatever.

And thirdly, start fitness exercise, it sustain discipline and strengthened your resolve to say "YES" or "NO" to mood swing or appetite. It helps you stay in control of situations.(very IMPORTANT).
A short story , There's a Prison in USA, when new convicted inmates arrives, they are immediately subjected to a 3 months intense fitness exercise by body builders security guards. So, someone asked the chief security guard why that measure?, "he said the new inmate came in with all sorts of addiction habits : drugs, sex etc, the fitness exercise gets all the toxins out of their body system and help them survive their time in jail, else they might not survive longer. A reason why some off the inmates are seen vomiting, in vomiting the toxins, their body develop strength and resistance over time the cravings die out."

Remember, whatever control you, can kill you.

Fact is, only you can tell yourself enough is enough when you're truly ready.

Because, Human beings cannot be motivated to act, due to your reasoning abilities.
only animals can be motivated to take action because, they are instinctive and don't reason.

Take action
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by BBQZ: 2:00am On Jan 18
Control your access to resources....funds and cars are ur enablers. Your environment also
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Trojan8(m): 4:11am On Jan 18
richiemcgold:
Over 20 prostitutes? 🤥🤥

And today is 17th

Jesu!
I even thought he meant entirety of last year. How are you having 20 body counts in 17 dayshuh

Are you a IndecentStar?
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by OOLUSEG(m): 4:28am On Jan 18
KiNg0G:
I find that as a huge challenge, never had one. This is just my life patronising prostitutes and call girls since I was younger..stress free, pay and go in
I don't even know what step to take if I decide to get one, I get tired easily with people.
Marry one of the prostitutes that you like👍... Prostitutes too need happy home....since both of you match each other for sextual drive, your marriage will last...
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Nasman387(m): 4:29am On Jan 18
Na married people patronize ashawo pass. So marriage won't solve his problem because he is used to different women.
verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Kozino(m): 6:18am On Jan 18
There's this latin phrase that says "habitus formatus, secunda natura est" meaning 'Habit formed is the second nature". I totally agree with your submission. For him to be able to conquer this said habit, he should be able to make a substitute. He should focus his energy on something else that will take those time he spends being with the harlots. Maybe finding a new hobby, learning a new skill, seeking counsel or whatever that will bring positivity to his life.

My own little submission though.

samstandard:
I read this as well as the comment of other persons. They have all advised to the best of their ability. But there's something I noticed. You said you started this escapade when you were a teenager. That's the challenge there. It's a pattern, a stronghold or you can call it an habit.

And since it's an emotional habit, you need another emotional habit to counter or take it's place. Whenever you try to stop, you create a gap in that emotion, and it needs filling. Without finding another habit to fill it's place, there's a tendency that you may likely go back.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Hassanmaye(m): 6:39am On Jan 18
appliedscience:
Lol... The next post u will be reading will be from the wife.... '' I need help.. My hubby won kill me with sex"......
Then you will advise the wife to tell her hubby..... Sex is not food....
All am sayin is getting married will not solve it.... Ladies only pretend to like sex when u dey court dem.... Once u marry dem.... U go dey hear... Pls not tonight.... Pls.. I have headache.... Pls we need to talk abt this sex issue.... Is not food na... Smiles..
Na why married men spend so much money on side chicks, buy them iphones, wife dey complain 24/7, when there are side chicks around? The amount of money married men spend on side chicks in Nigeria run in billions
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by dododawa1: 7:47am On Jan 18
YOU


Needed



JESUS,MUHAMMAD(saw),Ogun,sango,obatala



in your LIFE.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Oluwadare316(m): 8:27am On Jan 18
KiNg0G:
I find that as a huge challenge, never had one. This is just my life patronising prostitutes and call girls since I was younger..stress free, pay and go in
I don't even know what step to take if I decide to get one, I get tired easily with people.
You need to improve ur self spiritually 💪💪every one has one addiction or another. You also need to change lifestyle if it will help. you go get plenty advices which might not still help but always remember you have a great personality despite ur challenges, so u have to make some difficult before you have regret.
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