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26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by DyshApp(op): 10:28pm On Jan 21
A 26-year-old newly married woman has stirred mixed reactions online after revealing that her husband allegedly lied about his age before their marriage.

The lady identified as @Idarabasimi took to her X page to narrate this.

According to the woman, she got married in December after dating a man who had consistently told her he was 34 years old.

However, her world reportedly came crashing down when she recently stumbled on his official documents while going through his files.

She disclosed that she found his international passport, which showed his year of birth as 1972, indicating that he is actually 51 years old.

The shocking discovery left her emotionally distressed, as she said she had been crying since realizing the truth.

When confronted, the man reportedly dismissed her concerns, insisting that age is just a number and claiming he was unaware that he was already 51 years old. This response further deepened her pain and confusion.

The woman expressed regret over her decision, noting that she had previously turned down a 37-year-old suitor, only to end up marrying a much older man who allegedly deceived her.

She lamented that in ten years’ time, her husband would be in his sixties while she would still be in her thirties.

She said …

“I am a young girl of 26 years who got married in December.

My husband told me he was 34 years old when we were dating. Today, I was going through his file and documents and saw his passport where his birth year was stated as 1972.

This means he is 51 years old.

I have been crying since I stumbled on this. When I confronted, he said age is just a number and that he didn’t know he was up to 51 years old. Can you imagine?

In 10 years, he will be 61 years old while I will be 36 years. He has apologised but will I ever forgive myself for making this type of mistake?

I rejected a 37 year-old man, 51 year-old man deceived me and married me. Will I ever forget about this? Should I go for a divorce? I never planned for this type of life. Not that he is rich, I only married him to build with him.”

Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Sonnobax15(m):
lipsrsealed
Madam ,age is just a number na undecided

When you were busy eating his money and shining your teeth like a roasted antelope then angry, didn't you know money is just a figure too abi? undecided


Keep complaining angry. Before you'll realize, you'll just end up having a co-wife who will even be younger than you angry.

Thief angry
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Kobojunkie:
DyshApp:
...I have been crying since I stumbled on this. When I confronted, he said age is just a number and that he didn’t know he was up to 51 years old. Can you imagine?
In 10 years, he will be 61 years old while I will be 36 years. He has apologised but will I ever forgive myself for making this type of mistake?
I rejected a 37 year-old man, 51 year-old man deceived me and married me. Will I ever forget about this? Should I go for a divorce? I never planned for this type of life. Not that he is rich, I only married him to build with him.”
. The courts can annul a union built on fraud. If he lied about his age, care to wonder what else he could have lied about, like say another family, two or more? He might have spent much of his younger years in prison, and now looking for a woman to take care of him in his old age. I would recommend an immediate divorce before you fall any deeper down that rabbit hole. You already seem to be blaming yourself for his lies... What next? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by mmadu4: 10:52pm On Jan 21
Cock and bull story .another lies for content
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by DSS1335: 10:53pm On Jan 21
See cheap talk bcs the man doesn't have money, if he has money, she won't even mind if he were 80 years or not
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Omoawoke(m): 10:53pm On Jan 21
25 years age difference… leave am if you no want am, make another girl carry am sharp sharp
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by kpankpangolo: 11:01pm On Jan 21
Fake story left and right. No wonder Nairaland empty these days. Trolls ran off to make money off Facebook and Xwitter.

DyshApp:
A 26-year-old newly married woman has stirred mixed reactions online after revealing that her husband allegedly lied about his age before their marriage.

The lady identified as @Idarabasimi took to her X page to narrate this.

According to the woman, she got married in December after dating a man who had consistently told her he was 34 years old.

However, her world reportedly came crashing down when she recently stumbled on his official documents while going through his files.

She disclosed that she found his international passport, which showed his year of birth as 1972, indicating that he is actually 51 years old.

The shocking discovery left her emotionally distressed, as she said she had been crying since realizing the truth.

When confronted, the man reportedly dismissed her concerns, insisting that age is just a number and claiming he was unaware that he was already 51 years old. This response further deepened her pain and confusion.

The woman expressed regret over her decision, noting that she had previously turned down a 37-year-old suitor, only to end up marrying a much older man who allegedly deceived her.

She lamented that in ten years’ time, her husband would be in his sixties while she would still be in her thirties.

She said …

“I am a young girl of 26 years who got married in December.

My husband told me he was 34 years old when we were dating. Today, I was going through his file and documents and saw his passport where his birth year was stated as 1972.

This means he is 51 years old.

I have been crying since I stumbled on this. When I confronted, he said age is just a number and that he didn’t know he was up to 51 years old. Can you imagine?

In 10 years, he will be 61 years old while I will be 36 years. He has apologised but will I ever forgive myself for making this type of mistake?

I rejected a 37 year-old man, 51 year-old man deceived me and married me. Will I ever forget about this? Should I go for a divorce? I never planned for this type of life. Not that he is rich, I only married him to build with him.”
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by muyico(m): 11:07pm On Jan 21
Congratulations to you 🎉👏
What God have joined together
Let no man put asunder
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Jman06(m): 11:28pm On Jan 21
The hunter has become the hunted in this case.

If you know what I mean..... you're wise!
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by LordIsaac(m): 11:32pm On Jan 21
We shall return to the case of false declaration. The first thing we must do is check the man's account balance...so we can deduce the true cause of her pain.

Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by favour32(m): 12:59am On Jan 22
Highest lie lie.


No way 51 years old man go be like 30s.


E fit be 40s not 30s.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by SixSeven: 1:38am On Jan 22
It's called football age. How old is your president againhuh

Unfortunately these things catch up with them over time but I have to laugh at the man's jokes:

insisting that age is just a number and claiming he was unaware that he was already 51 years old This response further deepened her pain and confusion. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Diamond098454(f): 1:54am On Jan 22
Haba...... Everything is not money
At least he should have told her
DSS1335:
See cheap talk bcs the man doesn't have money, if he has money, she won't even mind if he were 80 years or not
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Originalsly: 2:32am On Jan 22
She shouldn't worry .... right now she's about half his age but in 25 years time she'll already be three quarter his age . With this rapid closing of the gap I guess if they live long enough she'll soon catch up.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Gotocourt: 3:52am On Jan 22
Kobojunkie:
. The courts can annul a union built on fraud. If he lied about his age, care to wonder what else he could have lied about, like say another family, two or more? He might have spent much of his younger years in prison, and now looking for a woman to take care of him in his old age. I would recommend an immediate divorce before you fall any deeper down that rabbit hole. You already seem to be blaming yourself for his lies... What next? 🥱🥱🥱
Why court, after meeting at the junction. Make everybody follow their direction 🤷🏿.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by kiddaz: 3:58am On Jan 22
Diamond098454:
Haba...... Everything is not money
At least he should have told her
So if you were in her shoes and the guy told you he is like 20+ years older would you still marry him? undecided
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Kobojunkie: 4:04am On Jan 22
Gotocourt:
Why court, after meeting at the junction. Make everybody follow their direction 🤷🏿.
Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

When someone defrauds your brother or sister, or even your own daughter, tell them to follow your direction there. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by everythingtall3: 4:05am On Jan 22
Ibrahim chatta, the man in those picture is 52... if you like continue eating eba at night
favour32:
Highest lie lie.


No way 51 years old man go be like 30s.


E fit be 40s not 30s.

Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by APOPTOSIS: 4:16am On Jan 22
Women think they are the only ones that can lie😂
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by favour32(m): 6:04am On Jan 22
everythingtall3:
Ibrahim chatta, the man in those picture is 52... if you like continue eating eba at night
Can you say confidently that he is in his 30s?
If you like start eating your indomie!
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by emperor4love(m): 6:45am On Jan 22
1972 corresponds to 54 not 52
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by thomas2024: 8:05am On Jan 22
Kobojunkie:
. The courts can annul a union built on fraud. If he lied about his age, care to wonder what else he could have lied about, like say another family, two or more? He might have spent much of his younger years in prison, and now looking for a woman to take care of him in his old age. I would recommend an immediate divorce before you fall any deeper down that rabbit hole. You already seem to be blaming yourself for his lies... What next? 🥱🥱🥱
Almost all your comments here are born from hatred for the opposite sex. I bet you’re married, but nope, all your comments give vibes of a single mother.

Yab me back as usual😅
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Diamond098454(f): 8:08am On Jan 22
If that is the age bracket i want in marriage
Why not? What ms A want may not be what Ms B want in marriage


kiddaz:
So if you were in her shoes and the guy told you he is like 20+ years older would you still marry him? undecided
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Kobicove(m):
I smell lies!

It is not possible for a 51 year old man to pass off as a 34 year old undecided
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Houseofglam7(f): 8:31am On Jan 22
On today’s episode of things that never happened.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Elliotwaveforec: 8:38am On Jan 22
Don't worry, you'll catch up with him even look older than him; women age faster than men!
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Elliotwaveforec: 8:39am On Jan 22
Kobicove:
I smell lies!

It is not possible for a 51 year old mass to pass off as a 34 year old undecided
Says who! You better watch what you eat, and work out regularly.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by BigYash: 8:41am On Jan 22
This is one trend currently on now. All girls are now 23years of age. You will see a 40 years old ,after two, telling you she is 23 grin
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by ObiaboAdoka(m): 9:21am On Jan 22
She is crying bcus d husband is not that rich. Regina Daniel married her grandfather ND they are leaving happily bcus he is a Rich man.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Sucolee(m): 9:26am On Jan 22
You are 30, she's 25, She's older than you.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Flangelo12: 9:29am On Jan 22
Her maths is terrible.
Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by kiddaz: 9:32am On Jan 22
Diamond098454:
If that is the age bracket i want in marriage
Why not? What ms A want may not be what Ms B want in marriage
This isn't about Ms A or Ms Zz... I'm asking you directly as Ms Diamond and i expected a direct answer too
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