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I said it..
How can you work for 12 years as a single guy without any achievement before getting married .
No house to your name, no land , no business.
You are a civil servant with NCE and throughout your 12 years working before getting married.
You didnt bother to upgrade your certificate.
You still went ahead and marry a Lady you are 16 years older without education or handwork.
Worst of it. You don't go to church.
Part of your salary was used in playing pool till you retired.

Blaming him all day doesn't change anything. See it as a motivation, learn from his mistakes, work hard and smart so you don't end up just like him.

Jakarta:
Blaming him all day doesn't change anything. See it as a motivation, learn from his mistakes, work hard and smart so you don't end up just like him.

Stop police people's right to vent.😩😩

Let him vent...🥱🥱

One day you'll be a dad. And your kids will ask you why you wasted your youth life complaining about the life your dad did not give you.

Some people lost their dads even before they could say A, but they built something for themselves, through blood, sweat and sand.

What's your own excuse after the "my daddy" excuse?

Kobojunkie:
Stop police people's right to vent.😩😩

Let him vent...🥱🥱

And stop policing people's right to make comments on nairaland forum.

Jakarta:
And stop policing people's right to make comments on nairaland forum.

Never said you can't comment...simply indicating your comments don't give you right to police the need others have to vent. 🥱🥱🥱

And after ALLLL that your dad still did better than you 🤣

Kobojunkie:
Never said you can't comment...simply indicating your comments don't give you right to police the need others have to vent. 🥱🥱🥱

Ogbeni shift far

Sirchiboy typing another story for entertainment. Livingiconrebor, come and take your brother. 🥱

Mrkc:
I said it..
How can you work for 12 years as a single guy without any achievement before getting married .
No house to your name, no land , no business.
You are a civil servant with NCE and throughout your 12 years working before getting married.
You didnt bother to upgrade your certificate.
You still went ahead and marry a Lady you are 16 years older without education or handwork.
Worst of it. You don't go to church.
Part of your salary was used in playing pool till you retired.

eepeepook:
Sirchiboy typing another story for entertainment. Livingiconrebor, come and take your brother. 🥱

Mr man i hate insult.
How does this connect to my disposition.
Is it that you are so daft that you can't respect your senior?

Sirchiboy:
Mr man i hate insult.
How does this connect to my disposition.
Is it that you are so daft that you can't respect your senior?

Close ya mouth jor you think we never Sabi your full family history for nairaland by now?

SeeWahala:
Close ya mouth jor you think we never Sabi your full family history for nairaland by now?

You are talking to a man old enough to be your dad

Sirchiboy:
You are talking to a man old enough to be your dad

Yes na Na why the zuzu wey you dey zuzu dey pepper 🌶️ me for body too much

You too will be a dad someday. We shall see your honest accomplishments after 12 years.

Mrkc:
I said it..
How can you work for 12 years as a single guy without any achievement before getting married .
No house to your name, no land , no business.
You are a civil servant with NCE and throughout your 12 years working before getting married.
You didnt bother to upgrade your certificate.
You still went ahead and marry a Lady you are 16 years older without education or handwork.
Worst of it. You don't go to church.
Part of your salary was used in playing pool till you retired.

Your father lived is life, my only blame is nor directing you all well.... Even those their father gave everything still find it hard if daddy pulls out is support

E reach to ask questions.

Some men are dead weight...they render no value to their families but shame and disgrace.

Eyah
Meanwhile.. I'm a only son/child with lots of properties😂👌

Mrkc:
I said it..
How can you work for 12 years as a single guy without any achievement before getting married .
No house to your name, no land , no business.
You are a civil servant with NCE and throughout your 12 years working before getting married.
You didnt bother to upgrade your certificate.
You still went ahead and marry a Lady you are 16 years older without education or handwork.
Worst of it. You don't go to church.
Part of your salary was used in playing pool till you retired.

PORTABLE still better pass you..

Don't go n make your own money, continue getting upset bc he left you no inheritance.

Mrkc:
I said it..
How can you work for 12 years as a single guy without any achievement before getting married .
No house to your name, no land , no business.
You are a civil servant with NCE and throughout your 12 years working before getting married.
You didnt bother to upgrade your certificate.
You still went ahead and marry a Lady you are 16 years older without education or handwork.
Worst of it. You don't go to church.
Part of your salary was used in playing pool till you retired.

So, how many children did your parents have? Maximum of two is okay, anything more is absolutely nonsense.

Hopefully, you don't repeat his life. The Internet is available for you to learn, unlearn and relearn. Your dad never had this access to a vast amount of information at one's fingertips and largely free.

EmperorIsaac:
You too will be a dad someday. We shall see your honest accomplishments after 12 years.

Actually, he doesn't have to be a dad. That's one way in addressing the issue.

You too will become a father someday,I hope you will do netter

Gerrard59:
So, how many children did your parents have? Maximum of two is okay, anything more is absolutely nonsense.

Hopefully, you don't repeat his life. The Internet is available for you to learn, unlearn and relearn. Your dad never had this access to a vast amount of information at one's fingertips and largely free.

5 kids

Mrkc:
5 kids

Ah! No wonder!

Too many children?!

Gerrard59:
Actually, he doesn't have to be a dad.

That's one way in addressing the issue.

..........................while accelerating the extinction of the human race through his selfishness

Op, how old are you? If you keep up with this blame game of yours instead of working hard and smart to change your family's financial situation, I assure you that you'll wake up one day to realise that you're old with nothing to your name and even worse than your dad. Dust yourself up and start working!

Aside the basics, your dad owes you nothing! It is even wrong in my opinion for parents to be so fixated on making wealth for their children because most of the times the children turn out to become only CONSUMERS with nothing to their own names! Imagine living one's life only as a CONSUMER without making impact and creating a good name for oneself!

I'll make wealth for my children but I must ensure that they've got their own lives and their own wealthy before inheriting mine. That's why I like the Adeleke family! Despite his father's wealth, Davido has made a name for himself and lived a life of impact outside what his father has! That's how it should be!

At 30...
A man life is no longer define by his family but by his own effort. .

So oga sir...
Dust yourself
At 46
You still dey blame your papa?
You suppose dey shame sir..


What about the orphans?
The motherless?

They turn out great most times..