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Drsnives:
Sure..
There's eve for every Adam specially designed by God for that Adam.
Luckliy for me, God directed me to mine..
It's been one success story from one to the other since my marriage.
This month 15 will be our 1year anniversary
Please I need 1000likes to celebrate it

Prayerfully pray for God to lead you to yours, if you go by sight you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
Wives are like parcel wrapped, some are packaged liabilities, some packaged industrious, honest, respectful and loyal parcel. After marriage you unwrapped the gift and recive the content

Just one year in marriage and you are looking for a million likes. You must be a comedian. You can come back and request for likes after 10 years at least.

StillDtruth:
Note! The bible Said "he who finds a wife" not he who finds a olosho

Baba, I beg easy na.

ruffhandu:
Not really, but if you employ His guidance, He will lead you to the one who fits most and would give you less stress.

true talk, my person

StillDtruth:
Have they not been searching and searching since? Even the bible said "a good wife who can find?".

Well, keep searching

A good wife is hard to find .... that's what it says. Isn't that the truth? ...many men have found good wives It is not a guarantee that after doing due diligence that the wife will be a good one in the long run .... but the chances are wayyy higher than the man who picks a woman and hopes for the best

Nobody has seen God yet you find concocted stories of what God wants or doesn't want.

sweetkev:
Just one year in marriage and you are looking for a million likes. You must be a comedian. You can come back and request for likes after 10 years at least.

You'll need just a day to know a marriage that won't stand the test of times my brother.
365days living together. Mind you we never cohabited while we were dating.
God did it my brother

Edusouls:
No likes yet u never start, most marriages encounter kassala and break up within 5 to 10 years of marriage, till then time would tell cos it’s the only natural phenomenon that changes angels to demons

Some marriages last less that 24hours, 365 days no be beans, no quarrel, no major issues, am in charge of my finances n hers cos I hold her own ATM..
My brother, I think am blessed

StillDtruth:
Please wait until the 15years before you start blowing your horn

In fact, if you are wise wait until you are 70 before you start blowing your horn for you do not know how long female Adam was good before she converted and became a eve to him.

I know whom I got married to..
She's the few exceptional goodly ladies we still have in this planet

Drsnives:
Some marriages last less that 24hours, 365 days no be beans, no quarrel, no major issues, am in charge of my finances n hers cos I hold her own ATM..
My brother, I think am blessed

hahahaha calm down my own bro only time would tell, have a nice Sunday

Edusouls:
hahahaha calm down my own bro only time would tell, have a nice Sunday

All the best bro

If you are being incarnated on Earth to do something very important. Your marriage would have probably being sealed before you were born.

If you just came to Earth because your spirit food is almost finished then that may not be necessary.

The best persons to marry

Someone that disagreed with you to point you to a new beginning

Someone that complained against a lack you are experiencing

I didn't give him that chance.

God does not choose or direct a man to his partner ,lover or wife...it's through close dating , courtship at least for a year that one will truly know the true characters and behaviors of the person he is dating and wants to marry ..close dating and courtship for a year .in which he will truly know the true characters and behaviors of the lady and if she is a wife material... and the lady will also know the true characters and behaviors of the man she wants to marry and settle down with if he is a husband material.. through close dating and courtship at least for a year

Yes. People who don't believe this end up making mistake in marriage.

If you say you yield you life to God and he doesn't help you make a choice in whom you marry, how does that corroborate your yielding to him? If you do God's will and follow his path, there is that one person whose path will converge with yours when you are looking for a spouse. If it God's will, it definitely can't be a random choice because God is not a random person.

Drsnives:
Sure..
There's eve for every Adam specially designed by God for that Adam.
Luckliy for me, God directed me to mine..
It's been one success story from one to the other since my marriage.
This month 15 will be our 1year anniversary
Please I need 1000likes to celebrate it

Prayerfully pray for God to lead you to yours, if you go by sight you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
Wives are like parcel wrapped, some are packaged liabilities, some packaged industrious, honest, respectful and loyal parcel. After marriage you unwrapped the gift and recive the content

Hey yall nairalanders…:.come and look at this guy…hahahahahaha!
His marriage his one year old and he's already forming authority on marriage…

Shebi u know the one they remove from adam’s rib na she run adam street….

Relax mr newly wed….. everybody must collect las las… if u doubt me…….:::ask why all these married pple like saying “marriage is not for the faint hearted”

SpencerForbes:
The last time God actually handpicked a wife, Adam ended up blaming Him for the outcome. Since then, I don't think He’s been in the business of directly choosing spouses for people

Even the situation with Hosea and Gomer was more of a divine lesson than a "happily ever after" setup. Nowadays, He might give you signs or a bit of direction, but the final decision is 100% on you. You have to step up, use your head, and choose your own "poison" yourself.

So you mean after Adam and Eve God now changed His tactics?

So to you God is a changing God that does not know the end from the start?

Oh common



God has never changed
He is same God from ever lasting to ever lasting


God still chooses a wife for His beloveth through prayer s and revelations

tete7000:
If you say you yield you life to God and he doesn't help you make a choice in whom you marry, how does that corroborate your yielding to him? If you do God's will and follow his path, there is that one person whose path will converge with yours when you are looking for a spouse. If it God's will, it definitely can't be a random choice because God is not a random person.

There are so many decisions that will present itself in a person’s life once we arrive this cosmos.

My question is why is that its marriage time yall start looking for how to drag God into decisions u already made from ripples of other decisions

Yall chose school by yourself
Chose house on your own..
Took any available job after 1000 applications..
Even chose country to japa to
Heck! U even saw her big yansh before approaching..
But somehow yall drag God into it …….

Better be sure you are a good person before looking for a good wife.

Why should someone be considering 10 people for marriage

No. Next question.

Yes depending on your prayer point

peleson1:
So you mean after Adam and Eve God now changed His tactics?

So to you God is a changing God that does not know the end from the start?

Oh common



God has never changed
He is same God from ever lasting to ever lasting


God still chooses a wife for His beloveth through prayer s and revelations

The situation of garden of Eden is different from now ( after the fall ).

Hopefully you get it

Igbophobia:
Does God have a special person for you to marry? I'll answer you from the scripture and from experience. The answer is a big yes.

From scripture, remember when Adam was alone? The bible says God brought all the beasts to Adam and it was Adam that named them. There's a twist there: the bible says but none of the beasts was found fit for Adam. Later when God made Eve, Adam saw and named her because she was his flesh and bone.

In a spiritual sense, there is an eve for every Adam. If an Adam misses his Eve, he ends up with a beast.

On a personal level, I've been tempted to marry someone but God through His Spirit warned me not to.

This should be clear enough at least for the believer: marry in God's will or marry a beast. This could be why christians are admonished to at least marry another Christian. That minimum is for Christians who don't care about finding God's will in marriage.

What marrying another believer does for you is minimize your marital pains because they bear the same Spirit, unlike the calamity of marrying an unbeliever which effectively makes satan your father-in-law.

Marrying by 'finding a wife' is a sure recipe for disaster. If not now, later because even if you marry someone you think is a Christian, they may not actually be. For instance, there are many people in church today who are not Christians because their names are not written in heaven because they're walking in darkness such as fornication, hatred, internet fraud and many other sins. Would you say you found a good thing if you marry someone like that?

You see the logic you propounded above? It originates from Christians especially pastors who are guided, not by the Spirit of God but by their flesh.

Your place in my heart is reserved.

You spoke my mind.

If we claim God chose and God was wrong is it man that will now choose and be right.

If you can't trust The all seeing and all knowing God who know the heart of all men, is it your limited mind that doesn't see tomorrow that will now choose and choose well ?

ruffhandu:
The bolded should be replaced with "He knows"

I actually don't believe in this gospel many preachers bandy around saying because Adam said that thus God doesn't choose for people anymore. Lies. It depends on your connection with God and what you truly desire. I have heard many Christians who said God told them who to marry, and it is not like they were in any relationship with the lady.

Sure God knows who we are to marry, but it's not narrowed to just one person.

It's like a scale of preference 📊

God has His option and can reveal someone to you, but He will never impose such or such on you.

Finding a Partner, in a godly way involves Alot of things , because God's purpose must be first met before any other purpose of Man...

God's purpose in marriage doesn't necessarily stop in procreation but on som many other things which the both needs to be able to meet their life's purpose of their creations ...

This is why some Pastors find it difficult to chose a spouse because you can get one that will alter the divine purpose of God in your life, likewise in business as well, one can get a spouse that will alter things and so on...

My Ex gal told me to come to her domain state to start establishing my company because she can't leave her fashion designer works she has established and have workers to come and stay with me even with the promise that I will open a new one for her in my own domain State and make the others she opened as branches ..

So at last we didn't marry, meaning that our purposes didn't match , but you will still find a Man who can take because she is pretty, has big this and that , or can speak well, all those nonsense that fade away with time, to accept going to her State and starting afresh ...

So to me, marriage is solely on Purpose and the will of God, and if you follow these two, you will find out that you will eventually meet your God given spouse...

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advanceDNA:
There are so many decisions that will present itself in a person’s life once we arrive this cosmos.

My question is why is that its marriage time yall start looking for how to drag God into decisions u already made from ripples of other decisions

Yall chose school by yourself
Chose house on your own..
Took any available job after 1000 applications..
Even chose country to japa to
Heck! U even saw her big yansh before approaching..
But somehow yall drag God into it …….

If you live by faith, you should choose nothing by yourself, even the choice of food you eat should be dictated by God. The school you go, God should have input in it. God is interested in every aspect of a believer's life, down to what some of you will term mundane. It is why the scripture says "The just shall live by faith"

NO!
The only clause is that you pick anyone you are attracted to among believers! 1Corinthans 7:39🙂

advanceDNA:
Hey yall nairalanders…:.come and look at this guy…hahahahahaha!
His marriage his one year old and he's already forming authority on marriage…

Shebi u know the one they remove from adam’s rib na she run adam street….

Relax mr newly wed….. everybody must collect las las… if u doubt me…….:::ask why all these married pple like saying “marriage is not for the faint hearted”

Bro but there are some marriages that works right? I believe mine is one of them

Nnamdipapa:
Africans continuing with their religious phsycosis. Region is 100% man made for mass control of people

It's spelt psychosis ..

Drsnives:
Bro but there are some marriages that works right? I believe mine is one of them

Ofcouse marriage works but not because of all u are claiming… ur marriage is one year old where couples fvck like rabbits…u forming authority on marriage in such a short time of experience is just funny

ruffhandu:
The bolded should be replaced with "He knows"

I actually don't believe in this gospel many preachers bandy around saying because Adam said that thus God doesn't choose for people anymore. Lies. It depends on your connection with God and what you truly desire. I have heard many Christians who said God told them who to marry, and it is not like they were in any relationship with the lady.

Very disgusting and speculative narrative. And the zombies latch on to the falsehood and spread it with vigour