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Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It is a decision that can either make or break you. Therefore, it is important to think carefully before choosing your life partner. You need to look in the right places, and as long as you know where to look, you will face fewer problems in the future. Investigation and due diligence are key. This process is simple, affordable, and can be done by anyone without professional skills or expertise.

Simply check her social media accounts and observe what she does online. Since monetisation programmes began on TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, many young women have started displaying extreme behaviour online without restraint, as long as it brings financial gain. The competition for attention is intense — from discussing real or fabricated sexual experiences and fantasies to performing seductive dances. Online feuds with fictional rivals and shocking falsehoods have become common. Some individuals even sell sexual content to potential partners.

By closely examining the nature of her posts and her interactions in the comment section, you can gain insight into what you may face in the long term. If you happen to gain access to her private messages, that is an added advantage.

A notable example is Queen Nadia of Zimbabwe, who amassed over 2.6 million Facebook followers and over three billion views within two months by posting explicit videos. Many people flocked to her page as though she were offering salvation. Her account was eventually taken down.

If your partner has no social media presence or remains inactive, you may need to discover her true character through other means. Do the work now or face the consequences later in marriage. Remember, prevention is better than cure.

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that's what the world had turned to now,ladies had been naked up & down now so all manners of shameful things online because of money.may God have mercy on this present generation

You are 100 percent right. Before I married my ex. I saw her photos in clubs with other girls too. But love cover my eyes. Marriage wey no even last one year. Well, lesson learnt.

You might wanna ask IFA too. Do it.

angelboy01:
You are 100 percent right. Before I married my ex. I saw her photos in clubs with other girls too. But love cover my eyes. Marriage wey no even last one year. Well, lesson learnt.

sorry bro.

Don’t marry her at all or let her be a virgin if you must marry her..

PulaPower:
Don’t marry her at all or let her be a virgin if you must marry her..

I no won laugh u 😂😂

number of single mothers or divorce that will happen soon ehn

PulaPower:
Don’t marry her at all or let her be a virgin if you must marry her..

Truth is, virginity does not guarantee peace and right attitude from the woman.
I have lots of practical (real life) stories.

Most of the so-called virgin ladies have hidden desires or fantasies that they will still activate or pursue later as the life cycle of the marriage evolves.

It's only God by his mercy that can link a man to a loving and truly understanding wife.

Na him be say you no wan marry be that. 91% of ladies will fail that test.
But it’s a good start still, so you have an idea of the wahala that lies ahead.

Hmmmm 🤔
Well, we'll wanna see what this generation of HenZ and Gen Alpha turn out to be. 🤷🏽‍♀️

TimiofAbuja:
number of single mothers or divorce that will happen soon ehn

Women act same as children....no difference...they are so prone to self destruct....they still not know that their body is their value

angelboy01:
You are 100 percent right. Before I married my ex. I saw her photos in clubs with other girls too. But love cover my eyes. Marriage wey no even last one year. Well, lesson learnt.

Hope you scrutinized her opueh very well

Team "her past does not matter" have left the group.

Most girls in Nigeria are into hookup. The possibility of not marrying a hookup girl in Nigeria is 2 over 100. What do you expect in a country where the institutions have all failed? Where unemployment has risen like agege bread, and the society has lost its values?

Hmmm!

No matter how much you do.....but try your best!

Gems are hidden deep not exposed!

Forget all these stuffs. As far he or she is not a serial killer in the past, just aligned with their present changed life. You need to do more to educate dem with your principles and idealogies of life.

PulaPower:
Don’t marry her at all or let her be a virgin if you must marry her..

Any lady that tells you she’s a virgin is lying to you 95% of the time. No let these women package wetn you dy find give you o 😂

All that’s important is that she doesn’t have a reckless past, and how her previous relationships were ending. Were the men leaving her or was she leaving the men? This is one important question many men ignore, woman wey other men dy run from, make you sef run from am o.

Basicend:
Truth is, virginity does not guarantee peace and right attitude.

Ok. It's promiscuity that does!
Are you now relieved?

PulaPower:
Don’t marry her at all or let her be a virgin if you must marry her..

A man who marries a hookup girl is better than a jobless man who spends his time defending corrupt politicians up and down online.

Basicend :
Truth is, virginity does not guarantee peace and right attitude.

Somebody is looking for a sexually disciplined woman to marry u are talking about peace and right attitude…..

Is there any relationship btw sexual discipline and peace/right attitude?? yall just assume people that want sexually disciplined women dont want any other attribute

U pple should marry your retired oloshos that guarantees peace and right attitude …let those looking for sexually disciplined women face their problems

how about real bàd characters. a lady got married to my brother, she is not even a social media type or into all this things, but she have bàd characters and very violent. how do we checkmate those ones. because bad characters is the main thing

I didnt do any of that and I married right

When you check a girl's social media profile, don't look at what she posts.

This is the mistake most guys make just as the op made in this post.

The reason I say this is simple:

Most girls don't post anything incriminating on their profile.

Most girls don't even post anything at all on their profile except their pictures.

So, if you're looking at her profile, you're looking in the wrong place and won't find anything wrong.

Except for girls who are already bhadies. Those ones anyone can see them from a mile away.

What should you be checking?

Let me tell you: check her feeds. Yes, scroll through her Facebook feeds and reels, watch the kinds of videos she watches.

Open her tiktok, watch the kinds of videos she's watching.

This is important because these apps show you what you're agreeing with.

They show you the kind of ideology she have.

If she's a feminist and those ones who judge everything through feminism and trying to tell you, you can't do this or that, you'll see such videos popping up in her reels.

So before you think about marriage, get her comfortable and watch some videos together with her on her Facebook or tiktok account.

Don't let her skip some videos. Most girls will want to skip some videos that talk about things that will gas you up.

Let them all play. Watch for an hour or two and make your judgement.

Basicend:
Truth is, virginity does not guarantee peace and right attitude from the woman.
I have lots of practical (real life) stories.

Most of the so-called virgin ladies have hidden desires or fantasies that they will still activate or pursue later as the life cycle of the marriage evolves.

It's only God by his mercy that can link a man to a loving and truly understanding wife.

So what do you suggest? We should all marry Oloshos cuz virginity does not guarantee good character?

TheWolfen:
You might wanna ask IFA too. Do it.

What is IFA pls
I don't think the computer program u said can tell anything abt socal media

AderonkeOlaniyi:
Most girls in Nigeria are into hookup. The possibility of not marrying a hookup girl in Nigeria is 2 over 100. What do you expect in a country where the institutions have all failed? Where unemployment has risen like agege bread, and the society has lost its values?

Your comment is a scary reality.
Value system has been eroded.
Parental control has failed in many gen z homes, just a few are succeeding.

Love800:
Forget all these stuffs. As far he or she is not a serial killer in the past, just aligned with their present changed life. You need to do more to educate dem with your principles and idealogies of life.

Dey play. You want to educate an Olosho that she should repent? Are you serious?

Our elders say that a fowl that sleeps in tash houses in the village, when such fowl is taken to the city, the fowl will still look for tash houses to perch on.

Let me narrate something for you. I use to date this very gentle and lovely girl.

But there's one flaw with her. She loves to watch movies where the man maltreats his wife.

I wasn't even aware of this genre of movies until she came into my life.

Everytime she's watching a Nollywood movie, it's always this type of movies and you know what happens after she finishes?

She start saying 'this is how men are. This is how you guys are. The woman will be loving you and you'll be maltreating her"

In this type of movies the women rarely do anything wrong and any small provacation, the reactions of the men will be excessive and out of proportion.

So, each time she watches these sort of movies, I know one thing is certain: she will be angry with me over nothing and if I don't do things to take her mind off it or placate her, we won't make love that night.

So ladies are hugely influenced by what they read and watch on the internet.

Juice WRLD sang something "she was watching Jerry springer (a TV show where couples fight) and the next thing we are on Jerry springer".

So, forget what your girl posts. Most girls won't post unconventional stuff because their families are on social media as well.

Instead of checking her social media profile call her one afternoon or whatever time and ask her to open her Facebook or Instagram or tiktok and Watch what they watch, read what they read, and listen to their music.

Get into how they think because most times their thinking especially about their partner is shaped by the videos they watch. Check who they follow.

If your girl is constantly listening to "cheat back on any man who cheats on you" or "no girl should have one boyfriend unless she's married or engaged" such women form ideology to cheat on you.

So, check who your girl is listening to.

From there you go understand your woman and her ideas about life, God, yourself, marriage and everything else.

And if you like it, then continue.

Peace

angelboy01:
You are 100 percent right. Before I married my ex. I saw her photos in clubs with other girls too. But love cover my eyes. Marriage wey no even last one year. Well, lesson learnt.

Them carry you go south

Host78:
When you check a girl's social media profile, don't look at what she posts.

This is the mistake most guys make just as the op made in this post.

The reason I say this is simple:

Most girls don't post anything incriminating on their profile.

Most girls don't even post anything at all on their profile except their pictures.

So, if you're looking at her profile, you're looking in the wrong place and won't find anything wrong.

Except for girls who are already bhadies. Those ones anyone can see them from a mile away.

What should you be checking?

Let me tell you: check her feeds. Yes, scroll through her Facebook feeds and reels, watch the kinds of videos she watches.

Open her tiktok, watch the kinds of videos she's watching.

This is important because these apps show you what you're agreeing with.

They show you the kind of ideology she have.

If she's a feminist and those ones who judge everything through feminism and trying to tell you, you can't do this or that, you'll see such videos popping up in her reels.

So before you think about marriage, get her comfortable and watch some videos together with her on her Facebook or tiktok account.

Don't let her skip some videos. Most girls will want to skip some videos that talk about things that will gas you up.

Let them all play. Watch for an hour or two and make your judgement.

OG for a reason. Greetings!

bobogogo:
Your comment is a scary reality.
Value system has been eroded.
Parental control has failed in many gen z homes, just a few are succeeding.

It's indeed scary but you don't have to be scared if you know the rules and norms.